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Author:  stardux [ Tue Oct 15, 2013 2:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Neutral but super efficient little phrases

There's a guy in my hostel who is some kind of natural.

I went out with him the other day and, when a girl answered something to him, he said "That means you are my kind of girl".

The typical sentence that doesn't mean much, is not too risky, but is the kind of perfect shit naturals deliver all the time.

I wanted to know if you guys were aware of some existing list of such neutral but super efficient sentences or, if not, if you could share your best ones here.

Thanks!

Author:  Natty [ Tue Oct 15, 2013 3:44 pm ]
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Read a book or something and pay attention to the strong characters and their dialogue. Everyone's comments on here are going to be cheesy as hell.

Author:  wingintyme [ Wed Oct 16, 2013 1:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Neutral but super efficient little phrases

There's not a list that I am aware of. I say stuff more unique than he said all the time.

He could have said "that means you are a unique kind of girl" which would have been better than "you are my kind of girl" which I don't see your fascination with.

I guess my best advice on that would be to study how politicians talk, like Obama for instance. He can say stuff that right wings and left wings can interpret different or similar ways. Football is a real popular sport in America. After or before games or practices watch how coaches or players talk to the media. They say a lot of stuff you don't really know the meaning, and it's generic and cliche, but they speak to the majority of the crowd on each side but at the time they speak they usually have you sucked in. Especially coaches. Players especially college are too young mostly.

Author:  Mattr1984 [ Wed Oct 16, 2013 4:20 am ]
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You are looking at this all wrong. It's not a "good line" because it's "neutral" it's good because the natural is qualifying the girl and telling her he likes her with confidence. He's already attractive and now she knows he's interested in her too.

Fuck "lines", if a girl does something you like tell her! If she has a trait you like, say so! Stop being a pansy, put your balls on the line and take your licks when it doesn't work out.

Author:  Xoved [ Thu Oct 17, 2013 9:34 am ]
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He knows how to deliver the sentence, that's it.

I've seen people saying "I'll fuck the shit out of you if you were mine" in a playful tone and girls laughed at it.
To be honest, I haven't reached that level of delivery yet, and sometimes I feel it's wrong. But with some guys, it just feels right and funny.

It's all about delivery and facial expressions.

Author:  stardux [ Wed Oct 23, 2013 12:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Neutral but super efficient little phrases

Quote:
There's not a list that I am aware of. I say stuff more unique than he said all the time.

He could have said "that means you are a unique kind of girl" which would have been better than "you are my kind of girl" which I don't see your fascination with.

I guess my best advice on that would be to study how politicians talk, like Obama for instance. He can say stuff that right wings and left wings can interpret different or similar ways. Football is a real popular sport in America. After or before games or practices watch how coaches or players talk to the media. They say a lot of stuff you don't really know the meaning, and it's generic and cliche, but they speak to the majority of the crowd on each side but at the time they speak they usually have you sucked in. Especially coaches. Players especially college are too young mostly.
Best answer here, thanks

The coach in this film http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0384642/ (Mike Ditka) is really an excellent example

Thanks again

Author:  ConfidenceMatters [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 3:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Neutral but super efficient little phrases

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There's not a list that I am aware of. I say stuff more unique than he said all the time.

He could have said "that means you are a unique kind of girl" which would have been better than "you are my kind of girl" which I don't see your fascination with.

I guess my best advice on that would be to study how politicians talk, like Obama for instance. He can say stuff that right wings and left wings can interpret different or similar ways. Football is a real popular sport in America. After or before games or practices watch how coaches or players talk to the media. They say a lot of stuff you don't really know the meaning, and it's generic and cliche, but they speak to the majority of the crowd on each side but at the time they speak they usually have you sucked in. Especially coaches. Players especially college are too young mostly.
Best answer here, thanks

The coach in this film http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0384642/ (Mike Ditka) is really an excellent example

Thanks again

TL;DR

Have you ever heard of the phrase "in passing".
For example,
"My girlfriend mentioned, in passing, that you were sending her pics of your dick."

In essence, if you want to have good "neutral" game you should make offhanded remarks that make your intentions and emotions obvious but not a big deal, but still places you in a position of power. Terseness plays a big role here, but also brief inclusion of self-referential terms like "I" and "my" and "me":

-Gay
-You're my kind of woman.
-That's what I like to hear.
-Woah
-K
-Hmm. (this one can be made with several variations in tonal inflections that'll affect its meaning
-I see
-This pleases me.

Author:  El_Mago [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 11:26 am ]
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Casually pointing out the fact that you're judging them as a potential sexual target is always a good way.

A good way to do it casually is to actually disguise it as a neg. I'm not a big fan of vicious negs, so the subtle, casual ones are good.

e.g. she says or does something wrong. You sarcastically reply (without over-dramatising the sarcasm) "wow you're so attractive right now" almost as like a passing comment. You'll probably get a response of either a little laugh or a playful "shutup".

Naturals don't give contrived lines or lead a conversation onto a particular line they want to say, or something they want to point out. They live the moment and give the comment as casually as any other part of the conversation.

Taking the casual approach like this, you can really get away with saying a lot without overselling it; which subconsciously is going to register in the girl's mind as you assessing her, and she will start to play up to this.

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