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Author:  Robzilla [ Tue May 10, 2011 9:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Confused if she wants me or not
So, theres this girl, I met earlier in the school year, and we became really good friends. A few months later I told her that I developed a feelings for her during spring break and she said she only seen me as a friend, so I accepted that and continued to be friends, and got with other females. It seems that recently she been trying to get my attention and we've had some good convos, and experiences, and when I was feeling the vibe she liked me at the strongest point, she told me about this boy that rides our bus, and how she went out with him for less than a week, because she felt sorry for him, so I asked her has she felt sorry for anyone else and she said no just him, but her little sister came out of nowhere and said she feels sorry for you, but she wouldn't date you, is this bad or good? Do I still have a chance?
Author:  thumper858 [ Tue May 10, 2011 9:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Confused if she wants me or not
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So, theres this girl, I met earlier in the school year, and we became really good friends. A few months later I told her that I developed a feelings for her during spring break and she said she only seen me as a friend, so I accepted that and continued to be friends, and got with other females. It seems that recently she been trying to get my attention and we've had some good convos, and experiences, and when I was feeling the vibe she liked me at the strongest point, she told me about this boy that rides our bus, and how she went out with him for less than a week, because she felt sorry for him, so I asked her has she felt sorry for anyone else and she said no just him, but her little sister came out of nowhere and said she feels sorry for you, but she wouldn't date you, is this bad or good? Do I still have a chance?
DUDE! WOW!

I'm sorry dude, but the answer is no. From her sisters response, I would say you have no chance at all. "She feels sorry for you, but she wouldn't date you". That says it all.

I've had the bug and can understand how women can make you feel, but I would let this one go and continue to game other women. There's nothing wrong with having female friends. Sometimes they come as an advantage.
Author:  Robzilla [ Tue May 10, 2011 10:08 pm ]
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its a long story, cause her sister was tellin me about a 2 weeks ago that she like me,
but now her sister has a grudge against me, for no reason... and her friends keep bringing her up around me and i dont even no them, and people telling me we should hook up. the whole situation is confusing.
Author:  thumper858 [ Tue May 10, 2011 10:19 pm ]
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its a long story, cause her sister was tellin me about a 2 weeks ago that she like me,
but now her sister has a grudge against me, for no reason... and her friends keep bringing her up around me and i dont even no them, and people telling me we should hook up. the whole situation is confusing.
Did the girl you like speak up when her sister said this? Did she try to defend it at all or did she just go with it?

Be nonchalant about the whole thing. If she really does like you, then it'll all come out eventually. If she doesn't then you haven't worried about it. Don't stress over things you really have no control over.
Author:  Robzilla [ Wed May 11, 2011 2:58 am ]
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She was saying the only reason her sister said that is because she has a grudge against me, thats how I found out, that she has a grudge on me, and she was really mad at her sister, thats just about it... And I see where you comin from with being nonchalant, thats how I played it.

Do you think that coulda been a "shit test" or whatever yall call them?
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Wed May 11, 2011 7:48 am ]
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1.) Be nonchalant about the whole thing. If she really does like you, then it'll all come out eventually.

2.) If she doesn't then you haven't worried about it. Don't stress over things you really have no control over.
I disagree with 1. This makes no sense to me, he has been doing that. Acting liking he doesn't care. I am not saying to go all nice guy, but at some point you have to find out where you stand. This happens from escalation.

I completely agree with 2, great advice but it has nothing to do with the situation. He has plenty of control, he can get her alone and escalate. Pretty simple.

Learn to read her body language. If you learn these things then you will know whether she is attracted to you, rather then have these thoughts. Go read her body language and figure out whether she is attracted to you.
Author:  Bodega [ Wed May 11, 2011 10:34 am ]
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The title of the thread sums it up for me mate, 'does she want me?' - forget if SHE wants you, YOU'RE the one who decides if YOU want HER. If you go into things with that sort of mindset mate you're going to limit your success big time.

But, since you asked, i'm not too sure that she is interested. Because she knows you like her, I think she takes it for granted. If you came across as harder to get, she might be more inclined to put the effort in to 'chase' you so to speak.

Regardless, i'd just carry on gaming others.. that way the worst case scenario is you pull other girls, and the best scenario is she gets jealous, you get her AND other girls.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Wed May 11, 2011 10:36 am ]
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Your biggest mistake was telling her you had feelings for her like that.

Your second mistake was trying to pry out of her if you could maybe get a pity date.

Your third mistake is that you're still caring about if you've got a chance.

I would definitely focus on other girls at the moment. If you're gonna have any chance with her, follow my friendzone recipe how-to-get-out-of-the-friendzone-vt89597.html
Author:  Solteris [ Thu May 12, 2011 5:57 am ]
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There is only one viable solution for this dilemma.....revenge bang the little sister. It's the only way.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu May 12, 2011 11:59 am ]
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There is only one viable solution for this dilemma.....revenge bang the little sister. It's the only way.
Concur! :P
Author:  Little Panda [ Thu May 12, 2011 4:46 pm ]
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There is only one viable solution for this dilemma.....revenge bang the little sister. It's the only way.
Ha!
Author:  Robzilla [ Thu May 12, 2011 9:56 pm ]
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thanks yall and I got everything figured out, I'm already talking to another chick, and I'm gone just small talk the original girl to confuse her, and have her wondering why I'm not showing much interest, but every now and then I'm gonna show her a little interest just to confuse her even more, and I'm gone hop in a relationship, break it off after a month, while I'm in the relationship and stop all contact with the original girl I'm actually interested in. When I get out my relationship I'm gonna call the original girl 2-3 days later and Just to see how she doin, and get her thinking about me, call her 2 days after that and subtly throw in the idea that we should chill some time, and take it from there. Does that sound good?

Oh and I've read all of poetic body language post, and looked at how to get out of the friendzone.
Author:  DeeDubStyle [ Fri May 13, 2011 8:02 am ]
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Dont get in a relationship for the sake of making another girl jealous.
Just break contact with this girl for a while. Then re initiate, and escalate or something.
Author:  kinorc [ Fri May 13, 2011 2:59 pm ]
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There is only one viable solution for this dilemma.....revenge bang the little sister. It's the only way.
You are correct sir...or her friends...

Don't tell a girl u like her n see what she says...show her, n watch how she responds...I wouldn't make an effort n I definitely wouldn't be shooting for a pitty date. Don't get in any relationship, just fuck other girls (I take it ur in high school, so ppl put dumb labels on ish, just be like eh). Once she sees how well u r doing for urself she may or may not dig u...if she starts tryin to get closer with u, be gentle n brush her off, then POUNCE! Fuck her and have that be that. Once u realize this planet isn't hurting for hot girls, they r not rare, they r not special, u don't have to put up with their bullshit to fuck them, in fact putting up with their bullshit lowers ur chance of fucking them, you will see she isn't that important...hope this helps.
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