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Rejection... I'm just too thin skinned for this.
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Author:  jaropennies [ Sun Jul 07, 2013 5:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Rejection... I'm just too thin skinned for this.
I never ask girls for their numbers. Last night at around 1 A.M. , I was hanging out with my buddy at the gas station and talking to him, it's where he works. Long story short, a few cute girls start talking to me, I saw one that caught my eye, she was walking away apart from the rest of her friends, called her back over and got her number... She seemed interested at the time, and a little tipsy. Texted her today and she said "I'm sorry but I'm not interested".

Made me feel like shit.

See, I'm just so naive that I get all excited and think "Wow! Her number must = interest".

And to see that show up on my phone....

Now, I'm assuming maybe some of you guys get that a lot? Only because you game on so many girls that there are bound to be a few who don't roll with it?
Author:  LeeEvansFan41 [ Sun Jul 07, 2013 6:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejection... I'm just too thin skinned for this.
Well girls are like a game of chance man, if things are looking good between you and a girl don't put all your eggs in the one basket, ANYTHING could happen, it could potentially be ruined or be the best thing that will happen, the point is, dont take rejection personally, girls do it all the time, guys approach them a lot and they're used to saying no, rejection should'nt hurt at all and you should get right back on the horse and try again with another girl. They dont call it 'the game' for nothing :P
Author:  Melodical [ Sun Jul 07, 2013 8:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejection... I'm just too thin skinned for this.
She doesn't even know you bro, you might have been the best BF she would ever have in her life. It's no big deal that it didn't work out. Just keep at it.
Author:  wingintyme [ Sun Jul 07, 2013 10:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejection... I'm just too thin skinned for this.
maybe you should try getting with men
Author:  UmpteenDee [ Mon Jul 08, 2013 2:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejection... I'm just too thin skinned for this.
Each rejection teaches you something new and makes you stronger. They always hurt, but the degree of that pay lessons with time. You have to go through it to come out of it.

NEVER take it personally, ever, it's her issue because she does not know enough about you to make a judgment enough to reject you. She can have a million reasons for doing it, but they are her reasons, they are not yours because she does not know you.

Game is about learning how to present your personality really fast to girls, and build interest from them. That way they know enough about you really fast to not outright reject you. Dust yourself off and go at it again. Never quit, ever!
Author:  Neutrino [ Mon Jul 08, 2013 6:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejection... I'm just too thin skinned for this.
Yea, rejections like that are very small, you should just learn how to laugh those off. You guys don't even know each other.

So save yourself the heartache lol, what sucks is when you've been dating someone for a while that you're really into, and it doesn't work out.
Author:  Mattr1984 [ Mon Jul 08, 2013 7:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejection... I'm just too thin skinned for this.
Your mistake is taking it personally. Watch DJ Fujis 2010 talk a call to action.

Basically if you were a pro basketball player and missed a shot would it define you as a man? Fuck no! You'd be annoyed with yourself for the mistake then go back and have another shot!

It's not you she's rejecting its your approach. She doesn't know you, the fuck can she reject you?
Author:  TheFury [ Mon Jul 08, 2013 6:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejection... I'm just too thin skinned for this.
Get rejected a few more times, you will start to care less and less. It always stings a little bit, and I think that is a good thing. If it didn't sting you would have little motivation to improve and work on preventing it from happening as often.
Author:  Nebular [ Tue Jul 09, 2013 4:10 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejection... I'm just too thin skinned for this.
If you feel this bad when she rejects you think of how good you will feel when you end up on top of her.
Author:  carlito_xb [ Thu Jul 11, 2013 4:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejection... I'm just too thin skinned for this.
confidence means that after 100 rejections you can still look in the mirror and be like ''im the man''
Convince ur self u are da man.Talk with statements and assumptions.
Example:
me:u sport alot dont u(push)
she:why u think that?
me:u have this fresh,healthy look about u (pull)
she:hahaha ok
me:i bet ur in the gym on a daily base(push)
she:blabla
me:(ask a question,give another compliment(u wanna ''pull'' her back in)
then u will have push/pull
assumptions,statement,negs,teases are pushes
questions,compliments or things like ''thats cool''thats great etc. are pulls
Author:  carlito_xb [ Thu Jul 11, 2013 5:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejection... I'm just too thin skinned for this.
she said:sorry not intrested,u can follow up with something like :u playing mind games arent u or u quickly change ur mind arent u.
I have the idea that this is another shit test from women to see how confident you are and how much you believe in ur self.But at the same time women got screwed up personalties or personalities alot of guys dont understand.I honestly think she playing mind games,cause why give number and the act disintrested,she push/pulling ur ass wich means u have to push/pull her ass too.Every rejection u can reverse with challenges for example...she:im not intrested anymore.
you:u did gave u number didnt u :)or u playing mind games arent u :)or how can u not be intrested if u dont even know me,as long u dont get to know me,i dont believe ur ''not intrested''
Author:  Dragula [ Thu Jul 11, 2013 7:56 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejection... I'm just too thin skinned for this.
Get used to it cos this will happen all the time.

I used to cry and shit when I get flaked.

Now it really doesn't bother me anymore cos I have been desensitised to it so much.

Ironically, girls sense that I assume they are gonna flake so I give off "I don't care about the out come" vibe and in turn gets me more solids. Lol

Just a numbers game bro, keep at it.

Throw shit at a wall and some of it will stick.
Author:  Zapend [ Sun Aug 04, 2013 8:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejection... I'm just too thin skinned for this.
Dude this is boring get to where this is boring to you and you'll be OK.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Sun Aug 04, 2013 8:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejection... I'm just too thin skinned for this.
Quote:

See, I'm just so naive that I get all excited and think "Wow! Her number must = interest".

There's your problem man. Stop thinking just because a girl gives you her number she is THAT interested in you. A girl will give you her number if she wants to see you again or if she wants you to get the fuck away or sometimes even because the girl just likes the validation from her friends. The last of the 3 seems to be what happened in this particular case of yours. Now, lets look into this... She's "being a bit risky by giving a guy her number infront of her friends." It gives her the feeling of "a guy likes me" infront of her friends. Girls act on emotion. That was how she felt AT THE TIME.

Don't take it so personally man. Go out and talk to more girls. This girl just didn't happen to like you. There are more of them out there. Go. Hunt. Find what you want and fucking get it. If you want to get what you want in this world, you have to actually get out there and get it. Nothing is owed to you for just being you. Hate to break it to you, but that is the way it is.

Now, this is an assumption based on the way you wrote your post... But I bet this girl didn't want to hang out with you again or "wasn't interested" is because you were a bit too... needy. You never ask girls for their number which means girls aren't begging you to hang out with them which means that you will naturally come off as a guy who is "sexually needy." No girl out there is going to want to fill your void. You are living in scarcity because you are afraid of rejection. Scarcity is not attractive. Abundance is. Develop an abundance of women and you won't naturally be so sexually needy because you already have girls.

Honestly, stop being such an emotional pussy and take the beating. Dealing with girls is like boxing sometimes... If you don't like getting hit, you better stay the fuck out of the ring. Not everyone is going to like you. Again, hate to break it to you... But that's human nature dude. Deal with it. Talk to more people. Start taking risks and risk getting your emotions bruised a bit. Figure out who likes you. And if you don't like the people that It's good for you. It adds character. Quite honestly, it'll maybe put some hair on your chest. Time to man up bro. If you want something, start getting it.
Author:  Semimembranosus [ Mon Aug 05, 2013 3:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Rejection... I'm just too thin skinned for this.
Quote:
I never ask girls for their numbers.
jesus christ
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