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Author:  skiepi [ Thu Feb 19, 2009 11:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Personal Question to The_Edge_Michael

If I PM you, The Edge, then only I will find out your feedback. For that reason I have posted this so others who might have a similar question can see what you write as well.

First:
"I ought to praise you like I should". Great contribuition to the comunity bro!. Before registering at this forum, I used mostly MysteryMethod on people. From the moment I herd about Style's "LAS VEGAS" I realised that what I want, is not to run canned material, but to make myself a better person and as a consequence naturally attract desirable people into my life. Finding your endlessly intelident posts, I realised I want to focus on my natural game.

First (Question):
Your game (not what you say but how you make them feel) seems to be perfect for a one set. On the other hand, if you are in a 2+set, then how can you use your natural game to isolate your target, etc...? (I assume from your posts that you do not follow the MM)

Second:
I have a slight insight, of what I need to do. I read on your blog the post from your friend about setting the sexual stage, where you are the person to satisfy the girls sexual fantasies. If you can make them feel like that is something you can offer her, then you sexually attract her. My question is, how do I run sets?
(I have a feeling that you will answer something like,"If i tell yo, then it will be me sarging and not you." I understand that I am to say whatever comes into my mind, and not be at all embarassed of my REAL me.)

Third:
As a starting point, ( I have already done this on sets) I am currently focussing on the LAS VEGAS
Looks
Adaptability (unalterred, and intelligent)
Strength (mental)

Value
Emotional Connection
Goals
Authenticity
Self-value.

My question is, can you give me help on things I should try. An example: In the shower today I thought: "Every once in a while in each set I will stop and ask the girl how she is feeling exactly." Hopefully this will make me understand how i make her feel by things I am doing. Is this a good thing to try? Any other things like this I can try to step up my natural game?

EDIT:
Just remembered what (Style) says, "Never Ask! Guess..." So i won't be asking them how they feel but make guesses and see how they react

Thanks a million!

Author:  The_Edge_Michael [ Thu Feb 26, 2009 7:31 pm ]
Post subject: 

Skiepi,

Thanks for the good vibes! I will try to answer these questions as best as I can.

1. The short response is; You must be socially savvy and well calibrated to all people not just the person you are talking to. This will improve your chances if you want to isolate one person in particular as there will be less resistance. This can be done using any excuse you can think of to get her alone for a small amount of time. You can only really do this using social intelligence and make your best assessment to come up with something on the spot and in the moment. It is actually chillingly simple!

2. For reference: http://the-edge-michael.blogspot.com/20 ... rs_28.html

So this is in reference to building a sexual platform and conveying sexual intent (read link). I don’t think I can comment much further than what is already written. Women can find this very masculine but it must be well mannered so no woman will dismiss it as out of hand. This is again where I say ‘Women do not respond to what you say, Women respond to how you make them feel.’ I am not just talking sexually but also emotionally. Remember just have no agenda and act through the gut. You are right that you need to express your own unique personality. If you are a very sexual person then it will be written all over your face and she can probably see/feel your lust coming out of you with every breath, word, kiss. If you aren’t normally very sexual then there isn’t any point it pretending to be.

I have also written extensively on this in my Natural Direct Game vs Indirect Game thread.

3. I think that one of the best ways to improve natural game in general is to keep going out. When you go out your sticking points auto correct. You start to pick up first hand in-field reference points which you can link back to your game and join the dots. Then if you do once in a while get stuck you can come back to the community and ask for second hand knowledge. Putting yourself in inpredictable scenarios also helps. I've also most recently realised how fun and useful it can be to have a great big social circle (but that is something further down the line to work on).

Michael

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