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Author:  TONY_GORDON [ Thu Dec 03, 2009 2:50 am ]
Post subject:  GETTING AND USING PHONE GAME
Been looking around for phone game information. Especially text related, found some pretty interesting things. 8)

Read somewhere that you should create a persona called ''mr confident'' when contacting a woman on the phone. He is a confident guy, loving and friendly but does not take any shit. He lets the woman know he is in charge. This is opposed to the ''wimpy guy'' and the ''badass'' guy. Its a happy medium and meets in the middle. This works particularly well with flaky girls, apparently.

here is the link;
http://shine.yahoo.com/channel/sex/how- ... ot-541592/

Also, when getting a women's number in a club or bar or busy venue, it is important that you contact her within 48 hours, even better 24 hours as she has probably met lots of other guys like you and given her number to them too. If meeting women through a friend or through day-game this can be a longer period of time. The attraction will be broken if it is left much longer although it can be reignited through keeping her interested and being fun on the phone. Younger women generally get out more in these situations and they are more likely to be in these busy venues, so numbers changes can be commen.

Please note, do not show anger or frustration to a woman if she has not contacted you. It happens! It lowers your value and does not make her want to bother with you.
Author:  Sharplin [ Thu Dec 03, 2009 3:08 am ]
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Good advice here, thanks.

When receiving texts from women, I have heard (and experienced) that it is good to wait before responding. Not like hours, but respond after 10 minutes or so, make her wait a little for your response.

What's great about texting / msn game is you have time to think about your response. You can be a lot more clever and charming over the internet than you can be in real life.
Author:  TONY_GORDON [ Thu Dec 03, 2009 3:14 am ]
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That is also true, but it is good to vary your response times to show unpredicability. If she knows your going to respond within ten minutes then she will expect it and become bored. :roll:

As for, waiting to text as you can think of your response that is true too. But from experience you end up waiting trying to compose something witty and ingenious, as well as worry about if it is right what you sent. But by all means think about what you send - just don't let it take over your life! 8)
Author:  Jakester [ Sun Dec 20, 2009 5:40 am ]
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Here's my point of view if it's worth anything. Ok if I end up getting a woman's number in a bar, I send her a text right then and there, right in front of her, with my name on it. I just send my name. That's all.

Then as far as being bored, yeah I might text women, just a simple, hey whats up and have conversations. I don't hit on them, I just act normal. I don't do the whole waiting ten minutes thing or nothing like, I just text when I feel like it, so its random. Like some woman called me 4 hours ago, I haven't returned her phone call, why, because I just don't want to talk on the phone right now, it's so much work, you know, I gotta pick that thing up, and then I gotta hit the button, then I gotta say hey and listen to her.... Na, I'm probably not going to call her back today, haven't even listened to the voicemail. Why? Because I don't want to bother with it right now. And if she ask me out, I don't wanna drive 20 minutes, I'm staying in my house tonight.

Though I do have to say this, if when you get a text if you get excited, then you need to let that go. It's more important how you react to a text then anything else in my opinion. SO yeah at the beginnign I recommend letting go of that emotion of excitement, so eventually you will find times when you just completely forgot some woman text you. This is more about being free than anything else and not letting exterior scenarios control you. This will also lead to what the other guys are talking about, the randomness, since your not being controlled by it, you'll be more random.

Now, getting women over to your house for the first date. Here's what I do, and I've done this multiple times with women and some of which I only talked to for 5 minutes. Usually in my experience, they text things like Hey whats up, or hey. In which if I'm in the mood to have a woman over, I'll text back something like "O just hanging out at the house, playing a video game, kind of boring but you can come over if you want." <--- notice I am underselling, never ever oversell, if you oversell you're coming from a place of having to convince her to come over instead of believing that she can't wait to see you.

The trick to this, believing it's possible and normal and being comfortable with it. It's all about being comfortable. Remember to undersell, super important. Hope that's somewhat useful. I know there's not a lot of technical stuff in there, I'm more mindset and belief orientated, so that the behaviors will come naturally and without thinking about it.
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