Everyday I am practicing. It is not just meeting girls. I do meet girls. I like understanding new people, I like vibing, I like to have friendships and I like improving myself.
In any environment, I not talking because I have a "target". I talk, because I like it, I like the vibe, I generally like the person I talk to and it is all fun anyways. I think (this is the actual inner game thing) and believe and know that I am a pretty interesting, amazing, fun and sexy person. Most of the time, my "approaches" end with getting some means for communication (twitter, facebook, email) and most of time I get the first interaction. The we date and game goes on...
My concept here is about improving myself and my game. I am not so sure about what the endgame would be, so I will keep writing.
Now imagine a nightclub. There are people in it. There are some couples, some singles. By couples, I mean couples who came to the nightclub together that night. By singles, I mean anyone who has no company that night. Say, there are 30 single males, 15 single females, and 5 couples.
Pretty real, isn't it?
So, now out of these 15 single females, 8 are numbered, 7 are not. 20 of the guys suck. 10 of them are players, at least to some extent.
So here is what I say. If any of numbered females declares that they want to sleep with anyone in that club ON THAT NIGHT, at least 25 of the guys would accept that. Some of them might even pay money for that. If any non-number girls do that claim, still, there would be more than 10 males in a night wanting to sleep with a girl, just any girl.
So, this is the girl level.
Now imagine this vice versa. You enter to a bar, knowing that you are a good guy. There are 30 girls inside. 10 of them really interest you and you feel that except some arrogant bitches, all of them are ready to sleep with you RIGHT AT THAT NIGHT.
And wait, that happens EVERY NIGHT. Every night, it is the same game of ladies. So, this is the girl level. How they can play the game.
The bottomline for the girl level is, when you go out, there are always boys for you to meet and sleep.
But for myself, I cannot say that. It can happen, but I totally feel like it happens only when the ladies want it.
Whenever I go out, I look at these 15 single females. I feel like I can date most of them, but I cannot sleep with them that day. Getting a kiss would be easier, but it is also much difficult then getting a later date.
So, here are my questions. I would appreciate any answers to any of them.
1- Do you believe that any person can reach that "girl level"? I see it like a famous rockstar level actually, think it that way, if Sting walks into the door, many girls would approach and they would be OK to sleep with him if he ever wants. The key point here is, Sting has pre-shown value, can a random stranger do that?
2- I do spend no effort or very little effort to my outfit. It works out when I stant giving my vibe. Should that be effecting to reach girl level?
3- Do you think maybe we should accept that some girls and some sets are formed not to be broken, and they are closed to any outcomers? So you can meet them but she will never, ever go to sleep with anyone, even if Sting comes?
4- Do you think changing more venues might be a better answer for that?
So thanks.
tl dr: it is about getting the girls want to sleep with you like you want to sleep with girls, from the first day.
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) but if that was the case then there'd be no point in maintaining skill and it would all go down the drain and start back up from AFC.