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| Author: | Black Phantom [ Fri Mar 13, 2015 7:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What is Natural Game all About |
I want to make a quick post about what is natural game all about. I just got off the call talking about this with a client of mine, who wanted to feel more like himself when talking and being around women. He didn't want to use canned routines, but most importantly, he didn't want to calculate his every move in advance when with a woman. He simply wanted to feel that he can take a deep breathe in, and just be who he is, without worrying what the girl thinks of him, does she like him or not. And in essence, he described the core of Natural Game. Natural Game is about being who you are with women. It's about FEELING OK with who you are, not feeling like you're not good enough for her but enjoying the moment with her, giving her that deep presence of a man. Let me give you a mini-blueprint into how to develop Natural Game and talk about 2 most important things you need to address. And this isn't some esoteric thing that only the special among us can achieve. Becoming a natural is simply coming back to who YOU really are inside, to connect yourself with your sense of worth and who you are as a man. It's about coming back to you. There are 2 pillars that I teach to become a Natural: 1. SELF-ACCEPTANCE Self acceptance means that you accept every single part of your BEING. - Acceptance of your thoughts, - Acceptance of your actions, - Acceptance of your fears and desires. You feel like you want to fuck a woman after you meet her? Well, how do you feel about it? Are you ashamed of it, or have you accepted this? You feel fear and anxiety when you start talking with a girl? Have you accepted the fact that you feel like that? You feel insecure about how you look and about what she thinks of you? Have you accepted that or are you still fighting against it? You want to come to a point where you are not running away from yourself, but being AT PEACE with yourself. 2. DETACHMENT Detachment means that you let go of things you are attached to. - It can be your neediness for women, - it can be your ideal of how you need to be in order for women to feel attracted to you. Do you think you need to look buff before women will like you? You need to let that idea go... Do you feel needy when you're talking with a girl and you get in your head thinking how to get her? You need to let that go... In essence, you need to come to a point where you don't feel ATTACHED to any idea or a desire with a woman. These are 2 biggest things you gotta do in order to step towards being a natural. This isn't a professional post, if you want to read my professional, edited and longer post, go to my blog. Have fun guys, because that's what this is all about! Phantom |
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| Author: | CountRedRover [ Fri Mar 13, 2015 8:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What is Natural Game all About |
Great informative post! One thing that Mark Manson said that I like is "If you pretend to be someone you're not: a fake alpha, coming from fake dhv stories, etc. The girl will not stay with you. She will see throughout your relationship you are an entirely different person, and leave you because of that. So always be you." |
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