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| Author: | Tito_ [ Wed Mar 16, 2011 3:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Need some advice, been out of the game for a while! |
Hey guys what's up... New to this forum and site, thought of joining a while back but thought why the he'll not. Alright, long story short, ive taken myself out of the dating field for about 5 months to focus on myself and get my life together and goals. I've been talking to this girl Fir about 6 weeks now and seeing her for the last 2 weeks. We have a good time when we go out and get loose but she kind of has two different sides, when were jus hanging out doing nothing in a coffee shop or etc she acts a little too stuck up and I get a cold ish vibe from her sometimes and for some reason it makes me lose a little confidence kinda making me feel like a douche, but when were out in public I'm straight up alpha and running shit; I can touch her, kiss her, hold her, just be with her for real, rather than just kinda butting heads about nothing when were in a coffee shop talking. I don't like revealing too much about myself and keeping it simple and just letting my body language do the talking, she although stops me sometimes and says she wants to take it slow when I get a bit aggressive. She makes up rules about us not being able to talk everyday otherwise we will get bored of each other and lose interest, she made up some gay excuse about maybe being busy this weekend which I think is a front to go along with "her rules and not seeing each other as much to jinx it". I've been out of the game so long that I've lost some skill and keep acting paranoid like I'm the problem or something, I feel like with every step I take ahead she takes me back 2 with her "rules" and minor ego. I am 100% cocky funny in my personality, wondering if I'm kind of chasing her and doing too much, I am looking to not get caught In a cycle of chasing a girl. Help me out guys lol I've been out of the game for a while and feel like I'm a rookie again lol |
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Wed Mar 16, 2011 8:07 am ] |
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Do me a favor, act like you didn't write it, and then read it. Lose all your personal emotional attachments to those words and read it. This is a very difficult task to perform. You will learn something about yourself with your own words. You seem to have 2 different sides, confident side and your more inner self is an insecure clingy person. You say she is cold, I'll bet some of it is just because you are showing inappropriate behavior at the wrong time. Some of it is she is reacting to you, meaning she is all ok with that behavior when you are that guy, but when you aren't and you are awkward she reacts "cold". You also spoke of a disagreement, people often react negatively when in a disagreement and become cold to the opponent. For all you know your body language was saying you were better then her and she reacted similarly. A lot of these questions are stemming from your lack of confidence, keep on building it and these question will stop being diluted by your emotion. |
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| Author: | Don Suave [ Fri Mar 25, 2011 12:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need some advice, been out of the game for a while! |
Quote: Hey guys what's up...
1- Why would you want to talk to this girl everyday?New to this forum and site, thought of joining a while back but thought why the he'll not. Alright, long story short, ive taken myself out of the dating field for about 5 months to focus on myself and get my life together and goals. I've been talking to this girl Fir about 6 weeks now and seeing her for the last 2 weeks. We have a good time when we go out and get loose but she kind of has two different sides, when were jus hanging out doing nothing in a coffee shop or etc she acts a little too stuck up and I get a cold ish vibe from her sometimes and for some reason it makes me lose a little confidence kinda making me feel like a douche, but when were out in public I'm straight up alpha and running shit; I can touch her, kiss her, hold her, just be with her for real, rather than just kinda butting heads about nothing when were in a coffee shop talking. I don't like revealing too much about myself and keeping it simple and just letting my body language do the talking, she although stops me sometimes and says she wants to take it slow when I get a bit aggressive. She makes up rules about us not being able to talk everyday otherwise we will get bored of each other and lose interest, she made up some gay excuse about maybe being busy this weekend which I think is a front to go along with "her rules and not seeing each other as much to jinx it". I've been out of the game so long that I've lost some skill and keep acting paranoid like I'm the problem or something, I feel like with every step I take ahead she takes me back 2 with her "rules" and minor ego. I am 100% cocky funny in my personality, wondering if I'm kind of chasing her and doing too much, I am looking to not get caught In a cycle of chasing a girl. Help me out guys lol I've been out of the game for a while and feel like I'm a rookie again lol 2- What do you want with her? 3- Have you kissed her? Had sex with her? 4- Why would you follow HER rules? Why not set your OWN rules? 5- If you don't like how she behaves why do you keep running after her? Is she the only girl available in your area? Ask yourself these questions. Hopefully they help you. Cheers. Don Suave |
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