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Author:  neevDude [ Fri Sep 06, 2013 8:09 am ]
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I'm 21 years old, very good looking I'd say 9/10, overall lots of confidence and great body language, get TONS of IOI's, girls approach me quite alot aswell, but I just freeze, every time I get a chance I freeze and manage to push to girl away by not paying attention to her, how do I fix this issue, where do I start? (ps. I'm not a virgin or something, I've been with girls although I never had a girlfriend, but I could do so much more without these issues)
Author:  MrLDN93 [ Fri Sep 06, 2013 12:52 pm ]
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Hey dude,

Im 19, have modelled, pretty muscular tanned bla bla bla aesthetically sounding pretty similar to you and probably used to be quite similar to you. Where abouts are you from?

When you say you freeze are you approaching? Are you running out of topics to say when in field or are you just going out and being a wallflower? Im guessing you have already read The Game (the bible)

MrLDN93
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Fri Sep 06, 2013 4:36 pm ]
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Quote:
I'm 21 years old, very good looking I'd say 9/10, overall lots of confidence and great body language, get TONS of IOI's, girls approach me quite alot aswell, but I just freeze, every time I get a chance I freeze and manage to push to girl away by not paying attention to her, how do I fix this issue, where do I start? (ps. I'm not a virgin or something, I've been with girls although I never had a girlfriend, but I could do so much more without these issues)

Start paying attention to the girl. It's pretty simple actually. Instead of getting so involved in your own head and thinking "what am I going to say next?!" just enjoy the conversation as it happens.
Author:  Mattr1984 [ Sun Sep 08, 2013 7:50 am ]
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What are your facial expressions like? A massive leak in most guys game is that their face isn't relaxed, and they don't have an expressive face that shows emotion well.

Look at her like you want to tear her clothes off and slam her right then and there. You should have a cocky smile and relaxed eyes. Pay attention, move closer, listen to her, escalate, close.
Author:  faiza2 [ Wed Sep 11, 2013 9:46 am ]
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You just conversation for enjoy, keep it up.
Author:  Dragula [ Wed Sep 11, 2013 12:01 pm ]
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Another guy trying to let the looks do the whole work for him.

I suggest practise and start approaching girls. Day game is good for you because your looks don't do that much in comparison to night game , with day time, you have to make it happen organically otherwise she walks past forever. Doing this will force you to not freeze your mind will start to get creative when you are doing it a lot.

I have a ton of friends like you that just stand there and sometimes it works too when they girl does all the work. But they tend to reply on alcohol alot so that's why you never see them In daygame

They also love it when I'm in set , they seem to love winging me when there is little rejection risk.
Author:  MiikusMaximus [ Sat Sep 14, 2013 12:14 am ]
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I suggest the following exercise in steps;

1. Smile
2. Say "Hi, my name is____"
3. Let her talk, but, you know, maybe listen to what she has to say
4. Nod your head and smile
5. Say "You're really cute."
6. Let her talk
7. Nod your head and smile
8. Say something like "That's interesting. Tell me more"
9. Let her talk
10. Nod your head and smile

I know, I know. Rocket Science.

Seriously though, just start talking. Make the decision to do it, turn off your ego (the part of you that is always judging), and start doing it. It will change your life. I swear.
Author:  wingintyme [ Thu Sep 19, 2013 1:52 am ]
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Quote:
I'm 21 years old, very good looking I'd say 9/10, overall lots of confidence and great body language, get TONS of IOI's, girls approach me quite alot aswell, but I just freeze, every time I get a chance I freeze and manage to push to girl away by not paying attention to her, how do I fix this issue, where do I start? (ps. I'm not a virgin or something, I've been with girls although I never had a girlfriend, but I could do so much more without these issues)

you sound like me at 21. I'm 34 now. I probably should have seen a shrink back then but got in to whiskey and booze instead. Now all I do is bang 10's twice a day but my life sucks
Author:  Digital_Spy [ Sun Sep 22, 2013 2:02 am ]
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What are your facial expressions like? A massive leak in most guys game is that their face isn't relaxed, and they don't have an expressive face that shows emotion well.

Look at her like you want to tear her clothes off and slam her right then and there. You should have a cocky smile and relaxed eyes. Pay attention, move closer, listen to her, escalate, close.

NO NO NO. Don't look at her like you want to tear her clothes off and slam her right then and there. Are you fucking nuts? She's a complete stranger, you've only said a few words to each other (if that) and you think it's good to look like some kind of fucking rapist? Get a clue. Perhaps if blokes actually LISTENED to what these girls are saying they'll get their cue from that instead of panicking about what dumb, stupid line to trot out. Wise cracking assholes are not what women want. They've heard all our crap before and are sick to death of it.
Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Sun Sep 22, 2013 1:31 pm ]
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Most women love to TALK and tell their life stories! All you really need to do is to design an outline for her to blabber on and on and on.....

seriously it's 80% listening and 20% talking......

just look into her eyes... be relaxed, nod your head and actually look like you're listening. You can bust her balls every once in a while... but get outside of your own mind. You need to stop worrying about messing up. I'm sure you've learned about plenty of material. It'll come natural if you just live in the moment!

It's really not hard at all.... it's not like you're doing an hour long stand up show filled with improv jokes. Let her do most of the work.
Author:  Digital_Spy [ Thu Sep 26, 2013 5:01 am ]
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Why not actually listen instead of pretending to listen? What's the point in that? If you don't listen. you don't get to know her so you are stuck in FROZEN NO MAN'S LAND. Make a fucking effort.
Author:  sendy [ Tue Oct 15, 2013 7:48 am ]
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I like to be hit on like you guy and it naturally makes me smile and quiet because roles are reversed.
You can learn a lot during her sarge. I like to study her behavior and mistakes (due to nervousness) .
Girls are better than us at this and they do what they wait from us.
I'd suggest to genuinely listen to her and rapidly escalate non verbally looking at her lips imagining kissing her.
I'm sure you could make-out in an instant almost not saying a word !
Author:  mmg [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 11:23 pm ]
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If you are freezing at the approach or while she opens
being cocky & witty should solve that. Remember woman
like cocky & witty guys

If a girl is smiling at you say
something like "what are you smiling at, punk?"
with a slight aggressive tone & a mean face on
and then switch to a sly smile quickly.

Use to work wonders at my high school.

If a girl is showing interest, acknowledge it in the opposite
of how most guys would in a flirting cocky manner.

A lot of guys get stuck on acknowledging womans
IOI's because they don't want to seem desperate.
This way they will know you're not a douche because
you acknowledge people who like you and you're
confident and witty and funny...all are DHV's

example from last night, moving out of my apt
and my neighbors HB8 GF (In her 30's) approached me

her: "Hey are you moving out?"
me: "Yeah, they're letting in the section 8 people in, like you"
her: *Smiles* "You little motherfucker, I'm a nurse you know"
me: "Well since you like helping people so much, help me with these boxes"
blah blah blah kept talking for awhile

Hugo Moreno
http://www.thinkandattractwoman.com
Author:  Bezy [ Sat Dec 07, 2013 10:05 am ]
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Just Vibe man, have fun the way you want to have fun and draw them bitches into your world. Being phsycally good looking as a man will only help you get an audition, you gotta have game to get the roll.
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