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| Author: | JHA91 [ Sun Apr 05, 2015 8:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Situational Openers |
Hey guys, A situational opener is a way of approaching a girl by using something that is going on around him in order to start up a conversation. It's different to using canned material or whatever, because it is something that simply comes naturally and spontaneously and less likely to leave a girl wondering, "who is this weirdo!?" Thought of an interesting game, where you come up with a real life scenario, e.g. a girl is walking a dog, and then the poster below comes up with an opener based on the situation. e.g. The other day I was walking to a train platform and a girl had a suitcase on wheels. She lazily tried to just push the suitcase so she wouldn't have to keep dragging it along but then quickly had to regain control of the suitcase, so I turned around and said, "looks like you've got a suitcase that walks by itself". Ok so I'll make one up now, e.g. punk rocker chick is walking down the busiest street in town. Now the poster below me needs to think of an interesting situational opener to use. Shoot! |
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| Author: | JHA91 [ Sun Apr 05, 2015 10:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Situational Openers |
Ok, I'll go first, "Hey girl, I'm not surprised to find you out on such a busy street, I mean punk rocker chicks like you like the band Traffic, am I right?" Ok that was terrible but I'm sure you guys can think of something better, so here's another scenario... A woman is walking her dog in the park she has it walking perfectly to heel and off the lead...What do you say? |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Mon Apr 06, 2015 5:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Situational Openers |
Ok I like this thread a lot because situational is where it's at so long as the guy is not opening like he's a neutered bff, but rather as a potential SEXUAL partner. In my view situational is less about whatever is going on and more about projecting a smooth vibe over to the girl where she realizes instantly, "here is a guy that is VERY used to bantering with hot girls." To critique your proposed line and I hope you don't mind, but I would not open with "hey girl". To me that puts them in a superior position in some way. Also making it about her "you like the band traffic" is something they're also used to. Make situational openers about you or about a shared experience. Avoid putting the girl on any possible sort of pedestal at all costs for the initial opener. Give mild compliments after it's already established that you nonverbally recognize that she shits, pisses and gets horny like the remaining 8 billion people on the planet. Quote: punk rocker chick is walking down the busiest street in town. Now the poster below me needs to think of an interesting situational opener to use.
"HEY. I have a question. (her reply). Your hair........I want to spike my hair up like that how do you do it."Quote: A woman is walking her dog in the park she has it walking perfectly to heel and off the lead...What do you say?
"What kind of dog is that? (her reply). What's its name? (pet the dog). Wow he really follows your lead. (Her [giggling if you're doing it right] reply). My buddy's dog is a wild beast he X, Y, Z the other day lol. How do you control him like that?"The above proposed "openers" would potentially get a guy in to a nice little convo with the girl. It's not important what the guy says to get in to a conversation with the girl. What is important is the DEMEANOR that he is giving off, that demeanor being that he would not mind, should she be a chill girl, to fucking get with her. She can feel that in her thighs even before he says word 1. Ok now I will propose the scenario and let's see if the thread keeps going: You are walking along a boardwalk alongside the ocean. The girl is walking towards you and eying you as the two of you approach eachother on opposite sides of the boardwalk. |
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| Author: | JHA91 [ Tue Apr 07, 2015 7:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Situational Openers |
Ok I'll go again, see if we can get the ball rolling... Quote: You are walking along a boardwalk alongside the ocean. The girl is walking towards you and eying you as the two of you approach eachother on opposite sides of the boardwalk.
"Hey! It's like this is the wild west and we're doing a reverse face off...who shot who?"Ok, a girl's sitting on a park bench with a burrito sandwich, you don't know what to say to her... |
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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Tue Apr 07, 2015 10:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Situational Openers |
Quote: Ok, a girl's sitting on a park bench with a burrito sandwich, you don't know what to say to her...
That looks delicious. Can I get a byte? Just a little bit, I promise I won't eat more than half of it...Situation: A girl is sitting with a friend in a bar and eyeing you. How do you engage? |
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| Author: | JHA91 [ Wed Apr 08, 2015 2:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Situational Openers |
"Are you just gonna stare or night or say something interesting?" Girl is in friendship group in park, nice weather, someone is playing frisby near by, some of the girl's friends are guys. |
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