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| Author: | Incubus69 [ Tue Aug 10, 2010 9:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Focus On Having Fun |
Remember my FR guys? While I was dancing, I was focused on having fun and that was it. Girls will be attracted to this and be drawn to you. I was dancing by myself and drew in six girls - why? I was having fun and didn't care about what I looked like to other people! Before I walked into Jameson Pub I had this in my mind and kept on repeating it, plus I kept on boosting it to my friends: "I'm gonna have fun tonight!" Whamo, and I did! If you go out with the mindset of getting girls numbers then you will fail. Go out and have fun, if it happens it happens if not then it doesn't. This mindset will help you get back up on your feet after being rejected. Be sure to have fun with your friends too, laugh and joke around too with them. Laughing and joking around with them and having fun is a DHV which I call this technique DHV Scatter. DHV Scatter is what I came up with was when you DHV and everyone sees it, not only just one girl but maybe a group of girls. Try it out the next time you go out. Go have fun! If you have any thing to comment let me know. Thanks! |
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| Author: | Niko K [ Wed Aug 11, 2010 3:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Yep! |
I've got to say I agree with this 100%. This is such an easy way to demonstrate higher value and build confidence, and yet people are so afraid of it. A big part of 'game' is about appearing to be the person having the most fun, and being the one least concerned about 'looking stupid' and getting rejected. It can be hard to translate that concept into the way you converse with a girl: once you get past the 'fear' issue you still need to have something to say. But with dancing, it really does just come down to whether you're too scared or not. It doesn't matter if you're an amazing dancer - half the girls dancing out there are only considered 'good' because they're girls and they look better doing most things. It just matters that you don't seem to give a toss. And once you get out there and start having a good time, you really will build confidence, without losing it every time you worry about whether you dropped a neg at the wrong time or whatever. That confidence will carry over to the rest of your endeavors, I assure you. |
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| Author: | CharlieKelly [ Sat Aug 14, 2010 4:15 am ] |
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doesnt always work though dude |
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| Author: | Incubus69 [ Sat Aug 14, 2010 3:26 pm ] |
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I think you should try it out before saying it doesn't work all the time. Sometimes you're not going to be on the best game - this is why plenty of sleep is good before going out and partying. lol! |
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| Author: | Chelios [ Sun Aug 15, 2010 10:31 am ] |
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Good post, most people know this but newbies should take note. Having fun shows a hell of a lot, the way you speak, act, and most importantly your body language will tell people if your having fun and you don't care what people think. If you fun, of course people will take more notice of you and be more open to getting to know and/or speaking with you, whilst sarging, women are the target obviously. So have fun, stand out, and women will come, or atleast when you go to them, you've already been identified as "that fun guy from earlier/the dance floor". |
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| Author: | Incubus69 [ Sun Aug 15, 2010 4:10 pm ] |
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Thanks for the comment C. You're right, newbies that enter this field need to know this tip. If a guy walks in the bar or whatever with the mindset that he will go and hook up wit someone, he will appear desperate. However, if he goes in with the approach that he's there to have fun then he will be talking to and dancing with several girls. |
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| Author: | Chelios [ Sun Aug 15, 2010 9:50 pm ] |
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Quote: Thanks for the comment C. You're right, newbies that enter this field need to know this tip. If a guy walks in the bar or whatever with the mindset that he will go and hook up wit someone, he will appear desperate. However, if he goes in with the approach that he's there to have fun then he will be talking to and dancing with several girls.
Agreed, I go out with some friends, who sometimes think2 tonight I'm going to go and pull or try get laid" to me that's so AFC cos most the time it doesn't happen, if they focused on going out, having fun, they'd attract more, and maybe get a lay.All about the mindset, how you control it and how things are put into practice! |
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