PUA Forum :: She isolates me (more times!) then says she's got a bf. Help

Yo!
Wall of text inc. but i will tell you whole story, it's pretty interesting as i've never experienced anything like that before

So a month ago a girl approached me in the club and asked me: Are you synergyz(she used my real name). And I was like yeah, that's me. Then we talk a little and she's like ''Come with me, i will introduce you to my friend''.
But i had my other friends with me so I was like Yeah later maybe, and we didnt meet that night anymore. I added her on facebook next day and msged her: You suck as a wingman!

. Ever since we've had funny and interesting small talks over facebook, 1 week after that she asked me if I'm coming to a party that's she's attending, but i didn't. So we decided to throw a party where i'll bring my friends and she brings her friends (6 girls and 6 boys). She hit me up on fb few times after that just checking in on me, we had some nice jokes etc. I really liked her as i was able to talk to her genuinely, without having to even think what to reply.

So she pushes hard to do that group meeting last week and so we did it. It was pretty fun, she brought her girls i brought my boys, we had a really good time. She laughs at almost everything i say. We go to the club she asks me to come with her (alone) for a cig. She touches me etc. As i wanna go for the kiss she's like I got a boyfriend. I got him today. As i have some reputation as a player and this girl is really high quality, I kind of thought to myself bullshit, shit test. So i say Oh, that's really nice but too bad, cuz i know excatly what you're doing. You dont wanna look like a slut, but that's fine we wont do anything dirty

And she's like no really I got into a relationship with the guy i was just hooking up today at lunch. I'm like fine, I walk away to her friends we hit the club. 5 mins after she comes to me and drags me away again. I think to myself, Ok this is it bro, boom i got a bf reply again. I walk away she grabs my hand drags me somewhere alone AGAIN touches my chest and arms (i got pretty nice posture since i've been hitting gym for 4 years now). Again the bf bullshit. So i say, look girl, I really like you but I'm too old to play games with you, It's up to you what we're doing tonight. She gives me a innocent kiss on mouth and nothing else. Bf piece of crap again. I walk away she comes after me again and then I'm like look, if u got a bf i wont intrude, i'll go down and find myself a girl. At this point her friends were leaving already as it was like 3.30 and she went with them (i bought a round of drinks for all the girls before, they bought it back and then she bought me 1 round herself aswell

). 2 mins after i get a text from her: Don't you dare go down for girls

!. I'm hungry at this point so I went to grab a kebab with my friend. I meet the girls there again. Her friends are leaving and her bus is not coming yet so I'm like I live 10 mins from here, we can chill at my place and then you can go home. She says she has to find roomate and when she sees she's fine she goes with me. Her friends dont argue with her leaving with me (arent they supposed to if she had a bf?!) I didnt do anything at home cuz at this point I was wondering maybe she's really got a bf and she was pretty drunk at this point aswell. So i show her my room, I help her with pullups cuz i got bar inbetween my doors, and i made a tea for both of us. Her roomate texts her after like 30 mins at my place so she says she has to go. I escort her to the doors and she gives me a kiss on cheeks, and sends me txt after: I'm safe and home, ty for the tea it was perfect

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Next day I text her: I'd invite you for a another one, but i'm not sure since you got a bf

she replies: I'd gladly come for another cup of tea but i'm not sure since i got a boyfriend. So i think to myslef if ur bullshiting me i'll joke about it aswell so i reply. Great, bring him along we'll eat oranges and play chess. Ad i also teased her about her eating all my chocolate supplies when she was at my place

she replies: Hmm, i dont know...

and then something about chocolate. I didnt reply to that, but she snapshoted me 3 times after that that day.

So I'm really confused about the whole situation right now. Do you guys think she really has a bf? I asked her roomate when we were out and she said yes but I think she just played along with her. I mean, what are the odds of her getting a bf the exact same day we went out, and she talked to me like a month before. And days before we were going out about how we'll go out. My opinion: She doesnt wanna look like a slut/wants me to try harder to get her.

What do you guys think? How should I proceed? I was thinking of taking her out next week and see how things are. I really like this girls, she's one of the cutest girls I've ever seen and also intelligent one. I could see her as my girlfriend eventually.

Any thoughts and help/tips are appreciated

-> Synergyz

Author:	synergyz [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 12:49 am ]
Post subject:	She isolates me (more times!) then says she's got a bf. Help
Yo! Wall of text inc. but i will tell you whole story, it's pretty interesting as i've never experienced anything like that before So a month ago a girl approached me in the club and asked me: Are you synergyz(she used my real name). And I was like yeah, that's me. Then we talk a little and she's like ''Come with me, i will introduce you to my friend''. But i had my other friends with me so I was like Yeah later maybe, and we didnt meet that night anymore. I added her on facebook next day and msged her: You suck as a wingman! . Ever since we've had funny and interesting small talks over facebook, 1 week after that she asked me if I'm coming to a party that's she's attending, but i didn't. So we decided to throw a party where i'll bring my friends and she brings her friends (6 girls and 6 boys). She hit me up on fb few times after that just checking in on me, we had some nice jokes etc. I really liked her as i was able to talk to her genuinely, without having to even think what to reply. So she pushes hard to do that group meeting last week and so we did it. It was pretty fun, she brought her girls i brought my boys, we had a really good time. She laughs at almost everything i say. We go to the club she asks me to come with her (alone) for a cig. She touches me etc. As i wanna go for the kiss she's like I got a boyfriend. I got him today. As i have some reputation as a player and this girl is really high quality, I kind of thought to myself bullshit, shit test. So i say Oh, that's really nice but too bad, cuz i know excatly what you're doing. You dont wanna look like a slut, but that's fine we wont do anything dirty And she's like no really I got into a relationship with the guy i was just hooking up today at lunch. I'm like fine, I walk away to her friends we hit the club. 5 mins after she comes to me and drags me away again. I think to myself, Ok this is it bro, boom i got a bf reply again. I walk away she grabs my hand drags me somewhere alone AGAIN touches my chest and arms (i got pretty nice posture since i've been hitting gym for 4 years now). Again the bf bullshit. So i say, look girl, I really like you but I'm too old to play games with you, It's up to you what we're doing tonight. She gives me a innocent kiss on mouth and nothing else. Bf piece of crap again. I walk away she comes after me again and then I'm like look, if u got a bf i wont intrude, i'll go down and find myself a girl. At this point her friends were leaving already as it was like 3.30 and she went with them (i bought a round of drinks for all the girls before, they bought it back and then she bought me 1 round herself aswell ). 2 mins after i get a text from her: Don't you dare go down for girls !. I'm hungry at this point so I went to grab a kebab with my friend. I meet the girls there again. Her friends are leaving and her bus is not coming yet so I'm like I live 10 mins from here, we can chill at my place and then you can go home. She says she has to find roomate and when she sees she's fine she goes with me. Her friends dont argue with her leaving with me (arent they supposed to if she had a bf?!) I didnt do anything at home cuz at this point I was wondering maybe she's really got a bf and she was pretty drunk at this point aswell. So i show her my room, I help her with pullups cuz i got bar inbetween my doors, and i made a tea for both of us. Her roomate texts her after like 30 mins at my place so she says she has to go. I escort her to the doors and she gives me a kiss on cheeks, and sends me txt after: I'm safe and home, ty for the tea it was perfect . Next day I text her: I'd invite you for a another one, but i'm not sure since you got a bf she replies: I'd gladly come for another cup of tea but i'm not sure since i got a boyfriend. So i think to myslef if ur bullshiting me i'll joke about it aswell so i reply. Great, bring him along we'll eat oranges and play chess. Ad i also teased her about her eating all my chocolate supplies when she was at my place she replies: Hmm, i dont know... and then something about chocolate. I didnt reply to that, but she snapshoted me 3 times after that that day. So I'm really confused about the whole situation right now. Do you guys think she really has a bf? I asked her roomate when we were out and she said yes but I think she just played along with her. I mean, what are the odds of her getting a bf the exact same day we went out, and she talked to me like a month before. And days before we were going out about how we'll go out. My opinion: She doesnt wanna look like a slut/wants me to try harder to get her. What do you guys think? How should I proceed? I was thinking of taking her out next week and see how things are. I really like this girls, she's one of the cutest girls I've ever seen and also intelligent one. I could see her as my girlfriend eventually. Any thoughts and help/tips are appreciated -> Synergyz

Author:	LongSimple [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 12:55 am ]
Post subject:	Re: She isolates me (more times!) then says she's got a bf.
Quote: Yo! Wall of text inc. but i will tell you whole story, it's pretty interesting as i've never experienced anything like that before So a month ago a girl approached me in the club and asked me: Are you synergyz(she used my real name). And I was like yeah, that's me. Then we talk a little and she's like ''Come with me, i will introduce you to my friend''. But i had my other friends with me so I was like Yeah later maybe, and we didnt meet that night anymore. I added her on facebook next day and msged her: You suck as a wingman! . Ever since we've had funny and interesting small talks over facebook, 1 week after that she asked me if I'm coming to a party that's she's attending, but i didn't. So we decided to throw a party where i'll bring my friends and she brings her friends (6 girls and 6 boys). She hit me up on fb few times after that just checking in on me, we had some nice jokes etc. I really liked her as i was able to talk to her genuinely, without having to even think what to reply. So she pushes hard to do that group meeting last week and so we did it. It was pretty fun, she brought her girls i brought my boys, we had a really good time. She laughs at almost everything i say. We go to the club she asks me to come with her (alone) for a cig. She touches me etc. As i wanna go for the kiss she's like I got a boyfriend. I got him today. As i have some reputation as a player and this girl is really high quality, I kind of thought to myself bullshit, shit test. So i say Oh, that's really nice but too bad, cuz i know excatly what you're doing. You dont wanna look like a slut, but that's fine we wont do anything dirty And she's like no really I got into a relationship with the guy i was just hooking up today at lunch. I'm like fine, I walk away to her friends we hit the club. 5 mins after she comes to me and drags me away again. I think to myself, Ok this is it bro, boom i got a bf reply again. I walk away she grabs my hand drags me somewhere alone AGAIN touches my chest and arms (i got pretty nice posture since i've been hitting gym for 4 years now). Again the bf bullshit. So i say, look girl, I really like you but I'm too old to play games with you, It's up to you what we're doing tonight. She gives me a innocent kiss on mouth and nothing else. Bf piece of crap again. I walk away she comes after me again and then I'm like look, if u got a bf i wont intrude, i'll go down and find myself a girl. At this point her friends were leaving already as it was like 3.30 and she went with them (i bought a round of drinks for all the girls before, they bought it back and then she bought me 1 round herself aswell ). 2 mins after i get a text from her: Don't you dare go down for girls !. I'm hungry at this point so I went to grab a kebab with my friend. I meet the girls there again. Her friends are leaving and her bus is not coming yet so I'm like I live 10 mins from here, we can chill at my place and then you can go home. She says she has to find roomate and when she sees she's fine she goes with me. Her friends dont argue with her leaving with me (arent they supposed to if she had a bf?!) I didnt do anything at home cuz at this point I was wondering maybe she's really got a bf and she was pretty drunk at this point aswell. So i show her my room, I help her with pullups cuz i got bar inbetween my doors, and i made a tea for both of us. Her roomate texts her after like 30 mins at my place so she says she has to go. I escort her to the doors and she gives me a kiss on cheeks, and sends me txt after: I'm safe and home, ty for the tea it was perfect . Next day I text her: I'd invite you for a another one, but i'm not sure since you got a bf she replies: I'd gladly come for another cup of tea but i'm not sure since i got a boyfriend. So i think to myslef if ur bullshiting me i'll joke about it aswell so i reply. Great, bring him along we'll eat oranges and play chess. Ad i also teased her about her eating all my chocolate supplies when she was at my place she replies: Hmm, i dont know... and then something about chocolate. I didnt reply to that, but she snapshoted me 3 times after that that day. So I'm really confused about the whole situation right now. Do you guys think she really has a bf? I asked her roomate when we were out and she said yes but I think she just played along with her. I mean, what are the odds of her getting a bf the exact same day we went out, and she talked to me like a month before. And days before we were going out about how we'll go out. My opinion: She doesnt wanna look like a slut/wants me to try harder to get her. What do you guys think? How should I proceed? I was thinking of taking her out next week and see how things are. I really like this girls, she's one of the cutest girls I've ever seen and also intelligent one. I could see her as my girlfriend eventually. Any thoughts and help/tips are appreciated -> Synergyz Isolate her then bag her, her BF does not matter do not focus on the fact that she has a boyfriend. Just say "that's cool" If she brings up her boyfriend. The trick to dealing with boyfriends is Isolation.

Author:	synergyz [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 12:57 am ]
Post subject:	Re: She isolates me (more times!) then says she's got a bf.
Dude, she isolated me herslef and everytime i wanted to escalate she said she's got a bf no matter what i replied/did. That's why it's so confusing

Author:	LongSimple [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 12:59 am ]
Post subject:	Re: She isolates me (more times!) then says she's got a bf.
Quote: Dude, she isolated me herslef and everytime i wanted to escalate she said she's got a bf no matter what i replied/did. That's why it's so confusing Just ignore it.... It literally does not matter at all. Unless you are running game wrong but from what you said you are not. SHE HAS TO SAY SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND TO NOT LOOK LIKE A SLUT.

Author:	synergyz [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 1:03 am ]
Post subject:	Re: She isolates me (more times!) then says she's got a bf.
I'm pretty sure I know when I can kiss a girl, if i ignored her and just kiss in my situation It would've come off really weird. Basically what I wanna know is does she even have a boyfriend or is this whole bf thingy a bullshit shit test...

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Author:	LongSimple [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 1:06 am ]
Post subject:	Re: She isolates me (more times!) then says she's got a bf.
Quote: I'm pretty sure I know when I can kiss a girl, if i ignored her and just kiss in my situation It would've come off really weird. Basically what I wanna know is does she even have a boyfriend or is this whole bf thingy a bullshit shit test... Go in for the kiss, she says I have a bf, you whisper in a low tone " Its fine" then kiss her. AS LONG AS SHE IS ATTRACTED TO YOU, you will be fine.

Author:	synergyz [ Sun Mar 30, 2014 12:15 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: She isolates me (more times!) then says she's got a bf.
Thoughts on the situation, any1 else ?

Author:	Bankerbanger [ Tue Apr 01, 2014 5:12 am ]
Post subject:	Re: She isolates me (more times!) then says she's got a bf.
Nope, she's CLEARLY attracted to you so whether she actually has a boyfriend or not is irrelevant. The last chick I picked-up pull the same ''I have a boyfriend'' stuff. Still I K-closed on Day1 and F-Closed on day2. I just showed her I didn't care about it and that it doesn't matter. Since my frame was stronger than hers and that I played it cool, it went how I wanted it to go. I'd say just go for the kiss, but try an intense one so she can get really turned on an lose her ASD.

Author:	SOUL_FIGHTER [ Tue Apr 01, 2014 6:38 am ]
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MAINTAIN THE FRAME But you also coulda gone wrong in your whole approach. Maybe she thinks you're a sad knt for not trying anything a month earlier? Maybe that's why she thinks you're a player? Being player zoned is WORSE than being friend zoned and you best believe dat.

Author:	jackhammer95 [ Tue Apr 01, 2014 6:25 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: She isolates me (more times!) then says she's got a bf.
Dude, she is attracted to you what else do you need to bang her? ignore her BF bullshit, just escalate she will reject but let you do the things (you need to dominate a bit). BUT keep in mind if she pushes you hard then leave, she may have a BF.

Author:	synergyz [ Thu Apr 03, 2014 5:17 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: She isolates me (more times!) then says she's got a bf.
Quote: MAINTAIN THE FRAME But you also coulda gone wrong in your whole approach. Maybe she thinks you're a sad knt for not trying anything a month earlier? Maybe that's why she thinks you're a player? Being player zoned is WORSE than being friend zoned and you best believe dat. I didn't do anything a month before, because we never got to set up a date that would suit us both. I just told her it's her turn to ask me out for a drink now and I'll see how it goes But I think things with her will go well... She's snapshoting me like 15 times a day lol. And if not fk it Thanks for the insight btw

Author:	undeadbrain [ Mon Jun 09, 2014 2:08 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: She isolates me (more times!) then says she's got a bf.
Yo synergy...... PM me

Author:	LeEndez [ Mon Jun 23, 2014 11:25 am ]
Post subject:	Re: She isolates me (more times!) then says she's got a bf.
When a girl goes out of her way to tell you she has a boyfriend she's inadvertently telling you she's interested. She wanted you to kiss her, but she had to set up some boundaries so she wouldn't have to look bad / bear the burden of it of it all, but she really didn't care because she was trying to get you to kiss/nail her. She's probably looking for an excuse to get out of her current relationship. I had a girl go on for probably 30 minutes about her and her boyfriend, and how she cheated on him once, and "she would never do it again" Within an hour of telling me that she she snuggles next to me and tells me to take my glasses off so she can look into my my eyes and tells me she loves me. I wish I could have gone back, and beat myself over the head with a bat back then. Even if she does say "I've got a boyfriend." Comfort her and tell her. That's OK. We can be 'friends.'" Wink. Wink. In other words, you'll be her pretend-friend and comfort-base until she can get out of her terrible relationship she doesn't know how to get out of.

Author:	NaughtyNapoleon [ Mon Jun 30, 2014 4:53 am ]
Post subject:	Re: She isolates me (more times!) then says she's got a bf.
Most of the time I will just shut up & give her a face expression like, 'oh, you have a bf..' Then I will plant a quick kiss to her and continue our conversation like nothing happen.. She's tryiing to confuse(game) me & I am confuse (game) her back. After this, when I escalate on her again, she will mostly just give me some token resistance. The bf things gone... And we both have fun Try this out & let me know what happen. Signing out, Naughty Napoleon

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Author:	Mr K [ Wed Jul 02, 2014 8:56 pm ]
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Hmm that's her problem not yours. Only problem I see, if that if you actually start anything with this girl and it gets to the stage that you are in a relationship, how easy is she bagged off you? Maybe she's a 2 man girl. I know a girl with 2 girlfriends that know about each other. One drops her off at the others house and they both buy her loads of stuff. Bizarre really. Either way pursue, only one way to find out. Anyways, next time she kisses you or you think its a good time to kiss her, do it. Then lean back for a few seconds and do it again. If she says she's got a boyfriend, just say "Yeah I know, it's cool. I'll be your man friend" Then kiss her again with abit of a grab. Do what feels best mate. You're probably more experienced than myself (Y)