i dont know if that is the right question...
i just think that you should adapt the game in the best possible way to your personality so that it is still you when you stop gaming her in a 3 + x date...
i mean, the more authentic your game is, the less you'll have to worry about "strategy changes" and the more happy you'll fell about just being you!
i think that one of the most satisfactory moments of pua gaming is when you realize your not faking anything!
... so in a way "mutating to a natural"
at the end pua-stuff "should not define your life but enrich it"!
hope this could help you find the bigger question!
HnS