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| Author: | Switcher [ Wed Mar 11, 2009 4:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I can`t understand what is the value? |
I watched Blueprint De-Coded with Tyler, he talked about values, not quite understand what the man's value to women? How to demonstrate my value for women? What exactly is it? |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Wed Mar 11, 2009 5:42 pm ] |
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The idea of perceived "social value" is what you are referring too. Remember this is all common perception based information, not really factual, but it's generally agreed upon. The idea is that a woman has a higher "Social Value" than a man in any given environment. Through the use of DHV Spikes or Demonstrations of Higher Value spikes we raise our social value. While also "negging" which is not to be confused as an insult, it's merely designed to lower her value slightly. When her value comes down, and yours goes up, you want your value slightly higher than hers to effectively have her chase you and become more attracted to you. That's a pretty quick breakdown but should get you the idea. |
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| Author: | soup [ Wed Mar 11, 2009 7:12 pm ] |
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Quote: The idea is that a woman has a higher "Social Value" than a man in any given environment. Through the use of DHV Spikes or Demonstrations of Higher Value spikes we raise our social value. While also "negging" which is not to be confused as an insult, it's merely designed to lower her value slightly.
Just had to disagree with this. RSD teaches that you come from a place of equal or higher value than the woman. As you say, its all perception, so you should percive yourself to have higher value. perception is reality |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Wed Mar 11, 2009 8:04 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: The idea is that a woman has a higher "Social Value" than a man in any given environment. Through the use of DHV Spikes or Demonstrations of Higher Value spikes we raise our social value. While also "negging" which is not to be confused as an insult, it's merely designed to lower her value slightly.
Just had to disagree with this. RSD teaches that you come from a place of equal or higher value than the woman. As you say, its all perception, so you should percive yourself to have higher value. perception is reality |
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| Author: | soup [ Thu Mar 12, 2009 4:25 pm ] |
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well we have to make sure that we get this across i suppose |
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| Author: | Kalel [ Tue Mar 31, 2009 1:11 am ] |
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I agree with everyone, but I would like to add a little. It's easy to start thinking of social value in terms of number or like hit points on a game, but it is much different than that. Have you ever talked to a professor or boss that you really respected? You felt quite a bit different around them than you would one of your buddies. This is basically the feeling that they have more social value than you. Same as when you are around a beautiful woman. You get nervous and look to her to lead you, because she has more social value. There are countless way to manipulate how you view others' value and how you are viewed by others, but the point is that you want a woman to feel like you are a person who is to be respected. A woman, in general and for the most part, will not sleep with a man who she deems are significantly below her, in terms of respect. These guys are usually deemed creepy or put in the friend zone. Try noticing how you react to people more. You will begin to see social value as a real and tangible feeling. Like when a cop walks into a room and the tension in the air spikes. Or how each group of friends has a leader that make the lions' share of the decisions for the group and everyone else follows. Or how some people in the group get made fun off all the time, while the leaders are usually immune from any ridicule. Or how afcs will do just about anything for an hb, even though she treats him bad. These are all example of social value in action. |
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