The best way to get women is very simple... be the best person you can be. This is not going to happen all at once, but as the years go by, you'll be better than you were the previous year. If your out of shape, hit the gym and you'll see how much muscle you'll packed on. Women will start noticing your muscles popping out of your shirts and women may look at you like a piece of meat. If you are broke, start a new career or start a small business. The more money you make, the more confident you feel because you're not at the mercy of others when it comes to financial support. My suggestion is start a simple small business. Building a successful business makes you smarter and you'll start noticing that the little things you use to concern yourself with don't matter anymore. You have bigger things to worry about. If you have a successful business that's bringing at least enough money for you to quit your job, you'll notice you have more time on your hands (if you have a simple business that doesn't eat up your time) and you'll notice you're traveling more, meeting exotic women from other parts of the Earth (or at least from a different state).

The moral of the story is if you work on yourself first, you'll become attractive to women because you feel better about who you truly are. Women and sex will be an addition to your life, not the reason for living. The first step to being successful with women is being a better you!