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Author:  ASmooth90 [ Mon Mar 30, 2015 1:56 am ]
Post subject:  Catching the Elusive Perfect 10
Hey guys, I have a great opportunity here and I don't want to mess it up. I'm interacting with a perfect 10 (no joke) and I think that there is potential. This girl is definitely GF material, not just a hook up. I'd appreciate some advice so I don't fuck it up. Here is my assessment of the interaction so far:

Pros:
- She initiated with me. We go to professional school together, and she asked if I wanted to "study" with her.
- I'm more knowledgeable in the subject matter than she is, and when we "study," it's basically me teaching her.
- The sub-communications are mixed, but more good than bad. She has given me multiple IOIs. (sexual eye contact, conversation about sexual subjects, her explicitly saying that she doesn't have a bf).
- I have an excellent excuse to see her at least once a week, we "study" together.

Cons:
- She is pursued by a lot of guys. Every guy that I have spoken to about her thinks she's smoking hot.
- She doesn't respond so well to touch. I notice that she's uncomfortable when I touch her.
- I hinted that she should come out for drinks with me sometime, and she wasn't into it.
- She may be concerned about her reputation. We are part of the same social circle, and she doesn't want to be judged by others.

Feel free to ask for more specifics. Like I said, I think there's potential here, but one wrong step and I'll lose it, because she has a lot of choices when it comes to men.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Mon Mar 30, 2015 2:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Catching the Elusive Perfect 10
Quote:
- She doesn't respond so well to touch. I notice that she's uncomfortable when I touch her.
- I hinted that she should come out for drinks with me sometime, and she wasn't into it.
These two really make me think you're seeing what you want to see... IE: you're perceiving interest where there may not be any.

That isn't a bad thing. It's a good idea to think that everyone is interested, and it's the right mindset to be in.

What's NOT right about your mindset:
Quote:
I'm interacting with a perfect 10 (no joke) and I think that there is potential. This girl is definitely GF material, not just a hook up
It's just a girl, dude... She shits, she farts, she picks her nose... Sure she may be pretty, but you're building her up mentally. That will be your downfall.
Author:  ASmooth90 [ Tue Mar 31, 2015 12:33 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Catching the Elusive Perfect 10
I have an abundance mindset and I'm assuming attraction. The only outward manifestation of my opinion of her is that I have not been using heavy teasing, which is usually a core element of my game. Ideally, I would like some practical suggestions as to how to escalate without spooking her.
Author:  WAY2KNOWZY [ Tue Mar 31, 2015 1:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Catching the Elusive Perfect 10
I would move in slowly and try to explain the subject with more natural touching like hands on learning. It might sound dumb but you can make learning fun while exhibiting your character and personality. Right now she thinks you're just a tutor.
Author:  H4ck3rLarry [ Tue Mar 31, 2015 6:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Catching the Elusive Perfect 10
Dont work on the conscious but the subconscious.

Cut much of the conscious game by asking her what she likes and if she wants to come with you anywhere..
Be more leading.. Say, lets go to some book shop, i need help with buying a book ;)

She uses stereotypes, so asking her to go to a pub or bar, generates more anxiety..but just going to a shop or simply walking to unimportant place should be okay. Try to 'bounce' from one location to another..establish comfort.

With touching..it is kino, you have to do at least some of it. touch lightly her hands or the areas behind the arms.. it is not sexual.. and not being so felt. Touch releases extocin. Extocin is a hormone that is released in women after orgasm.. it leads to bonding. What would hormone would your body release if she touched your knee repeatitively? You get the idea?

Look for Mystery method.

I am going through a tougher phase..I didnt time bridge (like Mystery said)..and I try to meet that person in again (I met her on the street and build some comfort levels). Now it is a facebook game..and I might lose today and thats it.
Author:  ASmooth90 [ Wed Apr 01, 2015 6:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Catching the Elusive Perfect 10
Good stuff. What sort of IOIs do you guys look for to indicate that she's down for a kiss? I think I have to escalate this one in the library, it's going to be very difficult to pull her to a more secluded location
Author:  ezco2001 [ Sat Apr 04, 2015 1:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Catching the Elusive Perfect 10
Take her somewhere cool outdoors to study.. a park or something.. just chill and seduce her...
Author:  ezco2001 [ Sat Apr 04, 2015 1:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Catching the Elusive Perfect 10
and dont just ask her out for drinks "sometime"... Youre just seeking validation.. if there is something you actually want to do at a specific time ask her if she wants to come..
Author:  WillEdward [ Mon Apr 06, 2015 9:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Catching the Elusive Perfect 10
I agree that you should bounce to more casual settings and game outside of the studying frame. Some girls don't like getting drinks or it just might be too much pressure since she wants to keep the relationship the way it is. But you can still "sneak" your game in by doing something more casual like going to a bookstore, park or something. You need to escalate at some point and be comfortable with it so she's fine with it. Calibrate to her responses by your touch. If she pulls back or is uncomfortable, then pull back continue to qualify her and try again later. I like to kiss her when I've built up sexual tension by slowly closing the space between us, slowing my speech and introduce pauses and eye contact and then go for it when I feel it.
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