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Author:  CaptainAwesome25 [ Mon Oct 21, 2013 1:16 pm ]
Post subject:  How do you reply to rude comments?
Hi! I'm new to this.

I can pull off a friendly SPAM in person, but when it comes to text, well, I can pull off a friendly aura, but how do you reply to rude remarks?

Face and tonalities cannot be expressed through letters, and since we are helping each other here, I need you help! =D

Say for example, my GF at the moment (she's losing attraction, thus, I'm using "at the moment") said "pff none of you business" When I asked what she was doing. I know she was saying it in a mean manner because of course, she is kinda mad at me.

I replied with "Haha... Aren't you adorable?" and she replied with "....."

So, I want to ask for better alternatives. =)

In fact, I'd like help with the text game all in all. =)
Thanks a lot, guys! =)
Author:  ZealousR [ Mon Oct 21, 2013 6:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do you reply to rude comments?
Reward good behavior, punish bad behavior.
Go do something fun and not give her your attention for awhile. If she can be rude and disrespectful while still getting a response from you all it shows is you allow it and don't value your own self-respect.
If she's still attracted she'll re-initiate contact with something cute or even apologetic.
Good behavior: Give her attention.
Bad behavior: Take away the attention.

I use this to shut down sassiness, useless arguments, or just to make her value the interaction more. it's a good way to maintain your value and keep a bit of tension, which is good. If she doesn't think there's a chance to lose you, the attraction dissipates.
Author:  CaptainAwesome25 [ Tue Oct 22, 2013 6:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do you reply to rude comments?
Thanks for the help! =)

BTW, if I act all AFC, will freezing her out still work?
Author:  Dorian_Gray [ Tue Nov 05, 2013 12:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do you reply to rude comments?
Quote:
Thanks for the help! =)

BTW, if I act all AFC, will freezing her out still work?
Yes freeze out will work. And don't apologies for it. Just have something legit to say you were doing like working or something. Don't go with "non of your business as she'll realise the freeze out was intentional.

She was mad at you. I wouldn't have replied to that text, you made the wrong choice but no big deal. You just annoyed her even more I think.
Author:  Bezy [ Sat Dec 07, 2013 10:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do you reply to rude comments?
Just ignore that shit man, punish the chick for her braty behavior by not giving her attention (dont text back). She'll work to regain it, as she should
Author:  Melodical [ Sat Dec 07, 2013 10:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do you reply to rude comments?
Ignore it, simple as that. If you feed energy into the frame by reacting to it then it's going to get stronger.
Author:  Andrew Holt [ Sun Dec 22, 2013 8:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do you reply to rude comments?
Is she angry at you for any justifiable reason? If not, then my suggestion would be to move on.

Life's too short to put up with that.
Author:  Brem89 [ Sun Dec 22, 2013 6:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do you reply to rude comments?
What is she angry about? Anyways, I agree with everyone saying to just ignore a text like that. Have you ever tried telling her how you feel when she acts that way?
Author:  steaks [ Wed Dec 25, 2013 8:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do you reply to rude comments?
Cut off communications for a couple of days on the spot. If she keeps it up, next her.
Author:  CopernicanShift [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 3:44 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do you reply to rude comments?
Quote:
Hi! I'm new to this.

I can pull off a friendly SPAM in person, but when it comes to text, well, I can pull off a friendly aura, but how do you reply to rude remarks?

Face and tonalities cannot be expressed through letters, and since we are helping each other here, I need you help! =D

Say for example, my GF at the moment (she's losing attraction, thus, I'm using "at the moment") said "pff none of you business" When I asked what she was doing. I know she was saying it in a mean manner because of course, she is kinda mad at me.

I replied with "Haha... Aren't you adorable?" and she replied with "....."

So, I want to ask for better alternatives. =)

In fact, I'd like help with the text game all in all. =)
Thanks a lot, guys! =)
I don't think that's a good way to respond to someone who treats you like that
pretending its adorable rather than bitchy

I would be like well that's nice I can tell you're in a really great mood, why don't you send me a message when you're ready to be nice.

And completely ignore her until she gets back to you to apologize.

Otherwise you are training people to think it's ok to act shitty to you.
Author:  Stankwagon [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 7:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do you reply to rude comments?
I approached a girl over the summer at a very popular book store. She wasn't a ten, but she was very cute. Tight pants, attractive glasses, classy hair. I was a boss and guessed her name right off the bat. I could tell it took her breath away. However, after about a minute she mentioned that she had a b/f, and was getting married. I said " oh really? " , and she immediately busted out her phone and showed me a picture of him. She was kinda far back so i asked her if i could get a closer look. At that point i saw her face change into this nasty mean mug and she kinda yelled " JUST GET AWAY ". I literally laughed in her face and said " thanks for your time" and walked away like a BAWS...nice and slow with a smile on my face.

If a girl insults you, in my personal opinion its time to move the fuck on. Don't say rude things back, don't be mean. Show your class and smile and move the FUCK on. If she is going to say nasty rude things to you, and she doesn't even know you, just IMAGINE what she will do/say to you when she gets to know you! I want to find a girl who is sexy as fuck and has a great personality. I wont except one with out the other.
Author:  Stankwagon [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 9:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do you reply to rude comments?
I've reconsidered your question, and I think I would simply reply with a txt " wow, i just realized you are a bitch, we are thru " and be done with it :D...TAKE THE POWER BACK!!!!!

There are two possible out comes......

A) She comes crawling back on her knees...This is good, because you can keep her there. Everytime she shows that bitchy attitude just WALK the FUCK out the DOOR!...WIN!

B) She is fine with the break up...well then she wasn't much involved anyway and you don't need her bitchy attitude in your life anyway....

C) you COULD wait till you fuck her..then right as you blow your load inside of her say " i've been fucking other girls..you probably should get yourself checked..."


I would go with C
Author:  n00bpua123 [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 5:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do you reply to rude comments?
Stop responding to her text messages until she says sorry.

When she said "none of your business", you should ignore her for the rest of your life until she apologizes.
Author:  Natural at college [ Sun Dec 29, 2013 5:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do you reply to rude comments?
The best thing you can do is ignore or laugh it off, don't let her influence your state. I disagree completely with people that say punish her for being indifferent or bitchy, that's letting her impact your state and emotions. Being invulnerable to her negative vibes will make you the higher INDIVIDUAL you should be.

Edit: Exactly what stankwagon's first post said. Not sure about that second post though...
Author:  CopernicanShift [ Sat Jan 04, 2014 12:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do you reply to rude comments?
A Tale of Two Households:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s5UEFUBghn4
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