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Author:  wasab6 [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 6:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Should I let my gf dance with other guys?
Should I let my 1 month GF dance with other guys/girls at a party or should i tell her thats one of my rules that she can't break.
Author:  JustMeSLC [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 6:22 pm ]
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All people test boundaries as far as they can, even girl friends. It’s your job to establish boundaries. If your boundaries are repeatedly broken, then it’s your job to remove yourself from those that are disrespectful to you. At the very least you should have open communication with her, so that you both understand how the other feels.
Author:  Z-Wrex [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 8:45 pm ]
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That's not a decision for us. You gotta talk to her about that. If she says that you don't have a reason to be worried, and you trust her (you're dating, I assume you do), then shake it off. Course, let her know that if she's willing to dance with other guys, that automatically gives you permission to dance with other girls. These sorta situations don't work if only one person's getting the room to work with.
Author:  WorkEthic [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 8:54 pm ]
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What he (above) said...

And yeah, if you're in an agreed exclusive relationship, you don't do that shit, imo.
Author:  Mississauga [ Thu Jan 28, 2010 10:25 pm ]
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One month? How did you approach her, did you come off as confident, why did she feel the need to tell you ask yourself that.

Women think so differently on things, that us guys see one or two answers for. Women find and see over 10 answers.
Author:  MickCoffee [ Fri Jan 29, 2010 9:25 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I let my gf dance with other guys?
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Should I let my 1 month GF dance with other guys/girls at a party or should i tell her thats one of my rules that she can't break.
Ofcourse you should, if you want to keep her then you have to at least give her some space. Look on the bright side, while she is dancing with other folk you can be busy talking to other people and getting to know them. It's always good to keep building your social circle incase things with your girlfriend go wrong. However, jelous boyfriends are a turn off or so most of my girlmates say.. they can't all be bluffing. If you are concerned, then I'm sure you can sit and talk about it in a seclused area but I wouldn't put it down brutally like "this is my rule and you cannot break it" that is not AM it's just controlling. Remember, she is not 'your girl' she is just someone who has agreed to commit to a relationship and an undefined amount of time with you. Be controlling then that undefined amount of time will decrease. Just talk about it dude, I'm sure you are both comfortable enough.

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Author:  footjob [ Fri Jan 29, 2010 4:33 pm ]
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Nothing wrong with a girl dancing with other guys. The fact that you are bothered about kind of hints at a bit of insecurity at your relationship.

Even if it affects you, brush it off. Look on the bright side, if she can dance with other guys it means you can dance with other girls.

Girls love to dance, its just in their nature.
Author:  Bimm3r [ Fri Jan 29, 2010 5:09 pm ]
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Im not sure.. but personally

Dancing in a group side by side with men and woman sure...

Dancing close up with touching.. no!..
Author:  RockyD [ Fri Jan 29, 2010 5:10 pm ]
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well, dont restrict her cause she will rebel, just let her go but keep an Eye out for and guys tryin to make a move
Author:  misanoma [ Sat Jan 30, 2010 11:05 pm ]
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my girl can dance with whoever she wants.
she can talk to whoever she wants.
she can do whatever makes her happy.

(at the end of the night we both know who shes going home with ;))

if i had to tell her otherwise she wouldnt be my girl.
Author:  Strange_Native [ Mon Feb 01, 2010 11:48 am ]
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So why can't she dance with other people? Kind of a Nazi don't you think.
My personal boundary is just don't be getting raunchy with other guys on the dance floor. I don't like girls like that. I'm a bit conservative though.
Author:  kasabi [ Mon Feb 01, 2010 3:35 pm ]
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Regardless of your decision, I hear the best way to keep a girl from dancing, kissing, and then fucking other guys is to build a 5 by 5 by 5 locker and sweet talk her into living in there. Remember to build a slot so that you can offer her something to eat once in a while. (Girls tend to die without food)
Author:  GameIsOn [ Mon Feb 01, 2010 4:39 pm ]
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What's all the fuzz about ? GRab yourself a girl and dance with that girl or even dance with one of your Gf's friends.Have a good time
Author:  magnum45 [ Thu Feb 04, 2010 8:53 am ]
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Dude if you are concerned about losing her because she is dancing with other guys you have trust issues. If she is dancing with other guys and is a complete hoe bag, then you shouldn't be dating her. It's your issue more than hers, but it sounds mutual.
Author:  supachai [ Thu Feb 04, 2010 9:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should I let my gf dance with other guys?
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Should I let my 1 month GF dance with other guys/girls at a party or should i tell her thats one of my rules that she can't break.
No. Break up with her. She is just seeing you as a passenger. She knows it is a form of cheating.

Good thing is, that you now know that it is a short term relationship.
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