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| Author: | desertfox565 [ Fri Apr 24, 2009 3:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Escalation Problem |
Hey guys, While isolating the girl, I have the problem of running out of things to say and escalation. I think that the attraction could never happened without sexual escalation? So, when I've managed to build some rapport and attractions, what should I do?? Should I escalate, if yes where should I start?? Should I start by holding her hands, or anything?? (The girl I'm approaching would never kiss a guy other than boyfriend) Thanks Best pal, Steven 
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| Author: | 870 [ Fri Apr 24, 2009 4:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Escalation Problem |
Quote: (The girl I'm approaching would never kiss a guy other than boyfriend)
Yes, she will.Pickup, like most other things in life, is cyclical. Nine times out of ten, what is possible is defined completely by what you believe is possible and the conviction with which you hold that belief. By saying things like the statement I quoted, you necessarily limit the possibilities in a given interaction, and thus limit your adventures in life. What fun is that?! The sexually enlightened male understands that with the right vibe, the right state and the right touch, anything is possible  That said, you should be escalating from the minute you meet, not just once you've got her isolated. Grab her by the hand and lead her to the isolation location, and when you get there sit down with your arm around her. Don't be afraid to assert your desire. Remember, she wants to be seduced. She just wants to know you're a worthwhile investment of time and energy first. Above all, quit worrying so much and have some fun  Your boy, 870 |
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| Author: | Whoopie [ Sat Apr 25, 2009 1:13 am ] |
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For things to say check out Coming up with Topics in the Natural Section...I just posted there. Now for Escalation, Any type of touch is fine. Like when talking to her a hand on her shoulder, giving her a high five when she done something you like or you just done something cool. You have to break the physical barrier. Hell when I open a door for a woman I always place my hand on the small of her back pushing her in lightly. Its enough to let her know I am there. Once a girl is use to her touching Sexual Escalation can happen. So you need to find out what works for you. I am a very playful guy so I get into a lot of play fights with the girls I know. Messing up their hair, sliding their purse off of their shoulder. Just anything that is fun and cause flirting to happen. Hell, If you have any female friends you can ask them for advice about how to touch a girl. Girls love to play match maker so by coming to them they will be like awwww and be so glad to help you. Then you can practice stuff on them. Hell sometime you can even close that girl. So just have fun with it man. It takes time to find your own pace on what type of escalation you have. |
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| Author: | Grape [ Sat Apr 25, 2009 1:18 am ] |
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Open your options. You can talk about your beliefs and your view on society, etc. This is something not many people talk about so it'll be a huge rapport builder. Then you simply stare at her, and kiss her. and then if you guys are in the 'state' to, go further. finger, fuck, etc. <33 |
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