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Author:  SocietyofCool [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 2:58 am ]
Post subject:  How to be a Jerk or an Asshole

Face it folks, women like this approach.

So, let's talk about how to get'r done.

Who here is a genuine asshole to women? No lines, just assholeness.

How do you achieve this?

Do you stop caring about normal things in life and just do what you want and not appologize for it? Is there more to it? Always found this fascinating!

Author:  SocietyofCool [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 3:01 am ]
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Just found this fucking awesome link assholes ;)

"How to be a Jerk"
http://www.mrbauld.com/jerk.html

Author:  Gregforeign [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 4:15 am ]
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It's all about having a moral standing. You can't be an asshole, unless you can sneakily show a very intelligent side, with strong opinions.

Author:  Munroe (MUNROE) [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 8:21 am ]
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God people are fucking stupid.

Author:  Spark89 [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 1:24 pm ]
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Are you sure your not confusing the term ass hole with the word pushover? Woman want strong frames, high value, interesting people. If your a complete ass hole in likeliness shes gonna think your a complete ass hole. Ok be jokey, cocky funny! Not ass hole in my world thats very different and from what I know woman dont want that!

So there!

You've been told ;-)

Spark.

Author:  SocietyofCool [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 3:35 pm ]
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Are you sure your not confusing the term ass hole with the word pushover? Woman want strong frames, high value, interesting people. If your a complete ass hole in likeliness shes gonna think your a complete ass hole. Ok be jokey, cocky funny! Not ass hole in my world thats very different and from what I know woman dont want that!

So there!

You've been told ;-)

Spark.
Perfect.. The guy who posted "Some of you are stupid" .. He's an asshole.. That's exactly the frame I'm looking for here.. Hey , you can stil be intelligent, strong framed, cocky, etc. But you could also be a prick.

Anyway, would you rather have a girl jestfully say to you after doing something "Oh my god babe, you are such an asshole!" or... would you rather hear her say , "Oh my god babe, you are such a nice guy!"...

You choose. Then maybe you'll realize what I'm driving at ;)

Author:  avk [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 4:48 pm ]
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ok here is a quick question . why would you want to be an asshole n the first place ? trust me if your a 10/10 of being an ass hole there is a 20/10 who will be ready to bust your nuts.

Author:  dmacfour [ Tue Mar 24, 2009 6:33 pm ]
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Why do you want everyone to hate you?

Author:  Kalel [ Tue Mar 31, 2009 12:52 am ]
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You don't necessarily have to be a jerk, but I understand what you are trying to get at. Being blunt and straightforward with people is often misconceived as being a jerk, but it is also incredible fun and attractive when done right. When done right being blunt and opinionated without worrying about other people's reactions, makes you seem very centered and attuned with yourself. It also makes you very fun and different from other guys. A lot of amogs get these traits naturally by hanging out with other amogs. They tear each other down so much, that they become desensitized to the feelings of others and no longer care about being viewed as a jerk. They are very open and honest people though. And I think on some sadistic level, we all liked being made fun of a little bit, as long as it is coming from a place of humor and not aggression.

Example: Yesterday was my friends birthday and he is sensitive about looking so young for his age. So, I bought him a hello kitty card (complete with hello kitty temp tattoos). This seems like a jerk move, but everybody at the party thought it was very funny and my friend thanked me for putting in so much thought in the card selection.

Author:  Grape [ Tue Mar 31, 2009 11:18 pm ]
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Having the intent of being an asshole won't help.
I think you want the whole 'bad-boy' 'rebel' 'take no one's shit' thing going on, but those come through purpose.
If you're a complete prick without any purpose or reason behind it, you won't have friends.

However, if you need to be an asshole so that you can take care of business and you need to calm down some beta males, then it's all good.

I'd like to explain this more, but i g2g.
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p.s. the guy who posted "people are stupid"
Yeah.. i dont know why you, the OP, would want this. that guy's an asshole and i wonder how successful he is seeming he has no respect towards people who havent made any intentional offences.

Author:  Impuls [ Tue Mar 31, 2009 11:49 pm ]
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I've always thought the difference between being alpha and being asshole was the diff between Jame Bond and Archie Bunker. I'll take mine shaken not stirred anyday.

Author:  Shadow Box [ Wed Apr 01, 2009 5:32 am ]
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Ok...I've had this problem before. I used to see the biggest assholes with beautiful women and I would think "Wow, I need to become an asshole." I looked into it a little more and I wouldn't recommend it. Assholes are vultures. They find women with low self esteems and tear them down even lower. They will then move in and make the woman feel like she ain't shit and she is lower than shit without him. Never become the asshole, its the worst thing you can do if you want to have any type of happy and healthy relationship.

Author:  V3nu [ Sun Apr 19, 2009 7:25 am ]
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Hey I got a better question for you guys, how to STOP being a JERK if it is anchored so deep in you?

Why am I asking? Cz the first PUA word I learned was NEG when I started, without knowing that you are not supposed to use it more than 3 times on a target ( u imagine where I m getting at ), and I couldn't figure out what was wrong with me until about a 6 months later I stumbled across some HOT HBs who stated I'm a jerk if a neged them a few times
So now now Neging is like an addiction, I try to be nice, but I can't resist to start pointing out their problems.

Like I even go with the mindset that I will be nice today, but after a few hours I get sooo bored of being nice to everyone, I just start neging or making fun of people, aaahhh I hate being a jerk but love it at the same time.

Guys PLEASE give me as much criticism as you can so I can figure out how to get away from my jerk side, because it is a real problem for me. Tnx

V3nu :twisted:

Author:  nightrider767 [ Sat Apr 25, 2009 1:24 am ]
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V3nu. Maybe try swapping the neg for the ego-boost. Find shit to compliment them on, hit them with that, then get major excited about it. Sell it.

Spend a week on either. One week a fucking asshole. The next week the awesome guy who makes people feel great.

Author:  Grape [ Sat Apr 25, 2009 3:45 am ]
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