Hi,

I want to share my method with the PUA forum as I believe I am an emerging dating coach. I come to the table with a lot of knowledge of female behavior patterns. I also bring to the table much knowledge on thought and behavior and I would like to leave all the current coaches out there to do their thing and teach things like what to say and do to make women attracted to you. I think pickup has moved or is moving towards self help and self development in life in general instead of being fixated on picking up women itself just for enjoyment.

I am a chef so I like to think of life in the analogy of 'recipes'
So whats the recipe to being attractive to the majority of women. A huge question!!! But like food recipes... there is more than 1000 recipes online where if you follow them... you will end up with .....a 'cake'

So what do I think are ingredients to being attractive to women??? And How do I mix these in the right quantities so that what I end up with is a personality that works for me??

2 EGG's = EGO: Everyone has an EGO. The simplest way I like to explain the EGO to people is to use a comparison analogy. Such as. An 'EGG'.... Lets break it down into 3 parts
1. The Yolk
2. The White
3. The Shell

Lets symbolize all memories that define everything about you and your life up to this moment the YOLK. This is a very nutritious ball of all good, bad, pain, pleasure, learning, epiphanies, experience as a human.

Now all those memories have been experienced by your 5 senses and filtered before stored as memories. Useless information has been deleted, distorted and condensed to fit into your reality. Lets symbolise this filter as the Egg White.

Now as a human in today's day and age we need to fit into society somehow, so we instinctively developed a social front that I would call the 'EGO' and that is symbolized as the SHELL.

So whats the number one way to attract a woman... to stand out.. and that means to be different.. now if everyone has an EGO and you know this.... Why not learn the skill of detaching yourself from yours so that you still remain someone with an ego... however you are able to detach from it when speaking to women. Because if there is one way to stand out from every other man then its to be seen as different to all the other guys. And this can be achieved by appearing not to have a shell covering your pains and experience in life. Its almost as if your saying.... look we all have pain, things we regret, bad things we've done in the past but im willing to be open and laugh at my embarrassing moments, I am willing to hold my hands up when I am wrong, I am willing to change points about myself that dont serve me anymore but once did..behaviors in life sometimes have a use by date. They suit you then and work but they may be like off MILK now

More another day. Time to sleep.