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| Author: | mariosabljak [ Thu Oct 07, 2010 2:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | I need some professional advice! |
Long story short, last week we had a date but she cancelled because "she forgot about a doctor's appointment", so i just played it off cool by saying "yea its cool, we can always figure out another date" just playing it off cool like i wasn't affected. So its been 6 days since that and she did not send any texts or msgs since then and i didnt text her at all either, so should I bother calling her up and arranging another date? *I dont wanna come off as needy |
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| Author: | Savlon [ Thu Oct 07, 2010 4:27 am ] |
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I think she might be a flake... yeh you done the right thing, played it cool and as if it didnt faze you... havent called her... so yeh i'd probably say if she hasnt messaged or called you by now shes a flake... if she wanted to take you out she would have said something like "Im sorry but i just remembered i have a doctors appointment on today so im going to have to cancel but what about tomorrow?" if she didnt say something along those lines and she still hasnt called then move on brother 
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Thu Oct 07, 2010 9:54 am ] |
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Well, I have very little time to kick it with girls, so I just let them know straight up we might not have an opportunity to kick it again. We can give it a shot. This girl that I hung out with tonight was trying all sorts of other days I told her I was busy, within twenty minutes she goes actually I can hang out. Letting them know your time is scarce puts a different value of the concept of hanging out. It also lets them know you guys may not have another opportunity to have sex, so they want to that day. In our particular industry of courtship you must approach the girl, that includes calling a girl. I rarely come across a girl that will take the reins and call you first. Girls like you to be a confident man, a confident man calls her up and says alright well lets kick it bla bla bla. There is a fine line between needy and confident. If you give out this naggy well if you want to concept than yeah you will come across needy. Be "The Man" take charge. |
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| Author: | mariosabljak [ Thu Oct 07, 2010 3:57 pm ] |
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well that same day when she cancelled, i told her we can always figure out another date, and she said that its doable. But after that day there has been no contact at all, so should i reinitiate and try asking her out again? |
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| Author: | poeticlyskuac [ Fri Oct 08, 2010 12:15 am ] |
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Quote: well that same day when she cancelled, i told her we can always figure out another date, and she said that its doable. But after that day there has been no contact at all, so should i reinitiate and try asking her out again?
Of course you should reinitiate. At least try.
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