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| Author: | Vandal PUA [ Tue Nov 18, 2014 1:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Depression and lost my inner game |
For whatever reason, It seems like I have gone downhill compared to how I was doing 2 months ago. For whatever reason, I seem to have lost my confidence. My Inner game is crap, I got major AA when I was going to practice daygame at a mall, I seriously do not know what happened. What's happening? I feel depressed for the first time in 2 years? Here is my journal as a reference: http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ Any help would be appreciated. Thanks. |
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| Author: | _Lothario_ [ Tue Nov 18, 2014 4:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Depression and lost my inner game |
Chemical imbalances, usually caused by diet and lack of sunlight. Maybe you are not eating properly. Focus on positivity. If something brings you down, just focus on something else. Write down some goals and things you are looking forward to and get tunnel vision on all of it. Get your bed made. Get your room cleaned and keep up on little things that build up over time. Exercise. It is a good way for the body to release endorphins that make you feel great. Depression is an action. If you are being depressed, do something else. You can't be depressed if you are painting or reading instead. |
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| Author: | Unrelenting Ambition [ Tue Nov 25, 2014 12:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Depression and lost my inner game |
How often do you work out? Hitting the gym is one of the best natural short and long term antidepressants |
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| Author: | Chris Bale [ Tue Nov 25, 2014 3:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Depression and lost my inner game |
Find an interest or passion outside of "daygame" and girls. One of the biggest issues when guys get into pick-up is their entire purpose becomes about getting girls. Not only is this really damaging to you personally, its also very unattractive to women. I was like this before. All my focus was on getting chicks. I was not happy. So i gave up. Found a passion...then all of a sudden, boom! Girls want a guy who is passionate about something. If you balance something you love doing, with then after interacting with girls, it should make a huge difference. Remember, getting girls is not the result of getting good with game, getting girls comes from getting good with yourself, your life, your role, your purpose. Then, as i said begin to combine the both. Good luck mate |
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| Author: | Unrelenting Ambition [ Tue Nov 25, 2014 6:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Depression and lost my inner game |
Quote: Find an interest or passion outside of "daygame" and girls. One of the biggest issues when guys get into pick-up is their entire purpose becomes about getting girls. Not only is this really damaging to you personally, its also very unattractive to women.
As cliche as this post and its ideas are (and I thought these kind of ideas were bullshit for awhile) they are true, however; I know how hard it is to believe in these type of abstract things before you've had them happen but once you have the "click", magic happens.
I was like this before. All my focus was on getting chicks. I was not happy. So i gave up. Found a passion...then all of a sudden, boom! Girls want a guy who is passionate about something. If you balance something you love doing, with then after interacting with girls, it should make a huge difference. Remember, getting girls is not the result of getting good with game, getting girls comes from getting good with yourself, your life, your role, your purpose. Then, as i said begin to combine the both. Good luck mate |
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