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| Author: | d.humper [ Sun Oct 04, 2009 7:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Natural: How do you make your intention clear? |
Hey guys, I have been around PUA stuff for a year or two now. I can do a little negging here, C&F there, somewhat confident in approaching, know that kino escalation leads to attraction. I can meet and get physical/k-close girls at clubs and stuff, but it never solved my biggest problem: communicating to a girl that I like her more than just a friend. I'm not talking about meeting a girl and doing pua stuff to try to draw her in while pretending I don't really care, I mean meeting people normally (maybe through class) or people I already know, how do i make that jump from being just a friend who chats and hangs out sometimes, to being able to communiate that "you're special to me". I'de say taking someone out to a date is something could have a similar effect, BUT the lines are so blurry in this instance, I hangout with friends 1 on 1 a lot whether I like them like a friend or not, so it doesn't have any meanng. Please give me both overview and very specific examples of how I can make this jump, and give her a clear message. |
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| Author: | Exerio [ Sun Oct 04, 2009 11:57 am ] |
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Wow, this is a tough point that I struggled with for a long while, but thing is, you can't really state that. You have to build the tension up. Wait until you are ready to kiss, because that is basically your first time that you can state that. - Exerio |
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| Author: | d.humper [ Sun Oct 04, 2009 5:36 pm ] |
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The thing is, I don't know even know how to get to that point, because they probably think I might just want to be friends or something, I need to make that spark in the beginning and thenbuild tension, but I dont know how |
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| Author: | ~Finesse [ Sun Oct 04, 2009 10:24 pm ] |
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I'd say just start flirting and throwing in some sexual stuff. Introduce it gradually though. Not too slow either, I guess it depends really. You can go slow and make your friendship gradually have more sexual/romance to it, or you could go in more heavy and clear. hmm I like to always keep the options clearly open with girl mates. ~Blend |
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| Author: | fratss [ Mon Oct 05, 2009 9:01 am ] |
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Apparently you're lacking in the ability to make her feel you want her.. It's equal important as being sociable and comfortable, you're seducing! remember these steps more literally, and it'll help you bigtime: *After you opened her, you'll reach her hook point.. easy for you after 2 years. *After the hook point you're building connection..rapport, she's getting interested in you. *In that rapport phase you should throw in some sexual hints! Make sure you do it at the right time and smoothly, you'll calibrate timing pretty quick by practicing. What you can do for example: -Hold eye contact, more intense then usual. -KINO!! touch her smoothly in seductive ways: hold her hands, stroke her back, touch her legs, shoulders, face.. Make sure you do it early and smooth, don't look at the parts of her body you're touching! Also touching her out of the blue after you talked to her for an hour is weird and she'll notice that. So best is to start giving kino from the beginning! You can prevent that easily to start giving kino in the opening phases, so she's comfortable with your touch. -Start speaking to her in a more seductive way by lowering your voice and slowing down a little. -look at her in a more seductive way, like you want her! You can also change the subject to sex, but root it! Practice it, intensify your kino whenever you can (in the rapport phase) and you'll find your way. Your goal is to create sexual tension! This stuff is important, because else chances are bigger that you get stuck in the famous friend zone. After you warmed her up, look for those sexual indicators of interest, and you'll find your way to the kiss.. If you escalate too quick, she'll let you know and you take your lesson out of it. After all.. it takes a man to put your balls under the guillotine. |
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| Author: | magnum45 [ Mon Oct 12, 2009 9:37 am ] |
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Quote: The thing is, I don't know even know how to get to that point, because they probably think I might just want to be friends or something, I need to make that spark in the beginning and thenbuild tension, but I dont know how
The most important thing for you is to get to a point where you won't second guess yourself. How can you do this? Practice speaking to women, and trusting your gut. Say whatever comes to your mind. Speak to about 2,000 women and you won't question your mind anymore. You will be natural. Good Luck. |
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| Author: | kowalski [ Mon Oct 12, 2009 10:08 am ] |
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When she says or does something that you think is sexy say 'That's sexy', nothing could be more natural. Job done. Peace, kowalski |
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Sat Oct 17, 2009 1:32 am ] |
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You show that you like her IMMEDIATELY. but you set the frame as if she was picking you up. You dont kiss ass.. but you clearly communicate through your body language, your words, your energy that you are a sexual being and you like fucking women. what do you think? that youre gonna hide and surprise her later haha um girl, you know that stuff earlier that i was saying to you.. that wasnt true, I was really trying to pick you up  Set the frame immediately, and set it strong. |
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