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| Author: | Sori [ Mon Nov 08, 2010 5:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Do you think she's interested in me or just friend? |
Hey Guys, First of all, I would like to thank you for taking the interest in reading this post and perhaps, shed some light on the situation I am currently facing. I met this girl the other day to work (My route usually falls into [Take Train A to Train B to Train C to Train D] Yes I transfer trains a lot). She was sitting by herself in a two seater (I'd say she is a HB9, if that even matters because it is fairly biased scaling a girl from 1-10), so I decided to take the seat next to her. I didn't initiate conversation at all, in fact, I was straight up trying to sleep. About 5-10 minutes into the ride (during Train A), she made a comment to me about her coat becoming too warm due to heat from the train's heater. What did I think about it? No idea why she was telling me this. Anyway, since she made first contact, I decided to follow up with 'So what are you on the train for? Going to work?' And so one thing lead to another, and we talked all the way through Train C (where she went to her stop). Throughout this conversation, I had made her laugh/giggle and disclose personal information about herself such as family, aspirations, job, and insecurities (such as finding a job post internship...*NOTE* She is a year younger than me and is currently taking an internship. I on otherhand just started the real life working deal). So at the end of the day, I got her phone number and she said to txt her my number when we got out of the subway. I did, but did not receive a reply. Today, I met her on the train again. We sat together and ended up talking through Train C again. She ended up mentioning (I did not mention at all) that she was sorry for not replying to my text because she busy (or something to that extent). Again, our talk had little to no pause and was fairly productive. Problem is, how do I know if she is interested in me? And do you think she just gave me her number (after I inquired for it) and keeps talking to me (I ask her questions as well as she asks me about myself) because she is just a nice person or is genuinely interested? I also found out yesterday that she mentioned she had bought something for her boyfriend (but that one sentence was the only time boyfriend was used out of the two and half hours I spent talking with her). Ok, so to help you find out who she is talking to, here is a little mini bio on myself: I'm 5' 5''-6'' (she's about 5' 3''). I dress preppy (usually brooks brothers/polo/casual men's clothing) and work full time doing research at a hospital. I recently graduated college and have a athletic build (not huge or overly muscular, but not lanky or skinny). I wear clothing that is tailored to my build (the past 7 months I've been training for Army SF but have had a change of plans). Thanks for the help and reading through this post. Hope to hear some feedback. |
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| Author: | s3aSon3d [ Mon Nov 08, 2010 5:36 am ] |
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sounds like she was just being friendly. Alot of girls with boyfriends are like this. Maybe she is interested but isn't responding to texts due to her guilt towards potentially betraying her boyfriend. It's hard to say man. |
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| Author: | Sori [ Mon Nov 08, 2010 3:18 pm ] |
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Hey guys, Just wanted to keep you updated on everything. I saw her today @ Train A junction to Train B. I talked to her first and we proceeded to have our usual conversation until she left the train. Right before she left, I had asked her if she would up for some coffee since I said I had to do some shopping in the area that she is working in. She said she wasn't sure when she would be getting out of work, so couldn't say for sure. She said she'd text me and let me know. I told her I would call her when I get out of work, and she should let me know from there. Ideas on this? |
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| Author: | poet1234 [ Mon Nov 08, 2010 3:53 pm ] |
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I love your situation,it is like a romantic movie. You talked for two hours and it's good that you got her to talk so much about her life,but focus on building attraction and even escalate if your environment allows you to.The girl should have been attracted when you ask for a date and from your description it is not clear to me that she was. But it's better to leave a girl with a boyfriend alone. |
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| Author: | Sori [ Mon Nov 08, 2010 4:30 pm ] |
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yeah the thing was, she mentioned a previous day that she never knows when she gets out of work for sure...so does that fact into is as well? Im still going to give her a call today to find out. |
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| Author: | Sori [ Tue Nov 09, 2010 3:29 am ] |
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STATUS UPDATE: I gave her a text instead a little before I left work stating: 'Hey [Name], Ill be getting out of work at [so and so time], and if you're still up for coffee let me know. If not, no worries, another time. She responded to me a few hrs later saying that she couldn't because she was going to have dinner with her mother (parents are split). I was pretty frustrated at this point, but when I got back on the train home, as I was walking down one of the cars, I noticed she was there and she poked me. And we ended up talking the whole way back. She really wasn't ditching me (I'm like 99% positive) and she even started telling me about her work day and that she was getting off at a different stop today and how she messed up something at work etc. Thoughts on the situation thus far? |
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Tue Nov 09, 2010 7:37 am ] |
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Read her body languages. You have not told us anything about how she fiddles, touches her hair, adjusts her clothes, submissive signals, etc. How the hell can we tell if she likes you without knowing her body language or the specific statements she has made that make you think she is attracted. All this conversation is general lingo a friend can enjoy. You need to read into her a lot more. Remembering certain details about a conversation is not nearly as important as remembering what her body languages was truly telling you. I wrote up a big thread on body language., your welcome to check it out. |
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