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Author:  Party Poison [ Mon May 13, 2013 12:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Meeting a girl for Coffee
I got her number, I talk to her everyday or so, now we are hanging out alone ( I finally got her alone from her friends) what can I do for escalation?
Author:  stevejabba [ Mon May 13, 2013 1:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting a girl for Coffee
Try and kiss her.
Author:  jakeb94 [ Mon May 13, 2013 2:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting a girl for Coffee
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I got her number, I talk to her everyday or so, now we are hanging out alone ( I finally got her alone from her friends) what can I do for escalation?
What are you wanting as far as escalation? Sex? Relationship? Don't take it too fast, it's your first date with her.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Mon May 13, 2013 4:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting a girl for Coffee
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I got her number, I talk to her everyday or so, now we are hanging out alone ( I finally got her alone from her friends) what can I do for escalation?
Escalate as much as you can until you begin to feel resistance. Then back off and reinitiate.
Author:  Party Poison [ Mon May 13, 2013 6:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting a girl for Coffee
1 commenter - dah haha I want to kiss her!!

2 commenter- I am pushing for a relationship.

3 commenter- alright I get that, what's a get way to start escalating?
Author:  jakeb94 [ Mon May 13, 2013 11:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting a girl for Coffee
Quote:
1 commenter - dah haha I want to kiss her!!

2 commenter- I am pushing for a relationship.

3 commenter- alright I get that, what's a get way to start escalating?
Okay, so take it slow. Take her on a few dates, invite her over, etc. Do whatever you can to get to know her. Does she give off any signs that she likes you?
Author:  Party Poison [ Tue May 14, 2013 1:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting a girl for Coffee
She laughs at most of what I say. During gym today we were against eachother on a different team and we were looking at each other and I said
"Hey now I know my eyes are pretty but you got a game to play"
In all what can I do when I'm with her
Author:  jakeb94 [ Tue May 14, 2013 2:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting a girl for Coffee
Quote:
She laughs at most of what I say. During gym today we were against eachother on a different team and we were looking at each other and I said
"Hey now I know my eyes are pretty but you got a game to play"
In all what can I do when I'm with her
Have your got her number?
Author:  Party Poison [ Tue May 14, 2013 7:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting a girl for Coffee
Yes
Author:  M. Domingo [ Wed May 15, 2013 5:54 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting a girl for Coffee
Just get to know her more. Don't rush things.
Author:  Mak [ Wed May 15, 2013 7:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting a girl for Coffee
Wait till your a bit comfortable in the date and then hold her hand.


After that pace your escalation to kiss/hug.
Author:  Party Poison [ Wed May 15, 2013 12:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting a girl for Coffee
Define comfortable. I don't want to shoot in the dark with her. I really want to get flat signs from here I just need to know some simple escalation things that could probably get me to holding hands with her.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed May 15, 2013 4:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting a girl for Coffee
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Define comfortable. I don't want to shoot in the dark with her. I really want to get flat signs from here I just need to know some simple escalation things that could probably get me to holding hands with her.
Look up some basic palm reading stuff (Honestly, just know what the 4 lines are and cold read her. Make some shit up when you do it.)

Say "Thats interesting... Let me see your hand." Grab her hand. Run the palm reading routine and look in her eyes when you are talking. Pay attention to how she reacts with her hand in yours. If she starts to pull her hand away. Throw her hand away from you and roll off with your body language. Be playful and fun and use that as an excuse to be touchy/feely with her.

Do you remember the guy in 4th grade who got all the girls attention? ACT LIKE HE DID
Author:  Party Poison [ Wed May 15, 2013 5:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting a girl for Coffee
Phew I'm already starting palm reading. So for the first date I'm assuming you make sure she's interested in you?
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed May 15, 2013 5:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Meeting a girl for Coffee
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Phew I'm already starting palm reading. So for the first date I'm assuming you make sure she's interested in you?
If she is hanging out with you... She is obviously interested. You just have to make sure she feels that you are interested in her for more than a sex toy. You can use the palm reading/cold reading to find things about her personality that you like and compliment her on those things.

Escalate and use push/pull with kino, be playful and fun making her comfortable... Get her back to your place. Close the deal. Seems easy, right? lol
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