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| Author: | dukelasale [ Fri Oct 23, 2009 5:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Absolute Natural-------An Apocalyspse to the PUA industry?? |
http://www.theabsolutenatural.com/warning/report.pdf "WARNING: Shocking Discovery Shows That Confidence IS NOT A Solution To Your Dating Problems And Can Actually Decrease Your Game!" |
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| Author: | vizzy [ Fri Oct 23, 2009 7:48 am ] |
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huh?? |
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| Author: | Brah [ Fri Oct 23, 2009 4:14 pm ] |
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great post! |
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| Author: | Molson [ Sat Oct 24, 2009 12:23 am ] |
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AHHHHHHHHH I AM A WORTHLESS PEICE OF CRAP AND I AM UGLY AND I HAVE NO CHANCE WITH GIRLS!!!!! omg... it's so working. |
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| Author: | Warped Mindless [ Sat Oct 24, 2009 5:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Absolute Natural-------An Apocalyspse to the PUA industr |
Quote: http://www.theabsolutenatural.com/warning/report.pdf
Now everyone, we should listen to this guy, hes getting laid like a rockstar. "WARNING: Shocking Discovery Shows That Confidence IS NOT A Solution To Your Dating Problems And Can Actually Decrease Your Game!" 
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| Author: | sananman [ Sun Oct 25, 2009 8:37 pm ] |
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Saying confidence can decrease your game is like saying boiling a kettle is detrimental to your coffee making abilities. This man is a WUM. Pay no attention |
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| Author: | dukelasale [ Wed Oct 28, 2009 4:33 am ] |
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Quote: Saying confidence can decrease your game is like saying boiling a kettle is detrimental to your coffee making abilities.
This man is a WUM. Pay no attention He must be a 'multi-frustrated chumps' for a long time  BTW, what is "WUM"? can u show me the definition? |
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| Author: | dukelasale [ Fri Oct 30, 2009 12:29 pm ] |
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What You’ll Discover Inside… Why TOO MUCH Confidence Can Hinder Your Game Instead of Increasing it! And it’s so obvious yet almost NO ONE thinks about it! The Five Super Easy Steps To Convey Confidence Without Looking Like A Fake Or A Try Hard! If your level of confidence doesn’t actually “match” how you are… you’ll look far worse than an AFC! Part One: Why TOO MUCH Confidence Can Hinder Your Game Look, let’s be honest with one another here. Do you REALLY think that confidence can hinder your game? It sounds a bit kinda crazy right? Especially since all those pickup gurus seem to wrap everything around it. I mean let’s face it, we all know that confidence is needed to attract women. No argument there. But what I’m going to be discussing here will have those dating gurus (and “semi-pros” in the field) jumping over crowds just to try and shut me up. I can already hear them shouting, “DON’T LISTEN TO THIS GUY! Confidence is everything! Without confidence there’s no means to life! Yada Yada Yada!” Ok - maybe not so much the last sentence but you get my point. You see, it seems like EVERYONE and their momma is talking about confidence in the pickup society. Nothing new here, that’s been around for years. …But the problem I have is they all make confidence seem like it’s just a magic pill that you take and POOF! Just like magic you become a mPUA! Man I wish it was that easy. So let me bring it down to a more REALISTIC level… A.K.A the level they really don’t want you to know… Confidence is really just a pre-requisite to all the other stuff that comes next. You know – approaching, attraction, conversation and rapport, getting the number, closing, and a hundred other things. But in reality - It’s not even a beginning to anything; it’s more of a prologue to pickup. It’s your foundation. But, here’s the real kicker – and it’s so obvious yet almost NO ONE notices it… |
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| Author: | dukelasale [ Fri Oct 30, 2009 12:32 pm ] |
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IF YOUR CONFIDENCE IS NOT CONGRUENT WITH WHO YOU ARE FROM THE VERY BEGINNING, THE REST OF YOUR GAME WILL FAIL AND BE DOOMED! NO MATTER HOW MANY SOCALLED “TRICKS” YOU LEARN! Pay attention now, I’m dead serious here. Just getting this part right will make all the difference in your game. And those who actually notice what they’re doing wrong and know how to make the correct changes will be light years ahead of everyone else. This is the kind of stuff that those pesky dating gurus don’t teach you, and they’re going to hate me for this but it’s about time someone told you the cold hard facts. First, let me tell you what Confidence IS NOT. - Confidence is NOT about what new kind of tricks you can learn to attract a woman. - Confidence is NOT having a pocket full of “what to say” scribbled down on a piece of wrinkled notebook paper. - Confidence is NOT demonstrating higher value. (Why would you DEMONSTRATE higher value when you should be ALREADY OF HIGH VALUE) - Confidence is NOT telling everyone in the world how confident you are (in fact this is extremely insecure) - Confidence is NOT being outcome dependent - Confidence is NOT listening to music, getting tipsy, getting high, jumping over fences so you can jazz yourself up to talk to girls. - Confidence is NOT asking for a female’s opinion on something you could care less about just so you can try to talk to her. - Confidence is NOT worrying about when to call a girl because you’re afraid she might see you as needy. |
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| Author: | dukelasale [ Fri Oct 30, 2009 12:36 pm ] |
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Ok, this almost goes against everything that pickup is trying to teach you, with the exception of a few. You might have noticed that you may be guilty of doing one or more of these but that’s fine. It’s not your fault, and this is the kind of stuff that’s been swarming the forums, books and whatnot programming you on HOW TO ACT to be confident. Confidence is not something you do, it’s something you are. Remember – being not doing, being not doing! Now we know there’s a classic borderline that’s split between confidence and cockiness. But there’s also a split between Genuine Confidence and Programmed Confidence. “WHaaaaaAAaaaTTT?????” Allow me to explain… Genuine Confidence is what you are without even thinking twice about it. You’re in the zone – ALL THE TIME, no matter what, no matter where. Nothing shakes you. You move like water and can adapt and overcome the craziest situations. All this WITHOUT thinking to yourself, “BE CONFIDENT, BE CONFIDENT, BE CONFIDENT. Remember steps #5, 23 and lean back and ask her opinion, etc” – You get my point. In other words, you walk, talk, act, convey, and exude that YOU’RE THE MAN. It’s become second nature to you and women notice, pickup and eat this up like you’re the last piece of chocolate on Earth. You’re a NATURAL. Powerful stuff there. |
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| Author: | dukelasale [ Fri Oct 30, 2009 12:38 pm ] |
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Now, Programmed Confidence is like the evil twin brother of Genuine Confidence. It’s created when you CONSCIOUSLY have CONFIDENCE. Notice the keyword here: CONSCIOUSLY. Conscious confidence is when you’re in any given situation and you’re constantly thinking, “Ok, I gotta be confident right now so do this, this and that, remember not to act needy, remember rules #2, 51, 11 and 89. Stand upright, talk like this, blah blah blah” That’s consciously being confident. The uncool way of doing things and also the very LEAST EFFECTIVE. NOW WHAT’S SO BAD ABOUT THIS? Consciously being confident directs your focus and attention away from vibing and naturally interacting in your current situation. It’s like trying to drive and text message one of your girls at the same time. You and I know that it’s IMPOSSIBLE for you to be 100% focused on driving when you’re trying to text at the same time! – Unless you’re a wizard and can do magical spells, then maybe… The same goes for this. The fact is if you’re not laser-focused on your situation and you’re constantly “fishing” for what to say or do next it becomes choppy, incongruent and can get real ugly, real fast. Conscious thinking of what to do next isn't natural, and not free-flowing. I know because it’s happened to me, and truthfully, not only does it make me FEEL FAKE, I don’t even feel like ME when I do that, know what I’m saying? I want to feel cool, natural, and flowing in my interactions - like it’s a nice walk in the park. Not like a robot that’s gotta remember steps 5 to 1,559 because I’m talking to a HB9 at a bar. But here’s where it gets a bit startling. You see… |
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| Author: | dukelasale [ Fri Oct 30, 2009 12:39 pm ] |
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THAT’S NOT THE WORST OF IT! You’d think feeling fake was enough to kill your game in the long-run because of consistently being incongruent… but it’s not. NOT EVEN CLOSE. Here’s the real nasty part, the ultimate game killer… When you’re in this little loop, and you’re consistent with taking the Programmed Confidence role, you begin to engrave a set of habits into your cranium. These habits are then subconsciously set as you progress… ….BUT they’re bad mother F’in habits, not the good kinds that we’re trying to achieve. Then… without realizing, you become a SLAVE to these techniques, lines, rules, theory and all this other so-called wisdom. YOU’RE NOW POWERLESS WITHOUT THESE!!! Meaning – you start to depend on these and believe that without all the latest mack daddy pimp playa lines and wisdom, you’re gonna feel like you’re not GOOD enough. You catch my drift? And when you start to think you’re not good enough, you go searching left and right for the next hottest lines, tricks and whatnot. Then when you finally get your hands on them, you’re satisfied briefly… but then it happens again, the loop starts over and you’re in the cycle…. AGAIN! Looking for more lines, more tricks, more so-called “techniques” Helpful Hint: Don’t let your “brief success” emotions from Programmed Confidence drive your thinking that this is the genuine way to be confident. BECAUSE IT’S NOT! Go back and read that again if you have to, I want you to really think about this and give it time to marinate. I’ve seen this happen so many times, yet hardly anyone ever talks about it. That’s why I’m addressing this right here, right now. |
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| Author: | dukelasale [ Fri Oct 30, 2009 12:42 pm ] |
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BUT WAIT A MINUTE… All is not lost. If you’ve found yourself guilty of this you have no reason to panic. Like I said, I’ve done it before and I know many guys are in the same situation. It’s NOT your fault. And here’s the good news… I’m going to show you, step-by-step, exactly how to convey confidence that is completely congruent to YOU! Not your friends, not your younger brother, not those dating gurus…but YOU! And here’s the best part, not only will this help you become genuinely confident, you can take what you learn today and apply it immediately. As in, right now. This is, after all, your foundation to pickup. Just like anything else, if you have a weak foundation, you’re eventually going to crumble. And you don’t want to crumble now do you? Good. http://www.TheAbsoluteNatural.com So let’s get to it…. |
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| Author: | dukelasale [ Fri Oct 30, 2009 12:44 pm ] |
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Part Two: The Five Super Easy Steps To Convey Confidence Without Looking Like A Fake Or A Try hard! You may have heard of the term, “Fake it till you make it.” Well I say, Screw that. I’m a strong believer that you shouldn’t FAKE yourself to MAKE yourself. That doesn’t even make any sense. In fact, that’s where a lot of aspiring PUAs go wrong. In order to achieve the confidence you desire, you need to stop taking stuff from outside sources, and starting pulling it from within because you already have all the answers you’re looking for. Here’s what I want you to do: 1.) You Are What You Think So ALWAYS Think Positive – Sounds simple doesn’t it? If you’re not already doing this I can guarantee you that this is the number 1 reason why you’re not as confident as you’d like to be. When I say to ALWAYS think positive, I mean exactly that. ALWAYS. It doesn’t matter what situation that you’re in. A good example is if you approached a woman and she wasn’t interested. Here are two different lines of thinking… Negative Thinking: “Ah that sucks, why did I even bother? She’s probably laughing at me with her friends right now. I’m such a loser, this pickup thing isn’t for me.” Positive Thinking: “Oh well that’s too bad for her. She would have loved to see how interesting I was. Well! That’s not going to ruin my night! Let’s see what other beautiful women are here who would LOVE to meet me?!” http://www.TheAbsoluteNatural.com Now, ask yourself this, what line of thinking would a genuine confident person be using? Thinking positive in any situation is easy. Don’t make it hard on yourself. We as humans ALL have the ability to be confident in any situation. It’s all this social conditioning and bullshit hardwiring that you see on TV, magazines, movies, etc that makes us think differently about it. All you have to do is believe it yourself. YOU DO AND BECOME, that’s it. An exercise that will help you illustrate this is to think of the worst possible situation that you can see yourself in pickup and picture how you can think positively in those situations. (IE: Saying to yourself, “Bad things happen all the time, and it’s all about how you deal with it… so let’s see what I can do about this…what did I learn from this?”) Then, you simply condition yourself to EMBODY your positive thinking. You’re not faking it because everybody thinks positive, but most people only do it in positive situations. But guess what? You’re not going to be like that. You’re gonna condition your mind to always think positively in the good AND bad situations, and by doing this you’ll take away possibly the biggest sticking point in your game. A strong and confident mind will always see every situation as a positive in a different light. 2.) Jump Outside Your Comfort Zone Box! – And I don’t mean just keep approaching girls. I mean get out of your comfort zone about everything in general. Remember what I said about Genuine Confident guys? How they’re able to adapt and overcome the craziest situations? This is how they do it. http://www.TheAbsoluteNatural.com They do one thing that sets them apart from 99% of guys out there – they are willing to get out of their comfort zone and challenge themselves to new heights and forsaken territory. So, get out of your comfort zone! In order to succeed to pickup, you need the ability to be flexible. If you’re only good in bars, you’re limiting yourself. If you’re only good at bookstores, you’re limiting yourself. If you’re only able to approach blondes, you’re limiting yourself. If you’re only good at conversation when you’re drunk, you’re limiting yourself. If you can only talk to drunk girls, you’re limiting yourself. The ability to be flexible means that you’re confident enough to try new things... And when you do this, you widen your range of potential. You can’t expect to succeed if you’re not constantly challenging yourself. No one limits you but yourself. So start off small and try new things. Whether it be going to K-Mart instead of Wal-Mart, going to bed later or earlier, going to the gym 3 times a week instead of never. Say “Hi” to five girls a day instead of never, etc. I urge you to release your daily habits and think different, be different. Don’t try to “fit-in” with society, let society fit-in with you. Throw some variety in your life. No one likes a dull person anyway. In my experience, different is better. Got it? Good. Let’s move on. |
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| Author: | dukelasale [ Fri Oct 30, 2009 12:46 pm ] |
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3.) Stop Giving A Damn About What People Think! – Aw man, this one is HUGE. This is one of the biggest barriers that manipulates guys to think that what they did, said, whatever is “uncool” or “unapproved” Do exactly as the bold caption says. STOP GIVING A DAMN ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THINK! Ok!? Look, when you’re out and about going to bars, clubs, whatever you’re out to HAVE FUN. Did you sit at home and say, “Ok, let’s go to the bars and let’s see what everyone thinks of me.” Hell no you didn’t. So WHY do it? Don’t limit yourself. Example: “They didn’t laugh when I did this so this must be the wrong thing to do. I’m not doing it now.” Screw that dude. Your game is a 10 out of 10 every time, ALL THE TIME. So stop wondering if what you did was “the right thing to do” or if it was “okay to say” That’s what you call approval-seeking. You don’t need approval from anybody because you’ve already approved YOURSELF. THIS IS THE MINDSET THAT YOU NEED TO BE IN! And this is actually easy to do, just like the other steps that I’ve already shown you. This is something that you can make a decision to commit TODAY, and starting doing TODAY. Remember, there’s no secret tricks to this. You just gotta stop thinking about it and do it. Also, when you don’t give a damn, that doesn’t mean you have to be an asshole either. If you’re not naturally an asshole, don’t be an asshole. You’re bettering yourself by combining this information to be congruent to who you are – this is important. |
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