Hello guys. I would like to hear your opinion for something that happened to me yesterday.

I was watching M.A.S.H. series with girl I know for some time. We were never in some kind of intimate contact, but time to time, there is some tension between us, which I was never able to escalate further. Just playing to safe. I think she is not interested in me right now.

So, we were watching this serial and in one scene, Frank Burns was as always complaining and whining like little kid. And suddenly she just said "oh, you men, you are little crybabies like he is, all alike". And I´m wondering, is it also shit test even if she is not targeting directly you, but men in general. Or its just her own complain how bad we are in general and it has nothing to do with shit-testing. And if its shit test, whats by your opinion best respond, even if she is not addressing you personally.

Thanks for answers in advance.

It means she has no respect for you as a man, which means that you do not command or demand any respect for yourself as a man.

No woman in my life would dare make a comment like that around me.

If I were in your shoes, I would probably throw it back with something like "sounds like the guys you date are fucking pussies, no wonder you're never happy...no woman respects a weak man" and then get into a conversation about gender dynamics from there, about how women only respect strong men.

Sets a good frame, throws it back at her, demonstrates actual understanding of gender dynamics...win win!