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| Author: | Charade [ Mon Jan 31, 2011 10:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Compatibility?? |
Is it me, or does the entire PUA community place zero value and consideration when if comes to compatibility?? I mean, compatibility plays a giant part of attraction as well, which is not always tangible. No matter how good your game is, if there is no or very little compatibility, I can’t imagine an approach being too successful. Naturally, people are attracted and interested in people they feel share something in common, and you can’t exactly ‘create’ compatibility. I usually have a knack for spotting out women so I can see compatibility with just by looking at them and could tell we would connect (97 percent of the time I’m right) as opposed to approaching someone who is attractive but see no compatibility. I’ve had several failed approached when saw someone who was attractive only to find out that we have nothing in common and nothing significant to connect on. This is the great pitfall I personally find in pick-up artistry. Do you guys consider compatibility when you approach women? |
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| Author: | Mr_Amazing [ Mon Feb 07, 2011 2:50 pm ] |
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compatibility, based on your definition of seeing a chick and knowing she will vibe with you, does exist in the PUA community. Its called lowering your standards. There is no way of knowing if you are gonna be some "girl`s type" just by looking at her. However, you can spot chicks that are open to talk to just about anyone pretty easily...the 4s, 5s, and 6s. |
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| Author: | BrianFL2 [ Tue Mar 01, 2011 8:42 pm ] |
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OP, you say that compatibility and attraction go together, but you are wrong. First you have to get attraction, then over time you determine if there is compatibility. Other than obvious things like having kids, being in a drastically different subculture, etc. you have no idea if she is compatible, and even then there may not be enough mutual attraction. |
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| Author: | IamGuru [ Wed Mar 02, 2011 8:58 am ] |
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Quote: compatibility, based on your definition of seeing a chick and knowing she will vibe with you, does exist in the PUA community.
I agree, you're making assumptions based on... cloths? body language? or even voice?I don't think that's a very fair or even accurate way of determining, whether or not you're compatible or have anything in common. Talk to girls, that's the only way you're going to find out if you have a connection or not, and if you do, then build attraction, or do it in a way you feel comfortable with. |
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