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| Author: | theman13579 [ Wed Jan 05, 2011 1:52 am ] |
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After reading poeticallyskuak(hopefully spelled right), I realize how important it is to be on the same playing field as everyone. Over confidence and arrogance can be a really bad mindset, even a turn off. Not saying that you should not be confident in yourself. You should project utter confidence and all your motions should should ebb with it. But, you can not hold in your mind that you are better than others, it leads to doubting yourself. Set yourself on even level with everyone. Respect them and their ideas. seriously. This shows more confidence than aiming for "super alpha" type behaviour. Some apha behaviour requires you to put down others to raise yourself, it is not necesarry, nor does it show confidence. But, whatever works for you. Compliment others. People will enjoy being around you, and you will be reflected to others as intitive to see everyone in such a positive light. Be original, LISTEN. Pick out things about a person that they reveal to you, let your compliments and your dialogue make them feel good by aiming at their core values and interests. Understanding body language and woman's signals is also incredibly valuable. This will save you rejecting by showing you who is intrested. Read poeticallyskuak's "theman" post and "body language" post. They will briing major clarity. Hopefully this helps, peace. |
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| Author: | Nova Casanova [ Wed Jan 05, 2011 7:38 pm ] |
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Maybe you could include a link? |
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