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Author:  suprememe [ Mon May 12, 2014 6:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Approaching barmaid
Hey guys.

So there is new girl working at a caffe where i drink coffe 2-3 times a week but nevermind that..She is really cute and i wanted to approach her but then i realized i don't have any day game whatsoever and i have never approached barmaids or any girls at day.. My night game is not good either but nevermind that working on it :)

I want to meet her and ask her out but don't know how to do it..
She doesn't know me , I don't know her either.. We didn't have any interaction at all..
I want to start that but don't know how..any tips?
Author:  Hunter_Foxe [ Mon May 12, 2014 7:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching barmaid
Do not attempt if the café is really busy.

Assuming there is no long queue behind you, you will need to interact with her anyway to order your coffee so just introduce yourself. You're in there often enough so she will recognise you. Alternatively make small talk when she comes near your table and bounce the conversation from there.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon May 12, 2014 7:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching barmaid
Quote:
Hey guys.

So there is new girl working at a caffe where i drink coffe 2-3 times a week but nevermind that..She is really cute and i wanted to approach her but then i realized i don't have any day game whatsoever and i have never approached barmaids or any girls at day.. My night game is not good either but nevermind that working on it :)

I want to meet her and ask her out but don't know how to do it..
She doesn't know me , I don't know her either.. We didn't have any interaction at all..
I want to start that but don't know how..any tips?
Simple no game required opener.

On your bill, before you pay it, turn it over and draw two boxes, one labeled YES one NO.

Under that write 'Do you think I'm cute?' Under that write 'Number?________________'
Author:  suprememe [ Mon May 12, 2014 7:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching barmaid
actually , she doesn't take orders...if she did i know in basics what to do to start small talk...but waiter takes orders and she's just behind bar making drinks..
Author:  alphabro [ Tue May 13, 2014 12:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching barmaid
Quote:
actually , she doesn't take orders...if she did i know in basics what to do to start small talk...but waiter takes orders and she's just behind bar making drinks..
do you know any of the waiters? have them introduce you..

if you don't know the waiters you could always ask if they will send her over.. Customer service places are always inclined to do whatever the customer says. When she gets to the table ask her something dumb like "where did you get that sweater". Key is to be NONTHREATENING with this approach because you have a lot of ground to make up just sitting at a table while she walks up to you wondering "what does this weirdo want".

Do you get any oppurtunity to talk to her ? If she walks by stop her and get her opinion on something and then try and make her laugh. DON"T talk to her about work..
Author:  suprememe [ Tue May 13, 2014 2:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching barmaid
i can't get any opportunity to talk to her because she's all the time behind the bar making drinks... but thanks , you helped me with advice to ask her opinion or say something dumb of course if i catch her passing by :)
Author:  suprememe [ Wed May 14, 2014 6:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching barmaid
I made some progress today..
Recently i started no fap challenge because it became like addiction to porn more than it was satisfaction i get from fapping...
It's been day 3 now and i was at a same caffe drinking coffee , i noticed two IOI's as you call them from some girls etc...barmaid approached me asking for a lighter so i started small talk with her for a minute because she was busy working...and i continued to have conversation with a friend when i had a feeling someone is watching...and i caught her looking at me so I made eye contact with her and smiled a little bit then turned around to continue conversation with a friend..i hope i'll make more progress in future
Author:  alphabro [ Wed May 14, 2014 9:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Approaching barmaid
Quote:
I made some progress today..
Recently i started no fap challenge because it became like addiction to porn more than it was satisfaction i get from fapping...
It's been day 3 now and i was at a same caffe drinking coffee , i noticed two IOI's as you call them from some girls etc...barmaid approached me asking for a lighter so i started small talk with her for a minute because she was busy working...and i continued to have conversation with a friend when i had a feeling someone is watching...and i caught her looking at me so I made eye contact with her and smiled a little bit then turned around to continue conversation with a friend..i hope i'll make more progress in future
Good stuff my man, I'd like to see you take it up a notch. Walk up to her at the bar, show some confidence.
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