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| Author: | gifted1 [ Tue Jul 16, 2013 8:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Where did I go wrong, experienced alphas answer only |
C&P from BB Misc I was just at the beach w my friend his g/f and his g/fs friend. I kept thinking the whole time, how can i seal the deal w/ this chick. I looked at it like we're both here at the beach, we're both single, i'm hot and driven and your decently hot and have huge tits. I never met this girl before, so I was trying to figure out how I get access to the slip and slide. We were there 2 days and the last day would be the only day it would happen. I was short with her most of the time, negging, throwing in a few direct questions and what not. Then my buddy and his g/f went to starbucks to meet up w/ someone they knew. I'm sitting here in the room w/ this chick, I had to take a shower, conduct biz calls, get ready. So she saw my hot bod, saw me being a pimp on the phone pimpin hoes at my biz, and I just knew she would bone me. But i never directly said anything. At one point earlier when we were in the room I was like "so we snugglin tonite?" b/c there was only 2 beds, and i had a cot. She just dodged the question real quick and said, i'll sleep on the cot if you want and u can have this, pretending like she didn't hear wtf i just said to her. But i had to make my intentions known. So then the rest of the nite goes on. I made all the plans b/c i'm alpha as ****. We went to the bar had 2 drinks, then back to the room to pop bottles. We all had a great time, then she wanted to go gamble. I took her w/ me, she was on my arm the whole way prob proud as **** that she was so close to a near god. Played roulette, she was winning b/c we had good energy goin. Ended up goin outside to smoke a cigar LAB. Took her w/ me, needed a lighter, went to some random indians to ask if they had one, while i was gone she said some dude came up to her and she said i was her BF! like wtf! Then we're on the boardwalk, i'm smoking my stoge, we're watching a light show right next to the beach. And i drop line again "we cuddling tn' or somethign like that b/c i want to smash and i'm trying to make it as easy as possible for her to just let herself go and say yes. But then she's like "there's kinda someone back home" and i'm like whatevs. So is she just being a prude bitchy ****, or did i **** up somewhere? Cliffs. Beach trip with friends, 1 bf, 1 gf, 1 gf friend, and me. Sharing room, 2 beds, 1 cot I'm pimp and wanted to bone the sloot friend with big titties 6.5/10 (but bangable considering flat stomach and huge tits, and tall like 5'11, slight snaggle tooth) Spit my game, she seemed difficult to crack, and didn't bang wondering if I could have done something different, or if she's just a prude ****y bitch**** that doesn't like to have fun and get smashed by hot successful ripped men Quick Edit: The whole time I felt like just saying "You're hot" and "Want to ****". That is direct as FAWK, but you think it would have worked since it's coming from a jacked/rich/alpha? |
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| Author: | Hunter_Foxe [ Tue Jul 16, 2013 10:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did I go wrong, experienced alphas answer only |
Mistake #1 - You waited until the last day before making your move. You should've been immediately physical right off the bat, shake hands with her seductively, milk the intro. The most important moment when you game a girl is when you first meet, it doesn't take women long to decide whether they want to fuck you or not. You left it too late. Mistake #2 - You asked her "permission to snuggle" x2. Couldn't get more beta if you tried. Mistake #3 - You don't come across as a confident successful businessman. You are quick to blame the chick for your own failings and you constantly refer to yourself as a pimp, to re-assure yourself that you are actually a pimp, because this rejection actually knocked your confidence, you took a hit to your ego. Mistake #4 - You didn't create any sexual tension, you approached laying this girl as if it was a practical problem. You treat the girl like a piece of meat, she didn't feel an emotional connection with you, partly due to lack of eye contact and kino. Mistake #5 - Obvious attempts to show off in front of her actually puts her in the DHV position, because you are treating her like the prize to be won. You falsely believed that impressing this woman with muscles and a phone conversation would give you access to her vag. You need to improve your conversation, kino, eye contact. Pull your head out of your ass and learn the difference between true confidence and insecure arrogance. |
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| Author: | Preston87 [ Tue Jul 16, 2013 10:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did I go wrong, experienced alphas answer only |
Based on your writing, it looks like you try real hard to be alpha but I'm unconvinced that you really are. You seem to be constantly trying to convince her as well as your own self that you are a 'BAWS.' Genuine alphas don't care what others think and can DHV effortlessly. Also, you asked (twice) to snuggle with her and made her uncomfortable because you put her in an awkward position. It doesn't sound like you transitioned out of the awkwardness with humor either - you just came off as strange and beta. No doubt you had a chance, and no doubt she made an excuse at the last minute because of the lack of leadership. |
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| Author: | Mak [ Wed Jul 17, 2013 1:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did I go wrong, experienced alphas answer only |
You have this disenchantment about what an Alpha male is. |
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| Author: | Mattr1984 [ Wed Jul 17, 2013 4:55 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did I go wrong, experienced alphas answer only |
You fool bruv you is alpha as hell yo! Just tell her to take her shit off and smash her in the street. Gaw u iz so not alpha bro. I'm actually surprised people have answered this clear trolling seriously. |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Wed Jul 17, 2013 1:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did I go wrong, experienced alphas answer only |
hopefully you don't talk and behave anything like how you write. Like Mak said, you have little clue what alpha is. Alpha isn't being a sleazy pimp. It seems like you came off a bit too sleazy and try hard which probably hurt your game here. |
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| Author: | wingintyme [ Thu Jul 18, 2013 1:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did I go wrong, experienced alphas answer only |
Quote: Based on your writing, it looks like you try real hard to be alpha but I'm unconvinced that you really are. You seem to be constantly trying to convince her as well as your own self that you are a 'BAWS.' Genuine alphas don't care what others think and can DHV effortlessly.
Also, you asked (twice) to snuggle with her and made her uncomfortable because you put her in an awkward position. It doesn't sound like you transitioned out of the awkwardness with humor either - you just came off as strange and beta. No doubt you had a chance, and no doubt she made an excuse at the last minute because of the lack of leadership. Yea I think he meant Beta. he should have made his move in the room when the friends were at starbucks but he's timid. Are we snuggling tonight isn't a real good line. In your situation, women generally don't want to answer a question about whats going to physically happen "tonight". They just want it to happen naturally without "are we doing this" type of stuff |
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| Author: | Zapend [ Sun Aug 04, 2013 7:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did I go wrong, experienced alphas answer only |
This post is ridiculous... at least to me |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Sun Aug 04, 2013 8:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did I go wrong, experienced alphas answer only |
This belongs in the Natural Lack of Game section. Fucking a man, get it together. I won't even dignify this post with a response. Grow the fuck up. |
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| Author: | Bruce-Wayne [ Fri Aug 30, 2013 9:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where did I go wrong, experienced alphas answer only |
Bro you are the most pimp alpha i have seen on this forums. You are a golden god. Teach me how to be so alpha as **** like u! |
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