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Author:  Arwas [ Wed Mar 16, 2011 9:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Help with ex!
Basically, been together 5 months, i gave her my life! Gave up everything for her! My friends, Rugby, gym, family! I was with her constantly! And then she broke up with me, she added her ex, which is a guy i completely got threatened by, then added this guy who is known for going for newly single girls and has been talking to him for ages. I was crying miserably! And then 2 days ago, I called her, and she told me "You are fake, I dont like you, i dont want to see you hear you or anything anymore ever again" She hung up, I still do love her... As for today, i found out im having a house party and I decided to call her to invite her she laughed, she started flirting and teasing me, i told her, why do you flirt with me so fast? she said "well, I can do whatever I want now, flirt with whoever I want and she went on" She is known for a flirt, the flirtiest and the most known player of all, quite amazingly lookin as well, and we are now 18... She is easily manipulated, and completely stopped loving me in a week, she broke up with me last week. We both have bbm yet deleted each other, and i told her,"If you wana get in my houes its better you add me on bbm so we talk" and she said, i doubt ill do that.. She is playing games and teasing, she is completely trying to play me and put me in her friend zone..

I need your advice PUA's out there, I need to go on a journey of stopping to talk about her to my friends, because she knows I do that, I need to make her CHASE me! I love her sooo soo much and it hurts to see her flirt around school! Because SHE DOES! And she doesnt care what I feel! I want to get her to beg for my toes! And I NEED YOUR HELP! FAST! PLEASE! How do I make this flirty most known player girl to chase me... THANKS GUYS!

Appriciated and hope to see replies very soon!
Author:  Arn111 [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 8:55 am ]
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I have to tell you what you don't want to hear. STEP UP and FORGET HER. You said it yourself, she doesn't care what you feel. Why would you want to be with a girl like that? Don't get me wrong though, I know it's hard, when you have so strong feelings for a girl. BUT she is a manipulative girl who will not, at this point, chase after you.

What you should do is freeze her out, and start seeing other girls. Only talk about your feelings for her to friends you can trust. Be nice to her, but don't give her any attention. Take one day at a time, and trust me when I say, thinks will get better.

/arn
Author:  Arwas [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 11:05 am ]
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I obviously know that! What kills is that she is literally the best looking thing at school! And it kills me zoo much! I choke next to her! When I played her into my arms, and won her manipulative figure, she all of a sudden got power and I can't even play any girl! Tomorrow there is a party and she's gone be there, and it's all guys, her my best friend and another girl, I know it'll end up bad, I just need advice on how to play shit out!

I thank you solo much for the quick reply! I'm basically shaking all day and can't sleep! She is playing me! And then says, I like you as a friend bla bla, please help!

Thanks!
Author:  Arn111 [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 11:52 am ]
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Think about it; you gave up everything for her. You're still after her, and she knows that. If you played her at the start, then that was what attracted her, not the AFC nice guy afterward. And this will get you into the friend zone.

You say that you lock down around her. Then I recommend not being around her. Screw that party, go on another party, or a date or whatever.

Thinking that she is the best looking girl at school is probably your mind fucking with you. You can argue this with me, because I honestly have no idea. But you loving her so much will put her in very high value; in your own head.

You seem very determined to get her back. My experience is that no matter what tactic you use. And no matter if you get her back or not. You will regret doing it.

She is a dead end, the faster you can move on from her the better.

/arn
Author:  SmashyD [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 12:09 pm ]
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FTOW!

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Author:  Arwas [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 12:41 pm ]
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I go to an international schoo in London, I have 15 girls in my senior year, and she is the hottest of all, as for younger girls, all proper chubby and not good. So yes she is the hottest man... It kills me to see her text this guynconstantly she is on the phone all the time! The party is at mine! That is what's the worst thing! I just want to be with her! I miss it so bad, and trust me I KnOw I sound like the most sperate guy in the world, but I want to show her that I am not going to be played around! I am a rugby captain, I gym, I have all the school on my side, ªº I know I can get girls, but she is the best I ever had and I have 3 months left in here.... Please help me!
Author:  SmashyD [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 1:33 pm ]
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Dude...

You live in LONDON!!! What are you doing getting onesied by the stuck up bitch at your school... she is obviously getting too much attention there...

MOVE ON!!

There are thousands of 8+ single and not stuck up girls in london, the sooner you Fuck Ten Other Women, the sooner you will realise what a whiney little vag you are being...

sorry if it sounds harsh, but someone else has said it and i will too...

you are swimming in a tiny pond at your school, go play in the ocean! and be a shark!
Author:  Arwas [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 2:12 pm ]
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One bigger issue... She is best friends with all of my best friends.. There is no way to solve it, ignoring her wud make me a douche, and idk how to act! I am so disappointed in myself!
Author:  Game Official [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 6:03 pm ]
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Treat her like a friend-only when shes around your boys but do NOT contact her what so ever when you're not around them. She'll come crawling back.
Author:  Arwas [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 6:13 pm ]
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Hey, I think you are right, news, after reading everything today, I called up my other ex who was in town visiting from canada and told her to get ready and im taking her to the gym, so we went to the gym, had a good time, and i dropped her home, now I feel completely guilty.. And I know that as soon as my recent ex finds out shes gone hate me forever.. And I dont want that... Tomorrow will be the crazies night because both my exes are there, and I wud siuggest myself to put my atention on my other ex, then my recent ex will get crazy, but as I know her, she will hook up with another guy, in my own house, which would be extremely disrespectful, but I dont know how I am going to act tomorrow, because when I am heated up I dothings without thinking! :( help?
Author:  pimp0z [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 7:08 pm ]
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I feel you bro... I was in a similar situation long time ago. :)


You shouldn't give her attention at the upcoming party. What you should do is focus on the other girls and let her notice it, but don't force it because you may look like you're begging for attention.

I know it feels stupid. She might act like she's upset, don't fall for it.
Author:  Arwas [ Fri Mar 18, 2011 4:13 pm ]
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hey guys... Well, felt like I was letting go yesterday.. And It felt good but bad at the same time I guess. I do miss her a lot so its kind of a disadvantage.. as for the party tonight, 15 girls 5 boys.. she isnt coming becuase she is ditching my party to go out dirnking with the guy shes been texting constantly... I feel like crap.. and if she hooks up with him tonight, i got no hope or reason to do anyhting, it kind of sucks.. especially imagining her with another guy.. hope to hear from you guys soon
Author:  tomatoRAWR [ Sat Mar 19, 2011 12:40 am ]
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Shes going to hook up with another guy if she hasn't already i hate to break it to you. My ex was the same, straight player. Sure enough she pushed me as far as i could go on her leash like this ones doing to you. Sure enough i said fuck you to her and month later she came back and i told her no. just forget about her, talk to other girls for the sake of talking to girls. Thats what got me through it. There are better girls out there, find them, dont waste your time. Just have a good time, thats what partying is about right?
Author:  Arwas [ Sat Mar 19, 2011 2:54 am ]
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Hmm.. I just had the party, ex ended up not turning up cus she was sick, now, my other ex tried to get with me and I told her no, now iv gotten drunk and I miss my recent ex, I ISS HER SO MUCH! I WANT OCALL HER! GUYS HELP ME! PLEASE I NEED HER BACK!!!!PLEASE!
Author:  Kupid [ Sat Mar 19, 2011 11:00 am ]
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From my point of view it looks to me, that you're just seeking for revenge, cause she broke off with you. She hurt your feelings, now you wanna strike back, am I right?
Anyway
Dude I've tried that and it didn't made me feel any better, I torn a girl emotionaly apart and I felt like shit cause of it. Don't do it.
Advance and find yourself another better girl. If you think, that there is no better, more beautiful, sexy and funny girl out there, believe me, just swing by your local mall next Sunday, you'll get the picture :)
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