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Author:  CnFKappaSig [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 8:13 am ]
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What are some ways you guys get into state, whether its at the venue, or before you go? I do like the music idea, but any other techniques would really be helpful. Thanks a lot boys.
Author:  Arrogant [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 5:45 pm ]
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being a natural you are almost always in that state so you wouldnt need to get in a state that you were already in.

im a big david wygant fan. he says to things 1. he has a saying he beleaves that puts a smile on his face everytime he thinks of it. "love the life you live, live the life you love"
2. he suggests start out smileing and make eye contact with everyone in a car on the opposite side of the road. or aleast the women.

most people dont realize how much a smile really helps out someone.

i remeber the other day i got little sleep, just got out of class, had a cold and had to go to work. so i wasnt in the good mood i usally was then this guy walking up the stairs smiled at me and then i just popped back into that mood i usally represent.
Author:  Arrogant [ Thu Dec 11, 2008 5:47 pm ]
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just curious how do you have that kind of rep with only 5 posts
Author:  Punkyfish [ Fri Dec 12, 2008 1:42 am ]
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I think there was a video posted recently in the videos section of a Cajun and Tenmagnet video blog (I'll try and find another word for video) where they're asked this question.

They talk a bit about jaggering (look it up) but I think the main point is that you shouldn't focus on picking up girls when you go out if you wanna get into state. Just focus on having a lot of fun with your friends and the other people around you. Do fun, funny and even somewhat childish playful things. Be the guys that, to women (who as we all know are much more socially perceptive than men) are clearly having more fun than any other guys in the room and don't even seem to be looking for girls because they have fun anyway, regardless of whether they meet a girl or not.

If a guy is having fun and loving life without looking for a woman to raise his state then it shows to women that he is naturally like that and, if she interacts with him, HE'LL raise HER state.

Hope this helps :D

Stay classy
Author:  joker_jack84 [ Fri Dec 12, 2008 3:06 am ]
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I just crank some metal music, it makes me feel like I can destroy all. Kinda like a demi-god. Its hard to describe but it makes me feel invincible for sure.
Author:  Arrogant [ Fri Dec 12, 2008 5:49 am ]
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Quote:
I think there was a video posted recently in the videos section of a Cajun and Tenmagnet video blog (I'll try and find another word for video) where they're asked this question.

They talk a bit about jaggering (look it up) but I think the main point is that you shouldn't focus on picking up girls when you go out if you wanna get into state. Just focus on having a lot of fun with your friends and the other people around you. Do fun, funny and even somewhat childish playful things. Be the guys that, to women (who as we all know are much more socially perceptive than men) are clearly having more fun than any other guys in the room and don't even seem to be looking for girls because they have fun anyway, regardless of whether they meet a girl or not.

If a guy is having fun and loving life without looking for a woman to raise his state then it shows to women that he is naturally like that and, if she interacts with him, HE'LL raise HER state.

Hope this helps :D

Stay classy
i like that too. i tell to my friends who always say "im getting some ass tonight" and they dont even atempt to approach a girl. if you go out to have fun you cant loose even if you get deaded and didnt meet any girls. I always start the night with a toast to "having fun."

anyway fun evoles girls right?
Author:  Zarathustra [ Fri Dec 12, 2008 8:24 am ]
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earlier on during the day I open sets on the street.

at home I watch a PU video or two youtube.

I listen to a Hypnotica track.

I do a version of the swish method taken from Tricks of the Mind by Derren Brown.

I read my notes.

Then I go out, when out I use a self belief shield (from Hypnotica) and mind scripts (from How to Make Anyone Like You in 90s or less) as I physically make the approach.

I fire anchors as soon as I drop the opener.
Author:  newborn [ Sat Dec 13, 2008 9:56 pm ]
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Quote:
I think there was a video posted recently in the videos section of a Cajun and Tenmagnet video blog (I'll try and find another word for video) where they're asked this question.

They talk a bit about jaggering (look it up) but I think the main point is that you shouldn't focus on picking up girls when you go out if you wanna get into state. Just focus on having a lot of fun with your friends and the other people around you. Do fun, funny and even somewhat childish playful things. Be the guys that, to women (who as we all know are much more socially perceptive than men) are clearly having more fun than any other guys in the room and don't even seem to be looking for girls because they have fun anyway, regardless of whether they meet a girl or not.

If a guy is having fun and loving life without looking for a woman to raise his state then it shows to women that he is naturally like that and, if she interacts with him, HE'LL raise HER state.

Hope this helps :D

Stay classy

Absolutly fucking bang on the money with that one Punkyfish. The more you focus and revolve your night around sarging, the more of a 'big thing' it becomes. I think that this idea also links into the 3 second rule. Cause if you leave it too long it becomes an issue and the pressure is on, and more often than not you crack under pressure.

The reason why I emphasize it is becuase I had an experience this monday in which I was gonna open this HB 9.5 (It was at a party she organised, and she was by far the hottest there, and I wanted a challenge lol). But the more I thought about and focused on opening her, the more nervous I became. In the end I fucking bottled it which really pissed me off cause usually I dont have issues with approches, but oh well, you live, you learn. And just reading that now made me realise exactly what I did wrong, I thought about the 'what ifs' too much...

SO JUST ENJOY THE NIGHT AND WAIT FOR THE RIGHT MOMENT, THEN GRAB IT BY THE BALLS AND IT SHALL ALL FALL INTO PLACE! :P
Author:  Jlax [ Mon Jan 26, 2009 10:57 pm ]
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A technique i picked up from gambler. Think of the state you want to be in... Say you want to be funny... Think of a time when you were really funny remembering all the details and everything... Say you need to get in a confident state... Remember a time when you were really confident... I use this usually before going out to a club or a party... While you're remembering that state put on some music that gets you in the state even more... I'd prefer Rap, techno, house, electro... then after that its like magic.. Hope this helped you out
Author:  miko [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 9:19 am ]
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A good thing to remember is that our natural state is happiness and everything that we associate with 'state'.

Going in state is about drawing it from within. It wont come if you try to force it, it comes when you influence others around you.

Go open sets, and push it a little. Break the comfort zone or go dance.

Influencing people around you is a great way to draw the state from within.

Do silly things, open with random things and most importantly HAVE A GOOD TIME!

-miko
Author:  Dllx [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 9:44 am ]
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just put on some jackin feel good house music, dress up (to feel confident) and put a smile on your face. Tell your friends "we r gonna have fun tonight" and REALLY have fun. Then u will be in the state naturally.
Author:  A Minor [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 6:15 pm ]
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STOP
*ALL
EFFORTS
TO
GET
INTO
STATE

I stopped Anthony Robbins exercises, Hyptnoica Tracks, RSD BPD sessions. ALL OF THAT prior to sarging and I've had state the last 6 times I went out, and the three times prior to that were the indifference threshold (refer to BPD).

*The ONLY thing I do from time to time do is meditative practices. Refer to Sean Messenger's How to get women to notice you post.
Author:  BK Legendary [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 7:21 pm ]
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light a blunt

listen to early 70's soul
Author:  Dllx [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 7:40 pm ]
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Quote:
light a blunt

listen to early 70's soul
That's seriously good.
Author:  BK Legendary [ Tue Jan 27, 2009 8:22 pm ]
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also note after getting ready doing your favorite serenade in the mirror, long mirror preferably. sounds corny yes, but this is how its done 8)

i suggest finding a song by a singer or group who has a similar voice or tone to yourself

this is what works for me

http://www.zshare.net/audio/54746302006d5968/
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