The Ditz.
Ok I've been having some trouble with this one. This girls cute as hell even though she's a total ditz and acts totaly innocent (though I know she isn't). I've vaguely known this girl for about 2.5 years. I met her when I was with my ex (who she kinda knows). In about my first 6 weeks of game I started flirting with her on msn. She flirted back alot but would never arrange to meet me. I ran into her at the local pub one night in this time, kino, smiles, flirting etc things were going well. I left her with her friends for a while and went to drink with my mates. Later that night I went up to the nightclub to see her. She seemed pretty interested when I saw her. We were heading in side (holding hands) when she says "hey just wait a second" and went and sat with these guys she knew and never came back.We had an argument the next day on msn and I told her to f**k off. She kept pestering me and trying to reinitiate the conflict untill I blocked her.
Anyway just over a year later I sent her a text to see how she was. She relyed pretty quikley and show'd abit of interest but she seems a little flaky. Here's whats been happening.
Me: Hello little cheff. I had an awasome steak at the wenty pub a few weeks ago. Lol I would have come and said hello but I was affraid you'd spit in it
. How you been anyway?Joel
Her: Unfortunately I'm not a cheff and didn't get the job at the pub
. What you been up to?Me: Been a crazy year, I'm working as a car salesman now, livin at wenty again, been hanging in the city alot, abit broke this christmas though
lol. Anyway I'm off to bed talk later.Goodnight.
Then about 5 days later I reinitiate the chat.
Me: Hey hb, how'd your chrissy go?
Her: It was good.. What about ur's??
Me: Not feeling very elaborate are you, not as crazy as you used to be??
Her: You saying I've changed?? Aw thats awsome sounds like a perfect xmas.
Me: Well IDK, we're 3 texts into talking again lol. You just seem less animated and I like that crazy chick.
Her: I'm still like the person I always am just not through text.
Me: Ok fair enough, lets hang out next week then. When are you free?
Her: I'm free friday
Me: Next friday sounds good. Movies?
Her: Sounds Good
Then on new years I texted her (3 days later) "hey you in ktown town tonite?" and got no reply.
5 days after new years (hadn't had any credit) I texted her again. "Hey ive been meaning to text you but i ran out of credit. How was your new years? Have fun?" and agiain no reply. At this point I figured I'd escalated to fast and playtraped myself.
The next day I called her. Addmitedly I was a little but nervouse when I called her. She answered in a wierd shaky voice and we had an awkward conversation for 5 minutes and it died out. She also told me here that she had to work on friday so movies are off (wasn't suprised).
After the phonecall I thought I'd flip the tables a little bit and texted her strait after.
Me: Lol that was painfull. Whats up?
Her: Painfull?? Why
Me: IDK you just sounded wierd. Maybe you're nervouse lol IDK. It's all good. If you still want to hang out let me know when you are free.
Her: Sure no problem
I didn't sound weird you did too. I'm sorry it was an unexpected call.Me: Well I was gonna ask what happend with the chef thing? I hope you didn't just give up.
Her: I've been rejected by over a dozen places. You can only be rejected a certain amount of times till you see no point trying anymore. But no I havent given up.
Me: Ouch! Well theres gota be a reason. Could it be your interview skills? I know I had to raise the bar I got into sales.
NO REPLY
Last night I was reading some bristol lair text game article and decided to give it a go on her.
Me: Hey lamaduck
(long ass story here) how was your weekend?Her: Pretty quiet and ur's?
Me: Pretty slow. What did you get up to?
Her: Worked
Me: Fun me too. Work on sat and was too tired to go out. Hey random question what kind of movies do you like?
Her: Yeah need all the money I can get. I love all types of movies just not scifi
Me: Haha we think alike. Esp star trek, does my head in. How about munchies, Chips chocolate or lolies?
Her: Definately hate star trej. I say lollies I have a massive sweet tooth
Me: Ahh your dentist must love you. I preffer lolies too. Chocalte gives me a big bum haha. Hey do you still work at kmart?
NO REPLY(the last bit was a little random but I didn't really know where to go with it)
Then this arvo
Me: Hey dork
, I bet my day could beat up your day lol. How was urs?Her: Haha hey well I went to penrith and went shopping. What did you do?
Me:Had a job interview with a really wierd dude. Was interesting enough. What sort of shoping? I hope didn't buy anything to naughty
.Her: Aw hope you get the job
just clthes shopping. Was tempted to get naughty stuff but didn't. The candy G string looked goodMe: Ahh get out of my head girl haha. Candy doe's that mean I could eat it?
Her:Yes very much edibale underwear
Me: So should have bought it. Anyway did you have a good day?
(I dialed down the sexual tension here because every time I dialed it up with her in the past she would get to a point and then freak. Now thinking I should have kept it going this time though.)
Her:Yeah should of. Yeah was a good day
I havent replied to that yet.
Just pick on it guy's if you can. Tell me how my text games looking.
cheers
-Joely