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Author:  Fictional [ Wed Mar 23, 2011 3:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Need help understanding what natural game is
Ive asked a few people but no one can really give me a clear answer. Im a bit confused
Author:  fakehighfive [ Wed Mar 23, 2011 5:54 pm ]
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it's kind of the opposite to the mystery method, rather than use dhv's, canned lines and openers and so on you more try to concentrate on being yourself.

obviously it's not completely natural as you are playing games when the situation rises but for the most part you are trying to be yourself, go with the flow but most importantly stay in control
Author:  Don Suave [ Wed Mar 23, 2011 6:17 pm ]
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Ive asked a few people but no one can really give me a clear answer. Im a bit confused
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It's having a strong foundation, an unshakable confidence and strong belief in yourself.

It's about having standards, having the abundance mindset, not settling for less, believing ' you're the man' ( in a non-egoistical way) and finding women who like you for who you are without the useless blabber or games...

When you see yourself as the man you don't need to play games.
I woul say being natural/ direct is the epitome of the game

Hope this helps, ;)
Don Suave
Author:  Fictional [ Wed Mar 23, 2011 6:58 pm ]
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Thanks cleared that up brilliantly
Author:  Donnie Black [ Thu Apr 14, 2011 12:04 am ]
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I think natural game is the way forward. With so much canned material out there it seems easy to get caught out. Or am I just being paranoid?
Author:  Hansel McDonald [ Thu Apr 14, 2011 1:46 am ]
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Natural game FTW. I'm a big fan of natural game.
Author:  Posseidon [ Mon Apr 18, 2011 5:42 am ]
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Everything you do from what youve learned, is essentially an act, it needs to come from yourself, confidently, no script, just ....naturally.
Author:  ricky98 [ Mon Apr 18, 2011 4:05 pm ]
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natural game is to say what you really mean, not in a manipulative way, but in a direct way, it's to go after what you want.. your way.
Its just a different point of view.. that woman are not scary, that you dont have to be afraid of them, but that you can have fun with them! if only you can be yourself.. And that takes courage (at the begining) ;)
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Tue Apr 19, 2011 9:35 am ]
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natural game is to say what you really mean, not in a manipulative way, but in a direct way, it's to go after what you want.. your way.
Its just a different point of view.. that woman are not scary, that you dont have to be afraid of them, but that you can have fun with them! if only you can be yourself.. And that takes courage (at the begining) ;)
I disagree. We are all manipulative, we all try and advertise our best self. To me(not necessarily everyone) it is manipulative for you to shade the truth, tell the truth but leave out obvious moments of deception. This is a natural part of courtship, and while I never lie, I certainly leave out certain aspects of myself during the initial interaction. We paint ourselves as our "Best" selves so that we may appear to be a suitable mate, this is the whole courtship process in general.

Natural game is quite arguable. Some consider it this or that, but to me it is script less game. It is where you convince the girl to like You, not your Routine. It's always good to understand the process of attraction because you can help improve yourself to the point of becoming a beneficial mate to women, but it helps you avoid creating or following a sales routine, or selling yourself temporarily(how I feel about scripted game).
Author:  jurupa [ Tue Apr 19, 2011 10:29 am ]
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Natural game is when you do and don't think. This means you open a girl without thinking up of line before hand you just say one without thinking it. As well as you don't do any crap like the cube routine or any other gimmick as you don't think what to do to get the girl, but you just do.
Author:  Fictional [ Tue Apr 19, 2011 10:37 am ]
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definately think that that is the best answer so far
Author:  cedius [ Mon May 02, 2011 4:37 am ]
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Routine pick up vs. Natural game...it's called game for a reason and I feel that "Don Suave" hit it right on the head.

Although, canned material may resonate with others better, it's trully what works for you...it's why we as humans have so much variance, what works for me, may not work for you.

I've done both, I feel you can grow from natural game...it's more about growing as a person and knowing yourself...once you know what you really are about, then you can trully understand what you want...my problem with scripted game is, once you run out of lines and routines, then what...unless your goal is just to bang her and run, then more power to you! There are some cool excercises I did that seemed like a stupid waste of time, but the more I did them, the more I had to dig deep about what I really wanted, it really opened my perspectives about who I really was!

Some say there is a time and place for all types of game, trully, it's up to you with what you really want and what comes easier to you.
Author:  Deadeyexx [ Wed May 04, 2011 6:47 pm ]
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Natural game is synonymous with having high social value I've found. Basicially, the natural is so popular and visible just being himself that opportunities fall into his lap.
Author:  thumper858 [ Wed May 04, 2011 7:29 pm ]
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I think natural game is the way forward. With so much canned material out there it seems easy to get caught out. Or am I just being paranoid?
I feel the same way sometimes. Someone replied to a post and copied a question someone asked back in 1999. PUA theory has been around for a very long time. I've only learned about it in the last 5 years and it works for me to this day.

With that said, I try to mix natural game with PUA sometimes. I may use a canned opener, but won't do any gimmicks after I get my foot in the door.
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