good advice. i stick with my natural game and only pick openers from this forum that match my natural game. Those that I would say naturaly if I thought of
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| Author: | Chinaski [ Fri Dec 12, 2008 5:36 am ] |
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If it aint broke don't fix it. So many times being in the seduction community you learn techniques or tips to improve weaker aspects of your game and then in the excitement of the advice, you end up overhauling your actual strengths. Stick with what's natural, no routine can beat positive natural energy. Anything to add naturals... |
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| Author: | Arrogant [ Fri Dec 12, 2008 6:03 am ] |
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i feel being a natural not only helps you with girls but i many other aspects of life that game doesnt. example: new friends, job interviews, relations at works, sales(if you work in sales), school, etc... my dad was a natural. hes from bama and is a southern gentleman. he always told me "i doesnt hurt you none to smile and be nice to everyone." my dad is in his 50s and ive seen him once unintenially pick-up a waitress that me and my cousin were gameing. he has a good time where every he is. he has a hardlabor job and has sometimes work 100 hour weeks but still looks and acts as if he loves life. he says hi and introduces himself to everyone who will look his way. he has many friends and has had people good way out of their way to help him that he just meet without even asking them. on top of that he marry to coolest woman in my life, my mom. i mimic my game off my dad who is a natural's natural. |
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| Author: | Stygian [ Wed Dec 17, 2008 4:07 am ] |
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Quote: i feel being a natural not only helps you with girls but i many other aspects of life that game doesnt.
This is very true, having a good grasp of game (Natural or Synthetic) will help in all these situations and more. Style said it best, it will help all aspects of your life as long as there is a social interaction involved, and a lot of the time even if there isn't.
example: new friends, job interviews, relations at works, sales(if you work in sales), school, etc... |
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| Author: | silverito [ Wed Dec 17, 2008 5:30 pm ] |
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good advice. i stick with my natural game and only pick openers from this forum that match my natural game. Those that I would say naturaly if I thought of
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| Author: | HotIce [ Sat Jan 24, 2009 7:49 pm ] |
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Great post - short and to the point! I am definitely more of a "Synthetic" (lol, it almost feels like saying I'm genetically engineered!) but I prefer to make up my own DHV routines based on my real life, so I am definitely moving more in the direction of Natural game. I think that stuff about southern charm paints a very good picture, if you have a very positive, self-validating vibe, people WILL want to stick around you and this makes seduction a LOT easier than relying on lines and canned stuff. People will simply be more forgiving of your mistakes and let their guard down around you! |
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| Author: | pedro2385 [ Tue Feb 10, 2009 2:24 pm ] |
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I started off with routines because it was easy to learn. Now I have moved into natural game because i find it much more enjoyable. I can now use my natural strenghts to help me attract women which is exactly what i do. I do agree that if it ain't broke don't fix. I will only try to improve a certain area only if it is hampering me in a harmful way. |
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| Author: | chips [ Fri Feb 27, 2009 1:15 am ] |
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I disagree with the "if it aint broke, don't fix it" approach. Just because you're good at a particular thing, doesn't mean you shouldn't keep trying to improve it, you can always get better. |
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| Author: | IAm-Me [ Tue Mar 03, 2009 12:23 am ] |
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Absolutely agree with Chips. |
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| Author: | SoCalStudentPUA [ Sat Mar 21, 2009 11:53 pm ] |
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Chips, you couldn't be more right! I apply that philosophy to all parts of my life. |
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| Author: | madals [ Sun Mar 22, 2009 10:32 am ] |
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I am going to have to disagree, most naturals don't understand what they are doing (I know I didn't) and therefore can't always use the best option for the situation. By reading PUA stuff you can gain an understanding of HOW the things you did actually work. Once you understand you can use the ight thing at the right time. Nothing you learn should push the old stuff out, take everything with a pinch of salt. Listen, try, adapt. This is the real key to getting great game (and many other things. Take things on, try them and take the bits that work for you and change the bits that don't. Madals |
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