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| Author: | Adam_Sandler [ Sun Sep 06, 2015 7:38 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Be direct get, and get results. |
I am just imparting some advice, which has helped me become a better ladies man. Feel free to try it out, or criticize my advice. In most pickup and seduction scenarios, the woman has to make a series of decisions (whether to talk to you, give you her number, hook up with you, etc). The more "yes's" you get the more momentum you build, and the opposite is true of "no's." Some guys refer to this as compliance. These decision can be the result of a verbal request or non-verbal escalation/request. As a guy using direct game, you should be looking to get "yes's" early and often, in order to build momentum and propel the seduction along. Ultimately girls choose who they want to chat with, sleep with, etc. So it is important to give them a clear choice regarding the matter. In doing so, you convey intent, action, and confidence. The opposite does not clearly convey content, and can give the impression that you are passive or lack confidence (unless you are running some type of indirect game). As a guy using direct game, you need to be active and clear about your intent. From the introduction until hooking up, be active about finding what the girl's boundaries are, and letting her make a decision. If the girl wants to sleep with you, then you will get "yes's" all the way through. Otherwise at some point you will get a "no", at which point it becomes your time to decided if you want to continue or not, and the best way to get past that barrier. |
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| Author: | JackZero [ Sun Sep 06, 2015 7:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Be direct get, and get results. |
I pretty much agree with what you have to say here. The only thing I would say that I see somewhat differently is that whether you are direct or indirect, the guys that I see that are successful with women when it comes to seduction is that they don't stray away from their purpose no matter how they approach. The guys that approach and get a positive response and then start questioning if the girl will go along with whatever they do next are the guys that tend not to do as well and these are also the guys that tend to be indirect. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Sun Sep 06, 2015 8:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Be direct get, and get results. |
Then you get a massive chunk of guys who are dealing with LMR and then listen to the girl's "No" as a sign of that she is disinterested when it's just token resistance. I do agree with direct, but you're just NOT always gonna get verbal 'yes's' or 'no's' from girls even though their body language is saying something else. Listen to the actions because a lot of guys fuck this part up. Pretend your picks up's are on mute. Focus on the non verbal. If you're talking to a girl and she pointinf her feet away from you, you know you need to game her till her feet are pointing at you. She could be asking you questions but not always an IOI, the feet or facial expressions tell more to the interaction. You can learn a lot from YouTube vids by putting it on mute and you can tell if the number will flake or not. |
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| Author: | Adam_Sandler [ Sun Sep 06, 2015 8:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Be direct get, and get results. |
To be clear, I am speaking in terms of non verbal "yes's" and "no's" as well. When it comes to mix signals, I suppose some pasts experiences with different degrees of compliance would benefit you. |
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| Author: | Compass782 [ Wed Sep 09, 2015 3:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Be direct get, and get results. |
Quote: To be clear, I am speaking in terms of non verbal "yes's" and "no's" as well. When it comes to mix signals, I suppose some pasts experiences with different degrees of compliance would benefit you.
I really like how you tagged in the non-verbal yeses as well.They say the guy is always the initiator to women, but whenever I've had "success" with a girl, they've always given me some sign (eye stares,looking around,or general open body language). This is an old Niel Strauss tact of Yes Ladder but seems you've taken a more observant approach, so as whether to act further or not ,instead of just forcing yeses from her by asking questions you know shes going to nod to. |
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