Quote: Usually if you think you're reading too much into something, you probably are. I say relax and enjoy yourself. As for grabbing lunch or whatever, I'd just frame that as something I'm doing anyways and tell the girl, "come with me, it'll be fun," instead of asking. I'd meet any resisting with some teasing, tailoring it to the situation.
I tried this today with one of them, I appreciate the advice. It worked pretty well [considering it ended in rejection that may not be 100% rejection]. But it got her engaged and talking to me! And I totally looked alpha, so thank you eromontamrood! So here's how it went down:
I get to class pretty early, sit in front with a guy I've always talked too. One of the girls sits down behind me, one goes to the back of the room (one that hit on me a while ago), and the 3rd is a no-show.
So, we do group work as usual. We STARE each other down. And do I mean STARE. I write my name on the paper, she says "Oh come on, not like that!" and proceeds to take my pencil, erase vigorously, and rewrite my name. Definitely an IOI! Shit like this continues. At the end of class, she slowly puts her stuff away, making me convinced she wants me to approach.
So, I'm a bit nervous but I tell myself that I will be kicking my ass if I don't talk to the girl. It is NORMAL to talk to the girl. So here's how it went:
"So watchya doin right now?"
Ehh, nothin really.
So I say, "I gotta go pick up some tick tacks and grab a quick coffee before my exam, you're more than welcome to join."
She says she's got to get ready to do rugby practice. But we're still walking and she was smiling ear to ear. She was definitely enjoying the moment.
So I say "You do the same on Thursdays too, don't ya?", and she was like "Yep."
So then I figured I'd go direct. I like direct. So I took my phone out and hold it out to her and say "Well, you got a # don't you?"
She's like "yeah, BUT"
Wait till you hear this one, I NEVER saw it coming!!!!
"my GIRLFRIEND wouldn't like it much."
We get talking a bit and it turns out she's a bisexual in an LTR w/a woman. She was still being VERY friendly so I KINOd a few times anyway, definitely felt a more trusting vibe whenever I did it.
I realize now that I SHOULD have dropped the line on a 3some (guys, I really think the possibility was there).
So when we got to her dorm we parted ways, but she said she was very flattered and something along the lines like "I made her day." If only every rejection was like this, we'd all be hitting on girls all day long!!!
So...... What can I do about Thursday? There's the 2 other girls in the class who were NOT in earshot when I started gaming this chick, though one or 2 people FROM the class overheard (and even one pointed out my ballsyness which was cool!).
Anyways, I'm wondering what's the best plan of attack? Should I stick with trying to get the threesome on Thursday, or would I be best trying to game one of the other girls?
Let me know, I'm soooo pumped to sarge. I'm loving the day game at school, people are very receptive!
Addendum:
Thanks to all of you for your advice. My confidence is increasing every day. I actually felt a RUSH (a very nice rush) after talking with this girl. I actually enjoyed it a LOT. It's making approaching in front of others easier. Just gotta keep practicing.
Addendum 2:
If I don't go for the 3some, would this be appropriate to befriend this girl? She seems like a genuinely good person with social status---the kind of person that would DHV me just for hanging with her.
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So of course I take the opportunity. It's a part of my natural game. I must be the man. And the man always sits next to hot chicks. That's what the man likes to do!
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