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Author:  whim [ Wed Jul 29, 2009 12:37 am ]
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I'm just wondering what are some good compliment openers that girls like to here. There was a worker in the cafe today that I thought was attractive and seemed like a really friendly, unintimadating sort of person...and i wanted to tell her this and ask her for a coffee but in a way that wouldn't come off wrong?
Author:  Playfellow [ Wed Jul 29, 2009 1:29 am ]
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You can't say anything "wrong". You can just say it in a wrong way. If you think she looks friendly - tell her.
Author:  Fu$$ [ Sun Aug 02, 2009 8:36 pm ]
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If you need to think in a right compliment to tell her how shes beautiful and nice, so it cant be called natural game.

Man, please dont concentrate all of your efforts in just one girl, that attitude just makes the deal even greater, I dont know if you doing so, I hope not. Its just an advice. Shot em all.

-Fu$$
Author:  SiNfUl [ Tue Aug 04, 2009 12:37 am ]
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I don't believe in compliment openers. Women are used to that #1, #2 you are placing them on a pedestal without even knowing them. I know you want to make them feel 'special', but forget that. They have to earn that SPAM from you. You are going off her 'looks', which is a HUGE mistake.

She may seem like a really friendly, unintimadating person, but that doesn't make it so. You might be dealing with a complete psycho and not even know it.
Author:  Fu$$ [ Tue Aug 04, 2009 1:14 am ]
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Yup. In the first stages of the interaction, is dangerous to figure out what you "want", never show interest without attraction.

When you let the things clear between you two, the game is over. The key here is keep her in suspense, wondering about you all the time, that indefinition will associate your image with strong and poweful emotions in her mind.

We, as men, are generally inclinated to define the relationship, heres comes the mistake. The magic ceases when she knows whats come next.

Fu$$
Author:  SiNfUl [ Tue Aug 04, 2009 4:11 pm ]
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The key here is keep her in suspense, wondering about you all the time, that indefinition will associate your image with strong and poweful emotions in her mind.

The magic ceases when she knows whats come next.

Amen...
Author:  kasabi [ Wed Aug 05, 2009 3:53 am ]
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I don't believe in compliment openers.
I do . . .

As long as it is truly is a compliment OR a totally funny joke and NOT some stupid cliche.


JOKE compliments: (sorry just made em' up)

"Woh, every time you pour that coffee, I can see your biceps just rip out of your upper arm. . . .I've been working out. You think they'll hire me?'

"Wow, that guy is totally staring at you! . . .Oh no . . wait a sec. . he's staring at the sponge cake. What a dork, I totally think you're much hotter than a sponge cake."

TRULY a compliment:

"Cool . . . the way you handled that belligerent customer had CEO written all over it. Wow . . . I think I'm in love . . . " (seems like a joke but man, this one girl really made me feel this way)

The point of openers is to get a conversation going. A decent "compliment" really doesn't hurt . . .
Author:  Ravencroft [ Sun Oct 04, 2009 12:37 am ]
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Paying a compliment isn't paramount to putting a girl on a pedestal.
Author:  fratss [ Sun Oct 04, 2009 9:04 am ]
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There was a worker in the cafe today that I thought was attractive and seemed like a really friendly, unintimadating sort of person..
you can kind of cold read open her on that! like: "hey! I think you're a really friendly, unintimadating kind of person! Am I right?"

she probably won't disagree :)

giving a plain compliment is a thing to befriend open guys to win the girl in the group!
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