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Author:  AFC AzA [ Fri Mar 22, 2013 4:51 am ]
Post subject:  Becoming Natural for newbies
FAKE IT TILL MAKE IT - BODY LANGUAGE

1. learn MALE-ONLY body language. Draw something on your hand (small circle or whatever) and whenever you see that circle you must remember keeping best body language.

2. voice tonality. learn how to speak in deep voice and slow down. read books aloud, mimic movie characters. And most important while approaching remind yourself slow the fuck down.

3. female body language ? nuhh pass that shit. who cares shes crossing her arm ? learning female body language doesnt help at all ! I wish I could forget everything about female BL. slightest defensive FBL used to kills my mood and let me step back. girls love guys who resistent and whos in their own world. female body language= reaction.
Author:  AFC AzA [ Fri Mar 22, 2013 5:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Becoming Natural for newbies
INNER GAME - ACCEPTING THE FACT

1. accept the fact you're not cool as you think you are.
2. accept the fact you're gonna DIE some day.
3. accept the fact sooner or later no-one will remember shit you done and are.
4. accept the fact first few times always awkward as hell
5. accept the fact if you done one thing many times, you will become confident and good with it.
6. accept the fact you cant get every woman
7. accept the fact you're enough (when in best self)





1. we all know we give ourselves delusional confidence. Like saying "im the shit", "im the the mofo" or whatever. Yeah those kinda thing gives boost for little while for me, just like REDBULL. We all have those fantasy MPUA in our mind, someone smooth like James Bond, the way fantasy james bond approaches girl is soo smooth that no-one can fallow... that leads to NOT APPROACHING. So, just accept the fact you're never gonna be like james bond. That will release much of pressure from yourself.

2. So... you had this dream of one day in future you're gonna be rich and famous and all girls will fall on your lap?
stop living in future or past. Theres only one time - PRESENT. You might die minute later when you're going to grocery store across the road, or you might die 100 years later. We all not sure, so take action now. watch FIGHT CLUB.

3. 100 years later... some of your relatives might know you. But what if 1000 years later ? if you havent done something like great revolution or great war. YOU ARE GONNA GET FORGOTTEN! thats the fact. we all are afraid to look life fool in others eye. Why care that ? yeah they could trash talk me for year or 10 years. but they are gonna die and turn into ashes one day.

4,5. I have approached 100s of woman same way. first 50+ were awkward and weird as hell. but now im confident and normal. its experience. you cant read something like this and go on. you gotta experience it.

6. seriously . you cant.

7. you dont need those fancy lines or 300$ ring to seduce woman. you are enough when you are at your best self.
Author:  AFC AzA [ Fri Mar 22, 2013 8:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Becoming Natural for newbies
INNER GAME - IDENTITY

1. meet yourself (write down your dream, goals, good qualities)
2. know yourself
3. accept yourself (accept your flaws)
4. be your best self
5. read ekchart tolle's new world order (must read)
Author:  AFC AzA [ Fri Mar 22, 2013 8:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Becoming Natural for newbies
INNER GAME - CONFIDENCE

1. become confident
2. be confident
3. experience equals confidence




1. how to become confident? go through lot of shits. encounter ever little fear you have. Having slight of thought asking what time is it from stranger and feeling weird ? ASK IT. afraid to eat alone ? EAT ALONE! do every little shits your afraid and not like doing. its how i boosted my confidence. not even confidence , it built my self steem.
2. stop thinking too much. thinking too much leads to worrying. worrying leads to fear. fear kills confidence. and also remind yourself every seet or situation that you thought gonna be weird or suck turned out great. thats fear. fear is not real, its all in your mind.
3. 1+2=3 experience=confidence
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Sun Mar 24, 2013 12:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Becoming Natural for newbies
Quote:
FAKE IT TILL MAKE IT - BODY LANGUAGE

1. learn MALE-ONLY body language. Draw something on your hand (small circle or whatever) and whenever you see that circle you must remember keeping best body language.

2. voice tonality. learn how to speak in deep voice and slow down. read books aloud, mimic movie characters. And most important while approaching remind yourself slow the fuck down.

3. female body language ? nuhh pass that shit. who cares shes crossing her arm ? learning female body language doesnt help at all ! I wish I could forget everything about female BL. slightest defensive FBL used to kills my mood and let me step back. girls love guys who resistent and whos in their own world. female body language= reaction.

While I don't think that you should focus with absoluteness on body language like I used to this a fucking horse shit statement. It's not something you should ever advertise to newbs. Body language is the most important aspect of my game, it's why I always come in at the right energy level, it's why I can connect with a woman immediately, it's why a woman feels I just "know her" and "understand her" unlike any other guy.

You need to read a woman's body language it's fucking asinine to think otherwise. Why would it be intelligent to not be able to read her body language? So you can go for the kiss too soon? Or maybe so you have no clue she is after a kiss or wants to fuck? Honestly don't ever say that shit again. Just because you have no skills reading body language doesn't mean that it isn't invaluable in pick up. The only thing more important that learning to read body language is inner game ime, I mean I can gauge a girls attraction across the room and fly in under the radar.

Reading her body language is what makes you brilliant with women, you say you wish you could forget it? That only means you didn't learn to use the information properly, just because you know something doesn't mean you use it properly. Don't start telling others such things simply because you didn't know how to use the information properly, body language is all about gauging the woman, building sexual tension, understanding what it is time for(escalation) based off of her attraction level.

Just my thoughts on such a statement, I feel that you are saying something ridiculous and shouldn't be saying such things to newbs when the fact is it is absolutely necessary to learn such things for basic human interaction.

Peace and Love,

Vic
Author:  AFC AzA [ Sun Mar 24, 2013 6:38 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Becoming Natural for newbies
@poeticlyskuac
sorry man. I know your most videos based on bodylanguage, but theres no right way or wrong way.


As I said- confidence comes from experience, experience comes from action, action comes from momentum.
Therefore knowing too much about female bodylanguage makes MOST NEWBIES REACTION BASED. Living in reaction doesnt help with momentum, and thus for no action.

Its for newbies man. As you start taking action and expressing your best self to people you will realize thinking about micro management and next line is waste of energy and time, also comlpicated as hell.

I learnt so many things about female bodylanguage and its useless as shit. first few minutes
they're pissed off and could cross they're arm. but few minutes later they were into me. and one time i saw this girl just casual body language (even casual micro expression!) and from the blue she SLAPPED me! I didnt offended her any possible way!

I focus on only my bodylanguage now. I'm the action. I dont live in reaction. isnt it true purpose of being so called alpha males ?
Author:  poeticlyskuac [ Sun Mar 24, 2013 1:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Becoming Natural for newbies
Quote:
@poeticlyskuac
sorry man. I know your most videos based on bodylanguage, but theres no right way or wrong way.


As I said- confidence comes from experience, experience comes from action, action comes from momentum.
Therefore knowing too much about female bodylanguage makes MOST NEWBIES REACTION BASED. Living in reaction doesnt help with momentum, and thus for no action.

Its for newbies man. As you start taking action and expressing your best self to people you will realize thinking about micro management and next line is waste of energy and time, also comlpicated as hell.

I learnt so many things about female bodylanguage and its useless as shit. first few minutes
they're pissed off and could cross they're arm. but few minutes later they were into me. and one time i saw this girl just casual body language (even casual micro expression!) and from the blue she SLAPPED me! I didnt offended her any possible way!

I focus on only my bodylanguage now. I'm the action. I dont live in reaction. isnt it true purpose of being so called alpha males ?

Yeah, it's not about caring so much that your game is completely I should act this way, it's more oh shit that girl didn't like this topic or man she wants to fuck. It's about understanding her.

Do I think you should be persistent regardless? Yes but that doesn't make body language information useless. When we practice our best game we hear no sometimes and then keep bull shitting and come back to it and she says no again and then again then she says yes.

At the same time, learning to read her body language is essential to being able to gauge escalation and getting there at the right speed, overstepping bounds a little because of her strong attraction. Or using it to become more attractive for that matter.

Microexpressions are an 1/8th of a second dude, perhaps you missed that microexpression. If her face showed casual that doesn't mean her microsexpression did. Unless you were staring at her to the point where she was uncomfortable I would very much doubt you seen all of her microexpressions. A lot of girls are good at faking a neutral/happy face and you miss the actual thing her body language is saying. Knowing a lot of body language doesn't mean you are using it intelligently.

You thinking she had no reason to slap you doesn't mean you didn't offend her and missed the signs. I know the instant a woman has a reaction, when is that instant? As soon as something provokes her. It could have been something you said, you standing to close, you looked her in the tits, you were over reading her.

It's not just about reading her attraction, it's also about reading her thoughts. Understanding her emotions and where she is coming from so you can connect with her on a level most guys never touch.

Do you honestly think that you see every sign a girl shows? I know I don't and it's all completely subconscious at this point for me. I think newbs should instill it into their subconscious so that they just know when a girl is attracted, when she is very attracted, when she is uncomfortable, etc. Most guys that are bad at pick up are social retards, and thus need help reading and understand people this is why body language is so important.

Can you honestly say body language has hurt your game? Or do you think your obsessive mental masturbation did? I know when I used body language improperly it hurt my game immensely, but when I just used it as a tool to understand how attracted she was, or to understand I offended her or discovered her passion it helped immensely.

I think everyone should start with inner game, then learn to just have a conversation, then learn to escalate, and then finally learn body language now a days, but that is because of most newbs low self-esteem. They take it personally when they don't build attraction, how they feel about themselves is unfortunately too outer based.

Reading women is a big deal when it comes to seduction, but no less important than having confidence and self-esteem unrelated to their attraction (not being needy). A fantastic seducer understands body language, he knows how to come in at the right level, he knows how to tell her(ton wise) what she wants to hear, he knows how she feels, he knows what to say based off of all of this.... so do I think your statement is a bit of bull shit? Absolutely, how can it not be since seduction is reactive and not just based on you escalating to quickly or not quickly enough (friend zone sound familiar?). It is about doing what you want to do, don't get me wrong but it is also about doing it when you are allowed to.

Peace and Love,

Vic
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