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| Author: | Winchester [ Sun May 22, 2011 11:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to get in the friend zone? |
This may sound a little different to usual posts, but I seem to have a problem making girl 'friends'. I'm no demi god but I do quite well with attracting girls and getting with them, but I seem to have problems making friends with a lot of girls. I have to admit I hit on/game most girls that I find attractive from the get go, as long as they aren't attached to my friends or anything, and I guess I usually start subconsciously hitting on girls I'm not particularly interested in as well. I've got myself into a mind set that girls should just be into me and its up to me if I like them or not, which is good when trying to get with the girls I like (I guess this is what I was working towards by getting into the game), but bad when just trying to make girl friends. I'm looking for some advice on how to just make friends with girls, so like hanging out with them in a non-sexual way? example. I have a new Spanish SPAM(at university) and she's good looking, but I'm not very interested, but she just doesn't seem too interested in hanging out watching films or whatever, whereas my guy SPAM just seems to connect with these girls like a some sort of gay best friend, not sure how he does it. Any advice would be appreciated, thanks. |
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Mon May 23, 2011 8:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How to get in the friend zone? |
Quote: This may sound a little different to usual posts, but I seem to have a problem making girl 'friends'. I'm no demi god but I do quite well with attracting girls and getting with them, but I seem to have problems making friends with a lot of girls.
It's pretty simple don't escalate, avoid touch, and show true generosity(it's not a bad thing but for a good friendship generosity should be non-reciprocal). The issues of every AFC, and how they consistently end up in the friend zone for added benefit you need to avoid flirting, I have a problem doing this but the lack of touch and escalation normally helps them realize that the relationship is limited to friendship.
I have to admit I hit on/game most girls that I find attractive from the get go, as long as they aren't attached to my friends or anything, and I guess I usually start subconsciously hitting on girls I'm not particularly interested in as well. I've got myself into a mind set that girls should just be into me and its up to me if I like them or not, which is good when trying to get with the girls I like (I guess this is what I was working towards by getting into the game), but bad when just trying to make girl friends. I'm looking for some advice on how to just make friends with girls, so like hanging out with them in a non-sexual way? example. I have a new Spanish SPAM(at university) and she's good looking, but I'm not very interested, but she just doesn't seem too interested in hanging out watching films or whatever, whereas my guy SPAM just seems to connect with these girls like a some sort of gay best friend, not sure how he does it. Any advice would be appreciated, thanks. |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon May 23, 2011 11:05 am ] |
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Ask her for relationship advice about a girl you're seeing Explain what your "type" is, making sure she's clearly NOT it, even ask her if she has any cute single girlfriends who you might like Don't escalate past friendly touching Say how cool it is you guys can hang out like this / what a good friend she is for doing X or Y or whatever |
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| Author: | Winchester [ Mon May 23, 2011 5:20 pm ] |
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Sound good, thanks for the ideas. |
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