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Author:  sorin93 [ Sun May 31, 2009 2:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Would You Rather Be Shy & Quiet or Fearless & Outspo
just curious as to what you guys think

i would rather not give a shit and be outspoken even if it's against what other people in the room think.


any opinions?
Author:  Rawbot [ Sun May 31, 2009 6:05 pm ]
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Sorin, interesting question.

For me, knowledge speaks, wisdom listens.

Quiet and eloquent is what I am aiming for.

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Author:  Corey [ Sun May 31, 2009 6:21 pm ]
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Usually I'm quiet and shy (due to the fact that I dont like many people)

BUT I have my spurts of being fearless and outspoken (because sometimes I dont give a fuck about others)
Author:  Kalel [ Sat Jun 06, 2009 9:13 am ]
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I used to be very quiet and stoic, and I found that that works great one-one but not so great in a group. I found a happy medium though. Now I talk as much as I want, no more no less; but I have also learned to enjoy talking rather than fear it. Also I learned how fun it is to be brutally honest and open with people. So basically my advice is explore what it's like on both ends of the spectrum, then find a happy medium. This way at least you will be flexible enough to adjust to the situation, regardless which end is better suited. I have friends who are always loud and "on" even when its inappropriate, and I also have friends who are too quiet even when people want to talk to them.

Be shapeless, formless, like water - Bruce Lee.
Author:  Antithesis [ Sat Jun 06, 2009 4:36 pm ]
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The world is full of shy, timid, meek men. I'd much rather be outspoken, but a situational balance between the two is always best.

~Antithesis
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