By not asking a lot of questions conveys a lack of interest and can increase your social value but also lacks a connection between you and the girl. If there is no connection then there's no way you can escalate.
Personally, I don't go along with that method and yet I still get girls fine. I've learned that by building comfort with a girl first ensures that your attention is never unwanted. By maintaining eye contact, smile, touch and proximity and at the same time exchanging genuine, interesting and humorous conversation will build a stronger connection than showing a lack of interest. There are also rapport building techniques such as mimicking body language, showing empathy, showing commonalities, emanating gestures in texts and paralanguage (aspects of communication that have to do with voice tonality, tempo, volume etc by mimicking this creates a great connection).
It's fairly simple if there is no acknowledgement of mutual interest or rapport then there is no connection. This concept of asking a lot of questions is partially correct, by asking multiple closed answered questions will not take the conversation anywhere and cause the girl to lose interest. By asking open answered questions that give her and you the chance to speak about yourselves will create interest and thus connection. Questions such as "what is the most amazing place you have been to that you felt like you hold a connection with" or "so what is your greatest ambition in life?" these questions will get her thinking and will subconsciously create a connection due to the investment she has just placed.
Experiment my friend, try them both out
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