Whats the one thing that all the players,teachers,coaches, and superstars all give for advice on accomplishing anything?... well over the years I've noticed its CONFIDENCE some people are able to turn on their confidence as easy as snapping their fingers.
What do women,you'r boss,peers, and complete strangers judge you on?...well its usually more than just confidence,there's usually a list of things we look for before we judge weather or not we like someone. But in the actual act of getting women, YES its CONFIDENCE!.
The big three good looks,money, and charm are the classics, and the old saying says, "Three strikes and you'r out!". But rich guys get dumped just as often as poor dudes and you could actually be "The perfect man" and you would still get dumped, women are people too and they'll get over you eventually its just human nature.
That's getting a little ahead here, so go out and have confidence everyday, everywhere you go and people will be attracted to you. I'v known guys who are 4'7 have red hair and squinty eyes and are still pulling girls around because they have a charm and confidence about them.
Personally I've noticed this . I've been in two relationships over the past six months that really stuck out because these women where infatuated with me, they where asking me all these questions "How are you so happy/energetic all the time?" "Why do you...." and these question would go on and on. At first I would just give them joke answers "How are you so happy all the time?" me "Because I have a big dong
" but then eventually I'd come to like these women and trust them more, so they'd ask again after a few weeks for seeing each other "Why are you so happy all the time?" me"Because I've been through a lot of shit..." then I'd break a little and tell them my secrets NEVER DO THIS! for a couple of reasons These girls aren't able to sort out your personal termoil and it makes you come off a weak and thus less confident and the mysteries gone. I'm not saying if you'r going through a tough time not to unload on a good friend, these girls will let you unload on them in another sense . This has happened twice, so once they know all you'r secrets game over...
So confidence. let me ask what does it mean to you?. How do you cultivate you'r confidence how do you make sure you'r not coming off as an an arrogant ass instead of a capable and independent person?. How do you approach you'r day with confidence?. Who do you recognize as a confident person from sports,tv, etc?
Sincerely,
Compass