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Author:  Looksie [ Wed Sep 16, 2015 4:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Night and day, how to make the "transition"?
So, my question is basic.

I have been out and about at night time, getting laid and am simply amping my night game SPAM (came out of a serious relationship a few months ago and ready to go out and sash it and push myself to beyond where I have been before, stay tuned!) this has been on and off for like 9-10 years.

however, and this may be of some surprise, don't "do" daygame...

I need help!

Where do I go? What do i do?? Hhhhhhhooowww??

Ha,

But seriously I have not done a cold approach before 7 or 8pm unless I have been at a festival.

I always have this niggling thought in my head about what if they aren't old enough, or whatever. Also, I am good at the high energy stuff and I am unsure about where to start. I guess I just need to bite the effin bullet.. Aaand I plan on it.

Strangely this isn't AA over rejection, (I laugh when I get rejected and use it to get better pulls) it is simply the fact that it is an un-known.

Any guys out there been where I am, like experienced in night game but not so good at daygame and made that "transition" I guess..?

Cause to me, they really do seem like completely different worlds!

let me know what you guys think, that'd be great?
Author:  davidj [ Sun Sep 20, 2015 9:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Night and day, how to make the "transition"?
Dude I've over night game unless I"m genuinely just going out with friends, and then I'm just trying to have fun with them. It just doesn't fit my temperament. Daygame on the other hand is a goldmine. I probably close 9 out of 10 woman of all ages, many with current boyfriends (hey, I guess we have to keep it on the down low), The other 1 are loyal woman and I tell them that that is attractive (it is) I enjoy lone-wolfing it so it works for me. And I can just make it part of my normal day.
The key really is to take advantage of anytime an attractive woman is going to cross your path. Just have a go to Intro routing that you can then branch into a real conversation to see what they are about.

Here's my go to "intro routine"
Me: Hey do you know a good place to eat around here?"
Her: answer, usually pretty long. (and I've actually found good places to eat because of this)
You: Oh are you from around here?
Her: answer
Me: Wow are all the girls from {there} as beautiful as you? or Actually I just saw you and thought you were cute so I wanted to start a conversation with you.

Then talk to them. They'll love it. Your "old enough" issue is a non-issue. You're not about to rape them on the street. Make their day

I'm taking some courses at a junior college, so I consider myself lucky and that's at least a number a day, other then that it's at the gas station, clothing store, downtown, beach, wherever my life takes me.

Have fun.
Author:  Dragula [ Sun Sep 20, 2015 9:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Night and day, how to make the "transition"?
It is completely different. The guys who do well at night game but never do day game usually means they just get drunk and somehow make it happen, I'm right aren't I?

Daygame guys that never do night usually have escalation issues and usually make some excuse like 'The girls are bad quality and the music is too loud' or something.
Author:  elliotrey [ Sun Sep 20, 2015 10:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Night and day, how to make the "transition"?
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Cause to me, they really do seem like completely different worlds!

let me know what you guys think, that'd be great?
Hey awesomeness,

I hear you there. I had a similar transition around 4 years ago. It was all parts and drunken approaches before then. I got say day game is actually much more rich. It's more rich in how you den get deeper inside her.

The way I transitioned into it ( which is what I recommend to you ) is doing day approaches to anyone and everyone. When you just approach as many people as possible it becomes like a reflex. I'm sure your over AA - I can hear that in your words. What I recon your going to find is that day game is much more fun.

For example when your out getting some food - you have the whole supermarket as your playground. I started with situational openers with just about anyone. Now anytime during the day if I see someone that I like ( not going to use numbers ) then I use any excuse possible.

One of the best places that gave me allot of strength was the gym - Gym's can be slightly harsh for day game, unless your used to it. I recommend it tho, dive in deep before long you will be flying.

Also just don't focus on results - just have fun with it. People want some fun to break up their day - even if you don't close at least you made a little sunshine come in. Shine bright legend!
Author:  elliotrey [ Sun Sep 20, 2015 10:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Night and day, how to make the "transition"?
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It is completely different. The guys who do well at night game but never do day game usually means they just get drunk and somehow make it happen, I'm right aren't I?

Daygame guys that never do night usually have escalation issues and usually make some excuse like 'The girls are bad quality and the music is too loud' or something.
Your posts always make me smile. Thanks for that.
Author:  Looksie [ Mon Sep 21, 2015 12:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Night and day, how to make the "transition"?
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It is completely different. The guys who do well at night game but never do day game usually means they just get drunk and somehow make it happen, I'm right aren't I?
I would say that most of my success at night time has had a lot to do with my game, rather than being drunk. I had a little think about it and of the 25 plus women I have slept with (Not a lot I know) only about 4, maybe 5 of them I met or laid whilst drunk; Having said that I would also say that since I broke up with my ex and have been back in the game, I have had a BIG reliance on alcohol when gaming. If I'm honest I haven't gone out sober since... So It's interesting you bring it up, cause I have been thinking of knocking the booze on the head for a number of reasons including health and general well-being, so yeah, thanks for the input, I really think I am at some form of reboot stage with my game right now and I genuinely think going out sober and cold approaching like I used to is definitely key. I guess at some point I lost my way a bit...
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Cause to me, they really do seem like completely different worlds!

let me know what you guys think, that'd be great?
Hey awesomeness,

I hear you there. I had a similar transition around 4 years ago. It was all parts and drunken approaches before then. I got say day game is actually much more rich. It's more rich in how you den get deeper inside her.

The way I transitioned into it ( which is what I recommend to you ) is doing day approaches to anyone and everyone. When you just approach as many people as possible it becomes like a reflex. I'm sure your over AA - I can hear that in your words. What I recon your going to find is that day game is much more fun.

For example when your out getting some food - you have the whole supermarket as your playground. I started with situational openers with just about anyone. Now anytime during the day if I see someone that I like ( not going to use numbers ) then I use any excuse possible.

One of the best places that gave me allot of strength was the gym - Gym's can be slightly harsh for day game, unless your used to it. I recommend it tho, dive in deep before long you will be flying.

Also just don't focus on results - just have fun with it. People want some fun to break up their day - even if you don't close at least you made a little sunshine come in. Shine bright legend!

Really appreciate this input, good to know it's not all in my head!

Thanks for the suggestions, really helpful and will action these ideas ASAP.

I agree with the deep end thing too, it's totally how I operate and have recently joined the gym, so will give it a go and report back (probably going to do regular field reports).
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The key really is to take advantage of anytime an attractive woman is going to cross your path. Just have a go to Intro routing that you can then branch into a real conversation to see what they are about.
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Very straight forward and helpful points. I just need to get on with it really.

Thanks guys, I have a fair amount to work with here.
Author:  TheOnlineWingman [ Sat Oct 17, 2015 11:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Night and day, how to make the "transition"?
You can do daygame anywhere where there are girls walking around. A mall, a coffee shop, anywhere that isn`t a club context. The way you could transition is by doing at least one daygame approach a day and then amp it up.
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