I haven't ever really seen much around here posted in relation to "getting into the zone". Does anyone ever give themselves a bit of a pep talk/confidence boost before they go out somewhere (bar, party, coffee shop) where they have a chance to meet girls? Or better yet, if they know a certain girl is going to be where they're going and they don't wanna psych themselves out and fuck up?
For example, I'm going to a rec game right away, and this girl on my team (who came to a game last year) is apparently going to be there. She's a HB9, all around awesome girl.. real girlfriend material. I also found out via facebook (the event page) that she's gonna be at a party I'm going to later. We'll recognize each other at the game but don't know each other that well. I'm not too worried about talking to her at the game, but more at the party later. I don't wanna get too focused on her and act like a try hard, or psych myself out.. but I want to talk to her a bit, make a good first impression, and hopefully score her # by the end of the night.
How do you guys focus on your game and not screw shit up?
This is one quote that I saw on here months ago, my apologies I can't remember who said it.. but I often read this before I go out.. "Don't take life so seriously. You know what, we are all going to get old and die. Let go of all your insecurities and just go for it."