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| Author: | doctamic [ Sun Oct 03, 2010 9:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | "Doing" BECOME A NATURAL NOW |
I was pretty into this book and it helps my game alot. To summorize it all up you need to be happy when talking to girls. cant you notice when some one is mad or sad? we are genitaccly built to notice these things so being happy just imagining somthing exciting will really help your game. Now there are 2 different pathways in life its "getting" and there is "doing". Getting is when you do things to get a result you want from outside outcome. You live in frustation and angry if the result doesnt happen or most likly you wont evan approuch at all. People that in getting want smell like desperation and needyness... they begin to wonder what they dont have that men getting laid have and they want to get that. Now if you change your mindset to doing then you will value your experience and attitude. In doing you will be more passinate about the way you talk because you dont care about the result all your focus is, is doing what it is your doing. You are not looking for an outside outcome to make you happy you are going by the inside and creating challenges to have more fun. Getting you look for woman to make you happy and doing you are making yourself happy by what it is your doing. now dont look at this for picking up girls because then you are back at "getting" If its talking to girls you like doing then do it without expecting to get something. so if you get rejected you wouldnt care because you were already doing what you wanted. Hell you can die tonight no one knows whats around the corner all your memorys freinds thoughts will be dead with you and the world wont stop for a second so do you want to die living inside a shell looking for the next best routine when you can simply change paths now and start doing things that are adventures. Sure routines are ok but evan if you use them you would be 10% better at your game if you were doing them passinatly then just try getting sumthing out of it. If I keep following the Getting pathway, then I’m going to be forever facing the issues that come with trying to get certainty from the outside world. I’m going to be frustrated and upset when I’m not getting it and needy and dependant when I do. My time spent with women is going to be nothing more than some kind of bargaining agreement when I work out if she’s got something I can take and she sizes me up to see if I’ve got something she can take back. Push the boundrys of what you think your capable to do not what you think your capable to get! Change paths and your feelings will no longer be controlled from the outside world this is your first step to taking controlll of your happiness. Now its not that easy you are not just ganna wake up and be in "doing" mindset because you have been in getting for so long but soon you will create the life style you want and express what you love and who you are without using other people stories once you take controll of your happiness. |
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