Hi guys, this is my first post in this forum, so be a little gentle on this newbie.
The situation
I've joined a Japanese class where I'm planning to create a social circle and yes, pickup chicks. I did everything all rite at first ... I was the alpha male...a bit cocky, slightly aloof and funny as hell... however, 5 days ago, I screwed up by shifting back to my old neurotic beta stage. Basically what I did was I talked w/o any filter in the class, and i got a golden chance to walk all the way back to my house with a chick; however, I blew it up by just blabbering constantly. I didn't flirt with her, nor did i acted "nice" but I just blabbered random shit, talked negatively about a couple of chicks and profs, and stuff like that. Also, not to give any excuses, but the whole thing happened becoz i was in intense physical pain and I was ended up overcompensating.
Coming to the point. Here are my questions :
- Despite the screw up, can I become a total alpha again by making a few changes in my behavior? If yes,any pointers on how to do that?
- How should my behavior be in the class so that I can demonstrate higher value? Should i participate more to show I know the language better than others ( i really do) ? or should i keep my mouth shut tight so that i create a mystery about myself?
- I know pickup is class is a bit difficult but how should i go about gaming a chick in class...should I talk "normally" to her and create rapport or should I be the cocky-funny alpha who flirts around?
- I'd love to hear experiences of people who have picked up chicks in such classes or even college.
