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Author:  Adam_Sandler [ Thu Mar 19, 2015 5:39 am ]
Post subject:  Don't think just feel
Don't think just feel has been my general philosophy when dealing with women. I believe that too many guys develop the bad habit of trying to rationalize and think logically about what women do and say. The truth is that women are emotional creatures, thinking logically about male-to-female interactions is a guy thing. I suggest getting in touch with your emotional side, and I am not talking about being and emo guy or flower child. Simply put, live in the moment and do what you feel. Quiet your mind, and let how you feel guide your actions.

Do not get caught in the trap of constantly scheming your next move, decided how and what girls to approach, or thinking about your interaction with women as it progresses. Your words and actions should be in-sync. You should be saying the words and carrying out the actions as soon as they come to mind. Also focus more on how you feel and how the girl feels. Perhaps the one thing you should be deeply thinking about is how to best convey a good feeling that you and the girl can share.

Lastly, think less about the environment and people around you. Do not be constantly judging the environment, take it all in in a fell the vibe it gives you. Look for good vibes being extended from others, and look to extend your good feelings to everyone that is receptive.

I sound like a hippie or new age guru, but what the hell. The point is to just be in-tune with how you are feeling, how the girl is feeling, the vibe or the environment, and how to coney a good vibe.
Author:  oceanx [ Thu Mar 19, 2015 6:59 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Don't think just feel
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Perhaps the one thing you should be deeply thinking about is how to best convey a good feeling that you and the girl can share.
THIS all day every day. Women are mirrors and when you have a positive attitude they will mirror that back 95 times out of 100 NO MATTER WHAT WAS GOING ON IN THEIR LIVES THAT DAY. They are mirrors gents.
Author:  chi31fan35 [ Thu Mar 19, 2015 12:30 pm ]
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I want to start accessing my feelings more by making more "I feel" statements. Do you guys have any other suggestions for accessing emotions?
Author:  ChocolatePUA [ Fri Mar 20, 2015 1:23 pm ]
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Perhaps the one thing you should be deeply thinking about is how to best convey a good feeling that you and the girl can share.
THIS all day every day. Women are mirrors and when you have a positive attitude they will mirror that back 95 times out of 100 NO MATTER WHAT WAS GOING ON IN THEIR LIVES THAT DAY. They are mirrors gents.
Agreed. This is why I think the presence of "routines" has been extremely overhyped in the field of attraction. They are great if you have literally nothing else to say, but are useless if you cannot convey the right emotions and meanings. I personally got the "are you running a survey?" question when I first started out, because I didn't understand this concept.

Meanwhile, you can say almost literally anything and have it hook because you conveyed the right qualities and calibrated your emotions correctly.

I've pulled with "what are you drinking" or "hi". I've also pulled with saying ABSOLUTELY NOTHING AT ALL. That's because my body language and mindset were so good that words weren't necessary.
Author:  Compass782 [ Mon Sep 07, 2015 11:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Don't think just feel
Feel the Force young Padawan feel it.... you cannot touch it, yet it permeates everything and binds the universe together...
been reading though a few posts on here and they all seem to be tipping away from semantics, and sliding more towards something almost zen like in its nature in dealing with women, which I'm proud of. The old school pua needs to die cheesy lines and insulting women will just make you seem weird...

I think I'm going to post something on here about my philosophy on it...
Author:  Adam_Sandler [ Tue Sep 08, 2015 6:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Don't think just feel
The semantics are good for when you're just starting out and building confidence, they helped me out a lot way back in high school. That being said, having solid inner game and self-actualized attractive lifestyle/aura seem to be more beneficial.

In any event, the semantics, and a few tricks/tactics are usual from time to time, so long as they are used sparingly in the right occasions.
Author:  Conflict [ Tue Sep 08, 2015 6:09 pm ]
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Holy shit this is so true!! I felt weird for doing this!! My text game is really analytical but i cant do that on when face-to-face. It feels like a superpower sometimes though right?
Author:  Compass782 [ Wed Sep 09, 2015 3:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Don't think just feel
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The semantics are good for when you're just starting out and building confidence, they helped me out a lot way back in high school. That being said, having solid inner game and self-actualized attractive lifestyle/aura seem to be more beneficial.

In any event, the semantics, and a few tricks/tactics are usual from time to time, so long as they are used sparingly in the right occasions.
For sure their good to have and worked in organically sure. We all have phrases,stories,gestures we fall back on because they worked in the past.
It becomes like a juggling act when in you'r head "ok,lets get this person to like me" "ok funny story check,kino check,smile...am I smiling too much?,o go awkward pause sh*t abort! abort!". I've found in my experience people, no matter what level of intelligence can tell when you'r being insincere. If you'r trying to pick up a girl they already know/can tell, so I often say it doesn't matter what you say at that point they can tell pretty fast if they want to get to know you better, so long as you don't come off as a Nutter :).

Good luck, and may the Force be with you.
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